My boyfriend is sometimes really rude to me
I have been going out with a great guy for two years - he's so honest, caring and affectionate, apart from sometimes when he is a bit too highly... Show More
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IMO, that is dispicable behavior. As a (small) business owner, I know all about stress, and that certainly can make things difficult, but abandoning you, twice, when you were going out of your way to make his day special, is just beyond the pale. Rude doesn't cover it.
If the situation were reversed, I'd tell my girl that such behavior wasn't even close to acceptable, and that I would forgive it once, but never again. And I would MEAN IT. The next time it happened, we would be over. Permanently.
Presumably this guy loves you, or claims to, but this isn't how you'd treat a casual aquaintence, much less someone you really love.
I always tell people: words are great, but they only mean something if a person's ACTIONS back them up. He isn't backing up anything right now.
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I wouldn't put up with that. You deserve someone who isn't going to treat you badly and will be more respectful
He sounds like a spoiled little brat who really needs to grow up. Him not being able to apologize really shows how immature he is. It sounds like you two might be on two totally different levels! Maybe you'd be happier with someone who actually behaves like a MAN and not a spoiled lilttle child. Don't even get me started on the selfish thing either. He sounds extremely selfish. Leaving you out in the cold like that and letting you walk back all by yourself? I mean what kind of MAN does that?