Teacher fever does he like me or not or is he jealous?

[Shay565346]

Okay so I’m going to make this short and sweet if I can so my boyfriends brother used to be my teacher and he was freaking hot I used to pick on him all the time when he taught me in 7th grade which has been a while ago. I used to spray him with perfume and give him hugs (cringe) he would admire my smell when I sprayed it on him he would bury his nose in the scent and I never got into trouble. I used to talk to him almost every day after school. okay well I had this huge crush on him I even friended him on fb and insta.

So I used to stalk him everyday. Lol I know obsessed. But now I’m older and wanna be friends. I’m also dating his brother. And every-time I’m over at my boyfriends parents house his brother sometimes smiles and says hi to me or bye to me. He also will try to stare at me also. But he blocked me on everything which I don’t know why. When me and my boyfriend are in the guest room sleeping his brother leaves the door open and watches us sleep.

Cause I wake up and the door is open. And I asked his mom if she opened it she said no she was sleeping so it was his brother. Now ever since I date his brother he blocked me. But he still does stuff. For example he kept walking in and out of a room and I could see him looking at me. And sometimes he says bye to me and hi to me and smiles and i shockingly say hi to him. And my boyfriend is jealous of him.

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Also when I was over I told my boyfriend to massage my back on the couch and his brother gave my boyfriend a dirty look

[Vikkrram]

You know what i had a crush on girl She lives in my apartment she is 5 years younger than me. But my inner voice said to me that it is not right to have a crush on a girl who is Younger than u almost 5 years. Sometimes it also felt to me that she was even had a crush on me. But nothing got sorted out coz i never chatted with her. Nor i even have the guts and i am like a super shy kinda guy... and i know girls like confident one, not dumb as me. 😅😅 Sometime i tried to gave her signals... she even get that... but nothing happens.

But after i realize that i am doing all wrong and i shouldn't do that coz she is younger than me and she has not much of maturity like i have. So now what i did is i have completely cutted myself from her. I didn't try even to cross her paths. It has been 2 months since we have seen each other... and we live in a same apartment. And secondly I don't want to make her uncomfortable and i didn't want a tag of creepy guy...

I have feelings for her... a lot but it is better to hide it and do not try to cross her paths as mucha as i can 🙂

[Shay565346]

Well i used to have feelings but they are gone

[Vikkrram]

So early... it took years and months to moove on... but.. if you have really forgotten him then it's good. Maybe... you never had feelings for him... You were just... attracted towards him.

[dhinchak]

He's got feelings for you, and he wants to talk to you.

People do these things when they love to hate someone. And that is the most intense feeling there can be. It is more passionate than even love.

I don't think he's jealous. Your boyfriend might be, but his brother is not. He just wants you and his signals are all over the place.

He's blocked you because he wants it to be real physically. The reason he keeps watching you is because he's literally keeping the door open for you. He says those hi's and byes smiling so you know that he hasn't lost interest in you.

I think he has been fantasizing about you from those early years when he tutored you, but somehow waited too long to ask you out. Now he's regretting it and that's making him love hating you.

It's a complex emotion, so it's ok if you didn't get it. But it's important to talk it out with the brother (the one that's not your boyfriend), if it's making you uncomfortable or restlessly curious.

[Shay565346]

This makes a lot of sense. What’s funny is he started teaching us as soon as he got out of college so he was young. We would always prank him and he didn’t even care. I just thought it was weird that he blocked me because honestly I never talked to the guy on social media.

[Shay565346]

Well I’m afraid to talk to him.

[dhinchak]

You don't need to talk about his feelings. Just confront him about the door thing. I think that would be enough for him to come clean about whatever is on his mind.

And there's no need to be scared. If you don't have any feelings for him now, you can just tell him that you were a kid back then and hence what's in the past, is in the past.

If he troubles you any further than this point, you can always bring in your boyfriend.

[Shay565346]

Well it’s werid about the door thing like me and my boyfriend were sleeping the next thing you know I wake up and the door is open but my boyfriend shut it before we took a nap. And I think he blocked me because I hurt him because I’m with his brother so he doesn’t want to see us together.

[Shay565346]

My boyfriend is so jealous of his brother that we I need to shower my boyfriend wants me to go first I guess because I leave my stuff in the shower and his brother might do something to it. And sometimes when I leave my duffle bag in the guest room it’s usually messed with.

[dhinchak]

Do you think he could be dangerous? Like he can turn violent or something?

[Shay565346]

Omg no he is super friendly he does mission trips.

[dhinchak]

So then there's nothing to be afraid of. Just be yourself amd ask him about the door just like you asked his mom a few days back. Nothing wrong or problematic in that.

[doopayo]

How are you friending your teacher in 7th grade? I’m pretty sure that’s illegal

[Shay565346]

Well he didn’t mind he was young when he started

[molonski2]

Ohh no , little doubt , teacher still wants you , he is jealous and pissed off and wants to move into the massage room , you are freaken LUCKY they are not twins , hed be all over you.. No doubt , he's packing a package big time for you , Rise in those Levi's..

[Shay565346]

Well I mean lol 😂

[Iron_Man]

That’s creepy watching you sleep all night the brother

[Shay565346]

Yes it is

[Shay565346]

We were sleeping in the day time at like 3 and he probably pushed the door open I don't know lol

[Iron_Man]

Put a stop to it

[Shay565346]

I’ll try but my boyfriends parents don’t like the door shut all the way

[Shay565346]

He’s probably jealous

[Iron_Man]

You don't have your own place to live?

[Shay565346]

No we don’t unfortunately.

[Iron_Man]

Sorry about that all of it

[888theGreat]

You still want him

[Shay565346]

No but I think he wants me