trust your gut, when there is smoke there is fire, it sounds very suspicious to me and I was in a similar situation with a guy, he wasn't my boyfriend but we were dating and it seemed that he would sometimes disappear and was only available certain times, at first I overlooked it because I didn't want to be too "pushy" but after a while when you just become too suspicious it is usually for good reason and better to move away. I don't know for sure but I am fairly worried that he is either married or in a committed relationship with another woman and I certainly hope not because I would never knowingly get involved with a guy like that
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I say wait till he calls back, if he was doing shady stuff he wouldn't even call. .. But again if he wasent doing anything at all and you re just being paranoid and he was sleeping then he'd be pissed and won't call either..
I have to say you over reacted as you ve just started going out so maybe he doesn't like to talk on the phone or maybe his mother is sick or maybe he's married..? I don't know, maybe you should have asked what's up first then act on it...
Anyhow if he really likes you he would call you back regardless.. yeah
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To be honest, I wouldn't trust it either. Ok, you can miss a call by being asleep, you can drop your phone in water, ... but all days in a row? Has he NEVER called you back at that time or answered when you called around that time?
If not: I'd be too curious and ask him what that's all about.
It could be that what he says is true though...but I'm a bit of a suspicious person when it comes to stuff like that :-)Your gut was right. It's too soon for him to be breaking that many promises and being shady at night. It's supposed to be the honeymoon phase...if that's him at his best behavior, I'd hate to see how he is at his worst.
Over reacting. Give the man space. I'm sure he talks to you throughout the day.
Good choice! (from your last update)
You made a good move. :))
wow that's weird sounds like he is cheating
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