I'm older than you and prefer to be single. Maybe people think something is wrong with me, some ask why I'm not married, some ask why I don't have a girlfriend. Guess what? I don't give a flying crap what anyone thinks or asks and neither should you.
Let people think what ever they want. Unless they are paying your bills, walking in your boots and living your life, their opinion does not mean jack.
Taking and / or following dating advice from females is one of the worst things you could ever do, they will just repeat the usual bs about being yourself, or being a nice guy when most of them will go out and find exactly the opposite type to be with.
Women will rarely admit this and you may have heard this before, but being a nice guy is not what women find attractive really.
Fact is, when ever I ignore women (after showing some initial interest) , am aloof or not very nice, they follow me around and show me attention. If you are nice, they won't bother for the most part.
Most women will deny this for ever. I was asked out by a woman I showed interest in but beyond that, did not pursue. She ignored all of the guys that were following her around.
Don't be nervous, they are just human beings and have problems just like everyone else. Stop putting them on a pedestal and talk to them like they are anyone else. Do this to a hot girl and see her wonder what's wrong..
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well since you seem to have hobbies and a job, etc, you're right there's no point suggesting working on yourself really. so the other side of asking someone out is actually doing it. So are you just too afraid to do it or have you tried and it's gone badly? Both of these things can be changed
step one: don't whine, never tell a woman this
step two: take care of your appearance
step three: go get them lol
you have a good job and hobbies, you must have a crappy personality and lack confidence or be deformed ugly or have high standards then
You sound stable, but you need to accept yourself. Confidence is sexy no matter what your gender is.
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Workout, and just try meeting women everywhere.. obviously don't come off as a creep but don't seem too desperate. Once you talk to a lot of females you see patterns and it get's easy. Hope it works out for you!
I'm 19 and I'm in about the same situation. I know it sucks, but I get by just losing myself in my own interests. If you feel bad, just find something you like to do and do it. It won't solve the problem, but it will make life a little easier.
Honestly that's weird, not even held a girl's hand? come on! i don't want to make you feel bad but that's really incredible.
try getting a prostitute?
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