My boyfriend says he needs time to clear his mind.

[Anonymous]

I have been dating him for a month and told me that he loves me. We did move a little fast. we are still together but he tells me he needs a little space and time to clear his head. What should I do?

[defiantdragonfly]

Be supportive and loving and give him the time and space to clear his head. Take some for yourself as well. Hang out with your girls and have a spa day, clean your house, go for a run. Don't stress it, don't analyze it, just go with it. Plus superbowl is coming up, always a great party day!

[Asker]

that makes since.. but he still talks to me and tells me he loves me so things are gonna be fine

[defiantdragonfly]

Men need "cave time" just like women need "girl time". I do the same thing. There are times I can't abide hanging out with anyone, let alone my boyfriend, but I still say hi to him on a daily basis, he knows that I need my space, just like I know he needs his. Its good for everyone, plus it gives you something new to talk about when he comes up for air :)

[Asker]

Yeah that's true. This is hard but ill get through it. He hasn't moved out completly. I know he will be back..

[Anonymous]

I'm in the same exact situation right now, and my boyfriend and I have only been together for a month too. It sucks, but all we can do is wait it out, if you really want to be with him, unless he makes it obvious that he wants to be single, or has moved on to someone else.

[stercor]

Leave him be.

Move on.

[Anonymous]

give him space that he requested

[fayfay]

let him have his time support him

[Anonymous]

Start looking for another one.