Do Dumpers completely cut off contact with the Dumpee?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. We haven't talked since the break up. He was the one that wanted to break up. So I wanted to ask if a dumper could completely cut off contact to the Dumpee or if they will start talking to you eventually?
And how long it usually takes until they talk to you again?
There was no cheating, abusement or manipulation in the relationship.
It just didn't fit anymore.

[Paris13]

If your relationship was a long term one, you both have had some history, many times both couples end up Somehow, some way-----speaking again.
I married a man from Egypt a few years ago. He had found me through FB, and asked me to fly out and stay with him and the family. It went so well, I flew back a few months after that, where we had tied the knot in Cairo. In fact, our second year anniversary is coming up in a few weeks. When I came back to the states, long story, we had many problems. Mostly I will take the blame, but while I was Over there, I will place much blame on him. So now we are even. We have split up a number of times, gone back together, played games back and forth with FB, texting and cam, but no matter how much we say "he said, she said" to one another, or how much has been done, we always manage to go back together.
Yes, I believe eventually, you both may "start talking eventually," but as far as reuniting, I cannot promise this. Sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn't.
If he initiated the "dumping," if he misses you enough, he may even call to just want to be friends. But it's your choice, as the "dumpee" what you would want to do if this happens. It wouldn't be as though he is feeding you any garbage by telling you this, but it's what he would want, or at least request for now, in order to have what was once a "prize package" still in his life.
And if nothing materializes with any buttons pushed, move on, and start over. It would have been a sign from ol' Mother Nature that what was was then was Then, and what is now, is what it is going to Be.
Good luck.xx

[sangini93]

If you were in relationship and it had lasted for some good period, both of you can never forgot it. It was decided to break up by him, because it did not fit well. It will take some long time to start talking again, and you may need to take lead. You may have good friendly relations after break up, and need not to hide face from each other.

[jacquesvol]

That's what I did every time.
Some I never talked to again.
Ans it wasn't because I hated them. I just didn't know how to.

[Theguyoverthere]

I go by no contact mainly and still do. It's something I prefer.