How to know if your guy friend is falling for you?

[Anonymous]

What are some signs that he would be falling for me. Im trying to figure it out but I dont want to make a move because im not sure. He hugs me from behind sometimes, talks to me sexually, says he finds me attractive and what not. he also makes jokes about making out and what ever. He cares about me too, like he lets me vent. He also told me he has no clue how to talk to girls and what not. Those are just a few things he does. I can't tell if he is just being a nice guy and a good friend or if he is into me. He is about 9 years older than me so I dont know if age can play a factor in behavior.

[falafelany1]

Sounds flirty to me. Unfortunately some people are just very flirtatious with every one which makes it more confusing. Try flirting back and see how he responds. If he seems into it then he probably likes you. Maybe ask him how he feels or confess your own feelings.

[Asker]

He flirts with no one which is why its weird. No one ever does this to me or says certain sexual things to me. im new at it and confused.

[falafelany1]

I am not good at flirting either. He probably does like you. For example when he hugs you from behind you can react in different ways. Do you stand there and let him hug you? If you want to flirt back then when his arms are around you kind of rub his hands slowly and maybe nuzzle your face with his. Definitely find a way to let him know you think he is attractive if you have not already.

[Asker]

The few times he's done that he either grabbed me and pulled me in real quick. Or he came up behind me while I was preoccupied and gently threw his hands around my neck and chest. I couldn't do anything because I was working.

[annie2016]

He might wants you to be his friends with benefits. Try to really figure it out.

[farazzk]

he'd be finding out ways to be with you, and most importantly his eyes will open wide while talking to you.

[Anonymous]

Watch out for his body language

[Asker]

What would be sure fire body language?