Can anyone offer advice or opinions? Thanks so much.
Boyfriends mom is obsessed with him and jealous of me?
Can anyone offer advice or opinions? Thanks so much.
This is actually really creepy, as she is his mother. However this could be her way of trying to pull him closer, she sees that he's not her baby anymore and another girl is taking over the whole "looking after" him aka you. Maybe she feels as if she resembles you he will show more affection, but there's a huge line between affection to your parents and affection to your partner. I honestly would try to save up and move out just the two of you, I know it's hard but it seems like she is very stubborn and if you confronted her about this, she would be the type to think you're crazy and only end up worse. She's literally acting like a child, it isn't your boyfriends responsibility to make sure she's not "lonely" and "lost", he isn't her spouse. I definitely would bring it up to his dad, how does she act when he comes home?
She needs to be told what she's doing is stepping over that boundry with her son but at least he can see what she's doing and can admit what she is doing is wrong as if he didn't see anything wrong then you would have a hard time with this guy you both need to get out dont know how you can put up with that she sounds desperate.. if your boyfriend is 100 % on your side then get out of that house asap and just go and visit every so often she will drain you if you stay any longer
You are doing the right thing by giving this problem to his dad.
i am constantly amazed by the gathering of mixed nuts that share this planet. There are a lot of normal people. The whack-ohs are increasing in numbers at warp speed. What is going on these days?
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