First of let me say there must be a lot of blind women out there because you sound like a great guy. Its hard to tell why a girl wouldn't want a serious relationship with you. You say you find a lot of girls that just want sex. That could be because 1) that's what they're looking for right now or 2) the relationship got physical too soon. I'd not saying wait 6 months or anything. All I'm saying is if you find a girl that seems awesome and you want more than just sex with her, let her know that you want to take things a bit slower because she means something to you. You also said a lot of the girls you meet are basically party animals. This could be because you're looking in all the wrong places. Think about it. Girls aren't going to go to a crazy wild party and drink like crazy because they want to find love. Those girls just want to have a good time. You'd be better off finding someone you work with or know through family or friends for example. As far as the ones that just want to be friends, why not take time to develop some great friendships with them? I'm a huge believer in falling in love with your best friend because you have such a great foundation. You might be surprised when your girl friend starts developing stronger feelings for you one day. As tough as it sounds, just be patient. Trust be I know how bad that sucks but the best relationships I've had have been when I stopped trying so hard and just let it happen. I really wish you good luck. Hope this helped! =)
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wow. umm. maybe your looking in all the wrong places. girls do not going to a party looking for a meaniful relationship. I think these things take time, its not gonna happen automically. you should try dating, I'm not really sure where to look but keep in mind you could meet that girl anywhere. life is all about trial and error, its not always gonna be perfect. I don't think your standards are too high, you're just meeting all the wrong girls. try having friendships with these girls and see where that takes you. I think if you stop trying so hard to find what you're looking for then it will happen. good luck. hope I helped.
I feel u I hope to find the right one to ! It's not easy and I get it for me it's a big turn off when all they want is sex ! I think twice about making her my wife
You are too picky, high standards or too many requirements, its gona take a while to find someone you like, keep looking and maybe lower the standards a little
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First off I have to say that you sound like a great guy and I think a lot of girls would love to be with you. But girls who are at those types of parties are not looking for relationships all they want to do is "hook up" with some one at that party. If you want to find a girl, like the one you described, go to a place you like or some where that a lot of people are and I think you'll be able to find the right girl. It's not going to happen immediatly of course... but I do think it will happen. Just keep trying. I wish you best of luck.
Because they might have a feeling you deserve better than them. and... I don't know what else to say...
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