So I blew up at my boyfriend for putting me on the back burner when we needed to have a much needed conversation. He went out with his best buddy one night, after he had told me he was only going out for a bit then will call me. It turned into 3 hours, no follow up letting me know his plan. I felt like my needs didn't matter. I called him to ask what he was doing, in which he coldly responded, I'm going home. He sounded like he had been drinking, which he promised he wouldn't do so we could talk. I got really upset and hung up on him. He expressed his anger about that and now is avoiding my offers to talk and settle things down. What can I do to get him to talk to me? Should I just stop all contact and let him come to me? If I keep apologizing he won't ever understand how he's hurt me. Any suggestions? And please be kind with your responses.
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Update... ok so I went against everyone's advice (yeah, I know) and sent him a FB message. He agreed to talk tonite. It was something that just couldn't wait. Plus I'm a very persistent person. Lol. I just want us to be back to where things were, no drama, no tension.
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