My boyfriend says I am not passionate enough. How do I express passion?

[Anonymous]

I have for like 7 months been together with my boyfriend, but he keeps telling me that I am not passionate enough, that I do not express passion in the relationship. He is my first boyfriend and I am not sure how I am supposed to express this passion. I am a bit insecure about initiating sex for instance, but I have no problem by cuddling and kissing spontaneously or in public.

He has always told me I don't seem passionate, but I am afraid he is getting bored of this.

Help?

[Anonymous]

A) He should be clear in explaining to you what he thinks would be "passionate" behavior and what he expects of you.

B) It's possible that you two aren't compatible or that he just needs to be more accepting of the fact that people are different. There's nothing wrong with you if you aren't "passionate" in the same way that he is or the way that he wants you to be. Some people are more or less emotional than others. (Do either of you know your MBTI personality types?) Some people are looking for different levels of physical intimacy in relationships. People have different "love languages" and communicate differently. I might suggest that the two of you discuss your differences and what you each want in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Ask him what he wants you to do in order to be passionate?..

you need to know from him, I think he need you to be more clingy or in need of him

[carol85]

passion on what? In the bedroom or out?