So, I've babysat for these kids a few times after their father contacted me on a babysitting website. I'm 18, a freshman in college and just trying to make some extra money on the side. I've never met the kids' mom as she is always travelling for work, but the dad has told me that she is actually "miserable" right now, whatever that means. since day one, the dad was always really nice to me, telling me to eat anything in the house and "just relax, theyre just kids, as long as theyre breathing its ok". i thought he was just very laid-back, but he even offers me weed and beer after he comes back some days and the other day he got back a little tipsy, gave me a huge tip as always, and then we were having a conversation and one topic led to another and he told me i was very attractive, must have lots of boyfriends, etc etc and how old was i again? "oh, wow, 18? i could go to jail for offering you beer" he had said. he is like 45. he really isn't innapropriote normally at all, but he teases me a lot and in the conversation he said i was attractive, he was really giving me a life pep talk (about all the stupid boys i'll meet, etc) instead of directly trying to hit on me. he offers to buy me coffee and stuff all the time, and one time even hired me to do some "office work" which was really us getting high and untangling some cords at his old studio and playing music.. he paid me so much for just that and said he really enjoyed my company.
is this normal if he's just really chill? he always talks about how his wife is much more uptight. oh and last time i left he asked for a hug..
the thing is, he doesn't give off those creepy vibes at all, but i sense he probably likes me in that particular way? is this wrong?
is this normal if he's just really chill? he always talks about how his wife is much more uptight. oh and last time i left he asked for a hug..
the thing is, he doesn't give off those creepy vibes at all, but i sense he probably likes me in that particular way? is this wrong?
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