My boyfriend and I dated for three years, on and off. I broke up with him the first time because we had doubts, but he fought for about 8 months to get me back, until I finally gave in. Being with him made the doubts go away, and I was suddenly incredibly attracted to him, but it scared me because I didn't know if he did anything behind my back while we were broken up and I was afraid that he doesn't love me or need me. I kept trying to test him to see if it would push him away, because I felt like I wanted him to never leave me and I wanted to make sure that no matter what I did, he would still want to be with me because he understands me and loves me.
Well, he broke up with me last week, and I am miserable. He did it through a text message and said that he just has too many problems and that he is not the right fit for me. In the past, he told me that he thinks i am too good for him. Could it be because of that?
I am struggling between my pride and just swallowing it to talk to him to get some answers and see if we could salvage anything. What should I do? I don't want to seem desperate but I love him so much and want another chance. I feel like he hates me and wants nothing to do with me. I blew it :(
Well, he broke up with me last week, and I am miserable. He did it through a text message and said that he just has too many problems and that he is not the right fit for me. In the past, he told me that he thinks i am too good for him. Could it be because of that?
I am struggling between my pride and just swallowing it to talk to him to get some answers and see if we could salvage anything. What should I do? I don't want to seem desperate but I love him so much and want another chance. I feel like he hates me and wants nothing to do with me. I blew it :(
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That sounds like a complete mess. I have never heard of a relationship with that much turmoil actually working out. I suggest that you make a conscious decision right now to start the process of moving on (that means stop contact with him). If he still wants to be with you, in time he will realize you have moved on and probably make an attempt to get you back. If that happens, then you can decide what you want to do.
You could try talking it out with him. Sounds like you both have some serious issues to work through. It just depends on whether you want the relationship to work.
Yes you should swallow your pride and talk to him about this.