In Summary: -Monday at the gym, working out. Some girl approached me to help me put a plate on a machine. - Chat for a bit, get number. - Texts me. We agree to have sex. - Go over at her place, we fuck, came on her face. - I leave. - The next morning I get texts about how she has a boyfriend of 9 years and a kid. - wants to see me again. - How do I get out of this mess. Do I aware the dude or not? - I'm tempted to go NC and disappear for good.
Pics of her: (Don't have face pics because she didn't want to add me, probably because she has pics of her and boyfriend and kid):
"Don't think of me as a cheater." "I want to stay with my daughter and her dad." "Eventually I will get married with him." "All I'm asking for is some good sex, like we had Thursday." "Don't think of me as a whore." "I'll let you do anything you want to me." "He's never gonna know anything he always works night shifts." "Most of my girlfriends do the same thing with their boyfriends." "Don't think of me as a cheater."
Direct quotes from a woman in a relationship of 9 years, with a daughter, who let a dude from the gym use her and nut on her face simply because he was hot, and now wants more of the same.
Smashed a girl with a boyfriend of 9 years and a kid. GAG Please get me out of this mess. Should I aware BF?
How do I get out of this mess? ---simple stop talking to her
do you tell the dude? -- that's up to you. don't feel like I have an opinion. I personally would want to know if I were the guy. but you inserting yourself into the situation could get messy for you
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-Stop talking to a girl who goes to same gym as me. Gonna be tricky.
Either continue and accept her kid or help her getting over her friend, if she breaks up with him or just let it go. "Short encounter". A reason to go NC on her.
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She's an adult and your the same so do the adult thing and tell her that she has baggage and you cannot accept her on or off relationship with her boyfriend. Done.
oh hell no--- not your problem to have to deal with. Unless her boyfriend catches on to your hooking up. It is her responsibility to come clean with him.
I can't really go NC cause she's just signed up at my gym for one year... So I can't really disappear. Good thing is that she doesn't know where I live.
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