My boyfriend of 9 months called me his wifey.

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of 9 months called me his wifey..weird thing is a week or two ago we were talking about our future and I asked him what his thoughts were on marriage and children only for him to say, "I never thought that far ahead.." Its just strange to me because all of a sudden he calls me wifey after "not thinking that far ahead?" LOL! I'm not sure if I should celebrate or be cautious. I just hope he didn't say that to please me..like if he said it I want him to mean it ha ha. I need another opinion on this because I sure am confused!

[Prof_Don]

Frankly...that's an urban term for a female that the guy is serious about relationship-wise.

That means that he sees you as a long-term girl, and not just a fling. It doesn't mean that he's wielding a wedding ring in his back pocket, but he does see you as a long-term girlfriend at the very least. :)

[Asker]

Thanks, but I really just hope he isn't saying it all of a sudden because I had brought up marriage. I understand when a guy says wifey and its meaning, but it was kind of coincidental when he said it. Idk, am I over thinking it!? Hahah

[Prof_Don]

I think you are overthinking it a bit.

Why were you mentioning marriage? Cauz the idea of a future with this guy was in your mind.

He's thinking the same about you! :)

[Emotic]

Hahahaha no idea my girlfriend called me hubby once its confussed aswell

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend was talking to me (I don't remember the topic) but he said, "...anything to keep the wifey happy." And I looked at him very oddly, I guess because he's never said it again. Even thought we've been together four years, we're no where near ready to get married.

[Anonymous]

As far as I know Wifey is used when he sees you as a long term girlfriend its doesn't mean that he's on the way of planning the wedding, but it is cute that he sees you as a long term girlfriend, and I don't think you should be cautious of anything.

[Melancholy]

Even if he says so just to please you, I think it's still great because that means he cares a lot bout your feeling and want to do something to make you happy.

[Anonymous]

Dont read into it it's a term that's thrown all over these days. Actions speak louder than words. I've heard it before and things have ended and have seen people say it and they end up breaking up.