I rarely get asked, but when I am asked I do not mind at all. I am what I am. what difference does it make if someone asks. its just an objective fact. its not like asking someone what they are thinking.
funny girls often want o dig into someones private thoughts, but a Q about weight which is rather public since she is with her weight in public, is so much of an issue. I think its silly. You weigh what you weigh whether anyone asks or not.
I doubt if you were comfortable with your weight you would mind being asked. maybe you are comfortable enough as long as you do not have to talk about it.
I would not be a weight I was embarrassed to talk about. just like I would not share thoughts I am embarrassed to think. I would not have friends whos opinions embarrass me. Just like I would not wear something I am embarrassed to war just like I would not work for an employer who was doing something I did not support. etc etc
If someone asks my weight, its part of me, I like me, so I am fine with it. On the other hand, unless we are going to wrestle or box, dance or he wants to pick me up, I do not see why they care but w/e..
I don't mind if they ask, but I don't feel obligated to answer either, if I don't want to, haha.
I think I actually volunteered my weight to my boyfriend though, because we were discussing his past relationships. He'd said that normally he goes for girls that are built both a bit bigger and taller than I am, rarely anyone under 200 pounds. By his standards, I'm apparently 'itty bitty', lol, but that he'd never been so into and so attracted to someone my size. I informed him that I only weigh maybe 15 pounds under that, and he didn't believe me. He said he'd have guessed me closer to like 165 or something. I just laughed at him.
If it was like part of a conversation, I would be OK with it. Like if we were talking about fitness or he told me how much he weighed etc.
But if a guy just randomly asked me how much I weighed, I would probably be weirded out because I would wonder why he was asking. Did he think I'm too fat or skinny or something?
But I think that for most guys, they should really know better because girls tend to be sensitive about their weight but I dunno. Guys can be kinda clueless sometimes, so I would think it was weird, but try not to worry about it.
It is not polite to ask older women their age...younger women do not mind..and many younger women actually prefer when you think they are older than they actually are...however weight is a different thing...you just simply do not ask a woman her weight...unless it is required...
I have noticed that I have also become a little more embarrassed about my weight...I was getting my tuxedo measured for my cousins wedding in September...and I could tell I was hesitating to get the answer out to the woman who needed it for the measurements..I guess I have become sensitive about it..just like women...and I am only 22...
If you like him doing lifts with you, then tell all ... it's a dance thing that many gals like.
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It's generally a rule of thumb to never outright ask a woman her age or her weight... It's just rude. So I can understand why you're a little peeved over it.
But with that said, whenever people guess my weight they're always wrong and guess too low. I always get told I look like I weigh 100-110 pounds and it's laughable. So I always enjoy telling people I weigh 120 pounds and seeing their reactions. But I can understand if it's the opposite for other girls. For me, it's fine by me and I wouldn't care.
I don't think it would bother me. I guess I'd want to understand why he was asking. It's not like I ask a guy how much he weights cause their weight numbers mean nothing to me. I don't process their weights the same as I would if a girl told me her weight. I guess it's because my frame of reference is different.
i don't think in my life I've ever asked a girl her weight. that's one really bad idea as a guy.
What does he need to know for? If he is using me to help him workout that's fine. I do not like telling guys my weight cause they snicker and make childish jokes. I find it to be useless information and rude. What is he sizing me up or something?
I don't mind a guy asking my weight...its just a number.Its what you look like that counts.Sometimes there is a direct correlation between the two,sometimes one that shouldn't be discussed.
Not really it just makes me feel uncomfortable because I'm afraid he'll think I'm anorexic or something
i thought it was pretty much a general rule that a guy should never ask a girl her weight? kinda like how you don't ask anyone over 25 how old they are...
I've never been asked my weight before. If someone asked, I'd have no problem telling them though.
no, as long as you're a healthy weight it shouldn't matter
He is your boyfriend and you don't feel comfortable telling him these types of things?
umm yeah its not thier buissness
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