I don't enjoy kissing my boyfriend anymore. Weird question but..

[candacedieker]

I don't enjoy kissing my boyfriend anymore? I love making out and kissing and at the beginning of the relationship, I loved it and now I try to avoid it! Him and I have been having relationship problems, so that might play a factor in it but I just can't stand the thought of it, it's totally not like me! Advice please?:)

[Anonymous]

Talk to him and resolve your issues. If you don't talk to your partner about what's bugging you, then you'll never have healthy relationships. You're still young, and bound to make mistakes and end relationships over nonsense, but you have to take those steps to grow up sometime.

[candacedieker]

thank youu:)

I try talking to him about it, but he says he still loves kissing me and he finds it the best..

whereas I can't stand it..

[Opinion Owner]

I guess you two need to rekindle your intimacy. Work out what ever is bothering you first, and then relight that flame. Good luck. =)

[candacedieker]

thank youuu!:)

[Kain6th]

Uh oh, I'm sorry to say, but you may have fallen out of love with him. You might have to break up with him. Are you attracted to him anymore? Sexual or personality wise?

[candacedieker]

well I'm not attracted to him sexually... but he's a great guy! when he's not trying to p*ss me off and challenge everything I say:p

I like spending time with him, but I just physically don't find him as appealing as I used to...

[Kain6th]

It's really tough when you don't find your partner sexually attractive anymore. I really think it's time to end it. If communicating isn't working.

[candacedieker]

i guess you're right.

I view him more as a really close friend, thank you for your help:)

[Apodyopsis]

Fix whatever problems you guys are having, or else it's gonna get worse. I went through the same thing.

[candacedieker]

well the problem is we both fight over everything all the time.

Like most of the time we're both pissed off..

but I feel a bit better that someone else knows what I'm talking abouut

[Apodyopsis]

I used to have zero trust in my ex. He lied about everything. I ended up not getting turned on at all anymore. Our sex life was basically dead. So I really think you should talk to him about it. Maybe you're both under a lot of stress, or maybe you need a break? It's up for both of you to figure it out.

[candacedieker]

im sorry to hear thaat!

but yeah I asked for a break, but were still friends and he still calls me and acts like my boyfriend sometimes,

im fine with it, just I can't kiss him or anything because I'm not sexually attracted to him anymore..

[LimeGreenJB]

move on and find something better if your having issues with him

[Anonymous]

You're under 18 ... you have lots of time to find "the one."

[candacedieker]

i know that. I just don't know whether to stay with him, because we do have fun, or just to let him go,

i'm just bad at making choicess.

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly, most couples don't make it through the post high school thing anyway, so if its not working your best bet is to break up nicely and kindly. That's just my opinion, though...

[candacedieker]

thanks:)

[Anonymous]

its a phase. you'll have to get over all the issues and try to look past em and it won't be a big deal later

[Anonymous]

Maybe it's time to leave the relationship.

[joshua100]

break up with him