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Addiction, emotional abuse, and a new house: should I stay or leave my husband?

I’m 25, and my life has become a tangled web I’m trying to untangle. My husband, J, is 35, and my ex, B (the father of my child), is 24. I met J two years ago after a long, on-and-off five-year relationship with B. We...
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What would your choice be, change your past, or leave it as it is?

Many people say, “I wish I could turn back time.” But have you ever considered that what we once call the worst moments in our past might actually be the very things that shaped who we are today? If those things...
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Should I wait for my long-distance boyfriend or am I being naive?

We’ve known each other 3 years and been dating 2. We went long distance 6 months ago after he had to relocate for work following job loss. Before that, our relationship was very strong—constant communication, normal ups...
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What advice can I give unloved friend?

I love my friend to death so seeing her so crushed hurts me so bad. she's 38f and im 40m She has a boyfriend with who she has a one year old and a three year old. They’ve been together 10+ years. She takes a lot of the...
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How do you know when your relationship is sufficiently solid for you to propose?

Over the past eleven years, I have frequently responded to questions on this subject and have always said that you should not consider marriage until you have had a few conflicts with your partner. Almost every...
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How long does it really take to accept a loss, divorce, or breakup?

Loss of a loved one took me a few years to reach acceptance. While this breakup has taken me 19 months to get over. I had an epiphany on Wednesday that we will never be together again and that I need to move on and...
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Is this song philosophically sound?

Almost all of Megan Trainor's songs preach feminism which doesn't make the messages about her songs very good. This song flew over my head before, but a few days ago I randomly thought about it. It was weird when I...
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A Reminder at Christmas...

Holidays can be a time of happiness, joy, festivities, indulgence, and relaxation. Sharing holidays can form newfound connections, long-lasting memories, and deeper relationships. But not everyone gathers at a tree. Not...
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My friend's boobs are literally getting in the way of our friendship... what to do?

The title may sound ridiculous but it's literally what's happening. So a close friend I made relatively recently is a sweet woman with pretty big tits. Not absurdly huge or anything but enough to create lots of cleavage,...
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Did you ever try to improve a song that you liked?

I have been a Doors fan for years. I was introduced to them in my early teens. When I saw Apocalypse Now , I was sort of hypnotized by the theme song, which was called The End by the Doors. It was not the insane middle...
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Why can't we be in a relationship?

We do everything that a relationship requires. We talk to each other nearly everyday. We make out and make love when in person. I'm the first person he thinks of to call when he's going through something. I just...
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Family of Illinois' govenor candidate killed in a plane crash. Thoughts?

Four family members of a Republican running for governor in Illinois, Darren Bailey were killed in a Montana helicopter crash, his campaign said Thursday. Killed in the crash were Bailey’s son, Zachary, his wife, Kelsey,...
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Why did he left me for another girl?

My boyfriend left me for another girl actually he secretly started flirting with her when he was with me that is considered cheating right? I was so loyal to him when i was with him, our affair lasted for 1.5 years. by...
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Do you also halve your appetite when you begin a real weight loss diet?

I usually mix 2 fruits with yogurt in the morning as a form of half breakfast, and today I was stuffed to the brim after 1 fruit. I also find when I eat dinner now, I have to halve my rice intake because I cannot handle...
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Advice or tips for grieving a pet?

I’ve had a cat for 12 years, I love her very much. She’s had a lot of health issues over the last few years and even though she’s on medication, her health is still declining. I’ve had to make the hard decision to get her...
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Here is another poem I just wrote after listening to Sleep Token. I know it's kind of elementary but what do you think?

Title-All I know All I know is this Pain Loss Heartache All I want is this Love Happiness Laughter All we have is this Wounds Scars Brokenness All we want is this Healing Peace Time...
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Is still grieving the loss of a relationship after almost a year pitiful?

It's almost August 1st, the date of which he broke up with me last year and I'm still grieving. I thought dating someone else would help me to get over it, but it only ended up making things worse. I suppose me still...
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Before we get to the “yes” or the “no,” we need to take care of ourself.

Some people look for ultimatums (usually two) for their “stance” on love. Or relationships… as if it has to be DEFINITE. And Unmoving. Like a law. But us, as living, human beings, are constantly growing in more ways than...
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Single people, are you the "avoidant attachment" type or have you ever dated someone like this?

Here are some traits of this personality in relationships: "I leave, then think about them all the time" "My defence mechanism kicks in and I begin to sabotage the relationship" "too much intimacy makes me feel vulnerable...
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How to stop worrying about my brother situation?

We are close than ever but it’s so painful for me to watch. He’s in the military and I told him it’s so hard for me to watch. They were fine until he started climbing the ladder. I want him to see his worth and it’s hard....
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