Girls, Girls: would you feel bad if your boyfriend felt this way?

[Anonymous]

After proposing to you and getting a "yes." your boyfriend has been very upset and has been feeling a bit heartbroken because he feels you did not seem that happy and excited. He has been really deeply upset because he feels you aren't that excited and happy to be engaged to him and to get married. He was so excited to get a really good reason and see how happy you were but you did not seem that happy and he has been feeling like shit.

Yes i would feel bad and guilty

I would feel bad but not guilty

No i would not feel bad or guilty

[JulyAndrews]

No I would not feel guilty or bad because the other person thinks you SHOULD respond in a certain way to a proposal. She said yes, what more did you expect? Tears, jumping up and down, being hysterical? Come on dude. To get worked up about this is a little over the top.

[BellePepper]

If I said yes and he was still bent out of shape, I would nope out. I cannot deal with that kind of drama or policing of my emotions. I am not responsible for his mental health. I'm the type of girl who has zero patience for that sort of thing.

[Asker]

So did you click no in the poll?

[BellePepper]

Well. I commented that I wouldn't feel bad here and there's only one person who said no so...

For heaven's sake. Yes I did click "no I would not feel bad or guilty."

[Asker]

Quite often people will make an opinion but not answer the poll. and what the hell is with the aggression?

[BellePepper]

Because it's a silly question. Like I could understand if there were multiple voters or if my answer was unclear.

[SilenRose]

I can't speak for your situation but if it was me I'd feel bad and guilty because I was still unsure if I want to marry him.

[Anonymous]

Just speak to her! It doesn't matter what other women feel it would do, it matters what she feels.

[Emilinda]

Be a man and talk to her, it can never hurt. If you love your gonna make sure she'd always happy.

[Anonymous]

Yes i would feel bad and guilty