Look, his bad temper aside, why do you think he should make a contact if it's you who dumped him? I'm currently in his situation, my boyfriend dumped me (over my bad temper episode also, but it's not my point), it was such a sudden break up, and I'm so hurt and wondering if he misses me at all. He dumped me, so if he wants to talk he should initiate a contact imho. Although it's a slightly different situation then yours: since he disappeared he called once and said his disappearance had nothing to do with that stupid thing I said and that we'd see each other tomorrow... He lied, he never called after that..
Btw, I also wonder why you say "he hasn't made an attempt to contact me", but mention an email he sent to you? Email is a contact attempt too. If you haven't answered it sounds like HE'S waiting now for your to contact him..
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You're better off! I dated and had a child with a man who acted this way. It only grew worse through the years and did end up becoming physical. Be proud of yourself that you left when you did. A bad temper is never good, and he should definatley seek help in changing. As for him not contacting you... that's for the best. You left, so his pride is defeated. Let it be. Maybe he will learn from this; that he can't treat people with anger and be able to keep them in his life. And, it's not to say he doesn't care for you. I'm sure he did. He may have just realized all the damaged he has caused and know it's best to leave you to your own road for now. So, be strong..move on...and be proud. :)
Looks like your ex-boyfriend has accepted the breakup and moved on... and you should too.
I know this may hurt to realize this, but maybe he was being so agressive and bad-tempered because he wanted to break up but he didn't want to be the one to do it?
And from your side... c'mon, he acted like a total jerk! He threw your stuff out and he has an awful temper! Just because he hasn't hit you yet, doesn't mean it won't ever happen, that's how generally people with bad tempers progress... do you really want a future and raising kids around an aggressive man? I don't think so.
it sounds as if he couldn't give a care less- so if he had a bad temper- then you don't want a girl like that, that's putting you and your well being at risk- weather he hit you or not. IF HE SERCRETLY INFERIATED YOU IN THAT CASE- don't defend him just forget him. Genuine guys are rare I can tell you that, but there are plenty to go around, find one- you'll knw if it feel right. k? happy to help, hope I have. and plus I'm aguy teling you this not a girl- so take it from me- it sounds that you could seriously do much better. ;) not many guys confess or say tht, he isn't worth it.
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why would he? you broke up, he's moved on, you move on
He sounds mental.
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