When should I tell a girl I love her?

[Anonymous]

For the future of course. I just really wanted to know because some people say it really early and some really late.

Less then A year

Less then six months

Less then 3 months

Two years or less

[mwin2030]

You should tell her you love her when you feel you love her. No sooner. No later. Life is too short to worry over the RIGHT time of when you should say something to the one you care for and the one you love. You don't have tomorrow; you were never promised another moment of life, another day, month, year, or ten years. You only truly have this moment in time for you to both endure and cherish all at the same time. Therefore, if you love someone---tell them that you love them and tell them now, before life or chance, or even fate prevents you from ever uttering those words and then once you are gone the person you leave behind shall never know how you felt. Do you really want to shoulder the burden of such misery? I would not. I hope you or anyone would not either. If you love this girl you speak about then go tell her love her. Tell her the moment, the instant you feel such strong emotions for another, because once you're gone----you are forever out of time.

That's my bottom line.

[siraptor]

thank you, she said it back

[Jnerdy97]

There's really not a set time to say it. Just say it when you actually mean it. Don't say it just to make her happy or to flirt with her.

[btbc92]

When you understand what the real. meaning of love is, when your willing to sacrifice your wants for her needs and you throw that word around casually and you have become a mature man. There is no time limit to say it. There is a time and place for that, but always make your intentions clear. It has to come from your heart and not just your nind. As long as you have logical and reasonable reasons why you love her, it will turn out okay.

[lovydoey]

There are no rules when it comes to dating. U either feel it or u don't. Some people take forever some do it immediately. It all depends, do u feel in that moment that u love them, then say it. But there is no book of steps one should follow. Just follow by what u feel and experience.

[lumos]

There's no time frame for love. You tell her when you feel it. And if you have to ask yourself if you feel it, or when to tell her, then you don't really love her yet.

[bomba78]

When you feel like you'll explode if you don't say it. Just to be safe, I'd put in a 1-2 month wait. Sometimes our hormones get the best of us and cloud our judgment

[Agirlwithalemon]

You'll know when it's time. One day you'll feel this feeling in your chest and it will feel like no other. I always feel like I'm the first person to fall in love. It's such a bad thing. Lol.

[katieschlesener]

I said it before my boyfriend and I were together and he said it back. We've been together for almost 6 months now. I don't think it matters when you say it, but say it when you mean it

[Undress]

My boyfriend said ''I love you'' after 3 weeks after we got serious, we are still together now and deeply in love, so love doesn't wait! say it when you feel it!

[BertMacklinFBI]

you're both minors

[Undress]

@BertMacklinFBI 18 soon he's 19

[Pinky26]

If you feel like you really love her, go ahead and tell her. There's no specific time to show your feelings.

[TheLuckyPizzaDog]

Wait a while, 3-6 months, to get over the honeymoon period of a new relationship. Then after that, just say it whenever you realize it's true.

[alice55]

When you feel it... Isn't obvious? You have no rules about it. In my country when someone kiss another people it mean they're in love and they get together. So this happen very fast here.

[Jxpxtxr]

I don't believe it's sincere coming from someone I've been with for only 3 months tbh - after a year it's more believable

[Carley99]

There are no rules when it comes to saying the "L" word what matters is that you mean it when you say it

[DizzyDesii]

I say 6 months to a year, but I have said it before within 3 months.

[Meg1548]

Depends on when you can say it and 100% mean it, if you don't mean it at 5 years, don't say it

[TuMeManques]

I say as soon as you generally feel it. I'm not about wasting time.

[MrQuick]

Say it when you mean it. Don't play any games and don't say it to hear it in return.

[Liisjak]

Between here and never? I mean you're 18, wait and see how it plays out, there's no need to throw emotional bombs.

[Unit1]

Not sure bro. I never have :/

I would only say it when I mean it.

[Usersame]

I'd say half a year, but wait for her to say it first.

[Anonymous]

When you're ready to. Love isn't impacted by time, but by whom you're seeing.

[Sara413]

When that's what you feel.

[BR0CK]

How did this get a dislike legit this is one of the most logical answers

[Outofthegrey]

12 minutes into the first date.

[JulieXO]

Less than 6 months is too early I think