I think you said in another question or post that you don’t feel comfortable socializing with people you don’t know very well - I have similar issues with not feeling comfortable but for me it’s not a shyness thing, it’s a fear I will lose my privacy and control over my reputation. I think it’s important that you try to diversify your social life, have at least 1-2 female friends you can go to for emotional adjustment if you are feeling needy because putting too much tension on your lover to respond to you and be your emotional anchor will cause a loss of autonomy and appreciation for each other, I’m not saying your wrong, but you need friends to fall back on to maintain a deeper sense of independence, it will lessen your pain.
I wouldn't feel bad. I’d feel enraged. I wouldn't call him out but i keep receipts of everything. When things blow over, im naming everything he fcked up on
I'm not a girl (last I checked, at least), but I'd probably assume he had trouble getting to sleep (or staying asleep), decided to do something productive with his time, and either figured that you were asleep or that he didn't want to take up all of YOUR time. Why would he do something timestamped if he knew you would see it and was trying to hide it?
I wouldn't worry about him blowing you off just based on this. When judging the behavior of someone in a relationship, it's easy to put too much importance on single details, but you'll get a more accurate impression if you look at the big picture.
You do have to take it less personally because there is a couple of other possibilities. He could have fully intended on going to bed and got distracted and hadn't got there yet (has that ever happened to you?). Or, maybe did but couldn't get to sleep? Or like some women have said, maybe just needed some "down time" before he went.
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Maybe he changed his mind? Maybe he couldn't sleep? ... Maybe he was falling asleep to the movie? ... This is one of those social media pitfalls, where checking up on someone & presumption lead to bad feelings.
In this case, I'd take the high road & let it go --& not bring it up.
Nothing to worry about. He probably would be tired and tried to sleep, but couldn't, so he stayed awake probably. But i generally get pissed at this type of behavior, because i observe everything clearly.
I usually never ignore or avoid people like that, i just tell them that we will talk tomorrow (or any other day).
sometimes when people say they're going to bed, they mean they're going to lie in bed and unwind. He didn't lie, he just didn't immediately fall asleep.
Sounds like he needed some time to himself. That is normal. I would try not to read too much into it. Sometimes people just need “me” time and don’t know how to say it.
Sometimes i feel ur so in love or into him and he is kinda bored of you. Dont get me wrong i just think that since you post most stuff about him not doing or ignoring u.
Heading to bed, doesn't always mean going to sleep. Could be that he wanted some time alone before sleep. It happens. Then again, I don't know.
Don't smother him. Yes, he's your boyfriend, but he's still a sovereign person. You shouldn't make him feel like he's living in jail. If he wants to watch a movie, let him watch a movie. He doesn't have to tell you everything.
Well yeah, he basically thought to himself "Don't wanna hear from her for a little while and just watch a movie"
Bit rude, but yeah
i would say he was likely tired and tried to sleep but couldn't when he went to bed. it happens. like i;ll feel very tired and go to bed and for some reason i just can't sleep.
As a guy, I like to make things straight with a girl or woman when I'm dating
them and be honest with them
I think he was tired but couldn't fall asleep so he went on line. That has happened to me multiple times.
Maybe he went to bed but couldn't sleep happens to me all the time hun
What time was it? Maybe he woke up in the middle?
I would be upset if my girlfriend did this to me. I will ask why.
I think you're taking it too personally
What did d he say after you caught him?
I think that's usual for many guys
Sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night...
LOL maybe u smothering hin
He can watch a movie in bed can’t he
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