I don't like my boyfriend's sister

[Jayy210]

So I kind of have a problem with my boyfriend's sister. I don't like her. When my boyfriend moved out and moved in with me she started hating me because I "took him away from her". When my boyfiend saw I was talking to some guy(AS A FRIEND) he got mad and posted it and then his sister told me I better watch y back calling me a slut. My boyfriend recently got fired on the day I was at his job and his sister started telling him it was my fault he got fired(I already felt like it was) Whenever he sticks up for me it just seems to make her hate me more. I can't stand her I have tried to be nice to her but now I don't want to have anything to do with her anymore. Whenever he wants me to come and go visit his family with him now, I don't want to go cause I can't stand his sister. PLEASE, tell me what to do?):

[Sw128hur]

I've been through the same thing. Besides the fact that he is my ex now but his Sis was making up stuff about me. So I know where your coming from. But honestly I will be truthful with you if he is close with his family and his sister which it kinda sounds like he is. One day they will start to get the better of him and he will start to change his mind about you. My advice is even though you absolutely don't like the sister make amends with her. And tell her your sorry if she felt you were taking him away. I always say go with her before you go against her.

Than you don't worry about losing him. And your not making him feel awkward when he wants to take you to the family. Or when he brings up his Sis. Hope this helped.

[Jayy210]

Like I've never told him anything bad about his sister because I know how close they are. I've tried taking her out but shed just give me attitude and tell me that I don't deserve her brother. Like his mom loves me but his sister is starting to tell her stuff. I told her how I was sorry for taking him away because I knew how close they were and she just told me "I'm not going to pretend to like you." Like I'm done trying to be friends with her I just don't want to say anything because of my bf...

[marlen]

Yes just ignore her! what I believe she's trying to do is push you away..of course I didn't feel comfortable bcus his sister hated me! and that made me not want to get near his family or going to visit..i couldn't even have a conversation because she would always be there trying to interupt or do anything stupid to make me feel embarased or awkward..i just ignored her and it seemed to work. she did notice that I didn't care and it would get to her but I kept ignoring!

[Jayy210]

Yeahh? Thankyou I hope it works):

[marlen]

ive been kinda through the same situation. The best thing I did was IGNORE the sister but I woul get along with the rest of the family..and by getting along with the rest of his family, his sister would get more mad or jealous I would say..i didn't let it bother me as much bcus I really loved my guy!

[Jayy210]

Yeah I get along with the rest of his fam but just not her! I have tried to be nice just for my man but she always treated me badly. Now I don't want to even be around her...But I should ignore her huh?

[emrefidan]

until recently i have the same problem, my sister dont get along with my girlfriend but problem solved in time. Just make sure talk to her politely. Problem cause by basicly my sister some how wants to protect me. This happens close familys.

[BlackDynamite83]

Sounds shady you talking to other guys and getting him fired naybe she right to hate you.