Why is my girlfriend so mean to me? Why does my girlfriend snap at me and is rude to me? (Page 2)
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I mean that's what its all about; patience and humility to build the other person and go through things together, and finally come out of them TOGETHER. most fall because that's where they're not bothered doing it together; they'd rather leave the person and manage on their own, but that's not the answer. It takes two to tango. I admire your patience and love dude!!!
What a limp dick! lol
How two people like this ever get together is beyond me. I would take this bitch and her mouth for a long ride at night and drop her off a couple miles from a phone and change the locks!
There are more of these psycho bitches out there than most realize. And most of them are still looking on dating sites lol
I'm in same boat as you. same thing happened to me. I'm been dating a women for 2 years , I recently moved in last month it WA's great then one day got home from work she never spoke , I thought OK let it be a one off. next day same and then swearing and then snidy comments tried to talk and asked wats wrong all I got was fuck off she would tx people she made comments made me feel small. I threatened to leave things got a little better then it started again this time worse when in bed o asked her , waited to bed time because she as kids. she started shouting and threatened me with ex husband and police said I called her thick and many more lies which she made me to be the one that was wrong , I said don't lie and I'll go now she said I'm not that cruel , she them went on Google to find me a room when in nite she was moving closer to me. in morning I left now I'm lonely and sad 2 years out my life now no job and basicly skint but it was still bugs me that someone can change
I have a girl friend with a very similar personality. The difference here is every time she says or does something that makes you feel crappy. You need to show her that what she did or said wasn't okay. My favorite tactic is when my girl says something negative or makes fun of me or treats me poorly. I let her know it, maybe not right there (in cases where your in public) and since these types of girls heavily dislike being reprimanded, they will yell or cuss, or get really quiet, but every single time they eventually come around. The main key is after you have stated that she hurt you and that it isn't okay and why and she goes off or gets really quiet. Allow for distance, she will come right to you every time with an I am sorry. If she doesn't do this then the relationship isn't healthy, and if you don't stand up for yourself for fear of losing the girl, well that isn't love, that is insecurity.
you sound like an amazing guy, and I'm sure you have chosen someone you truly deserve, not someone lower than you. if she really loves you, she will change and you guys will have a good marriage :-)
she comes from a traumatic background, so that may be part of the problem..
talk to her
Well you must of really hurt her if she's been treating you like that! I think you need to tell her how you feel, all of the above ^^. You seem like you really truly love her. She's still obviously upset as you hurt her. You need to open up to her, make her feel com table and talk through ichthyology problems and try and sort this out. Soon she will realize that your perfect for her. Best of luck :)
Don't let her walk over you even though she said you're right keep her accountable. You're not indebted to her because someone else mistreated her when she was young if anything she should know that she should not mistreat others because she knows what pain feels like.
It seems like she's taking your relationship for granted, the next time she treats you like this, talk to her about it, and if that doesn't do anything, don't talk to her for a few days, I know you love her and all, and trust me it seems like she's really lucky to have a guy like you, but you need to be treated with dignity and respect as well.
Mate I went out with a girl lioke that for 4 years and everything was fine I thought it was love I would of died for her aswell but I had to go to australia for a better lifestyle as mine was going downhill and she couldn't even wait for me al lthe sh*t I did for her made me feel so sh*tty like I was worth nothing love is blind becarful
Well, glad things are chill now. But definitely hoping things will stay that way. Sounds like you'll just have to speak up more if there are future occurrences. (And I'm not blaming you for not doing so in the past. Nothing wrong with trying to tough out a situation.) If it happens again, she might want to consider therapy for what happened in her past because it's still affecting her present.
She doesn't respect you and she takes you for granted. She knows you wouldn't leave her so she feels she can treat you like that, it won't matter. She does not love you, and is not attracted to you, but she enjoys having you around anyway because you're doing everything for her and she also doesn't have to be alone.
Don't make excuses for her. She might be depressed. You can try to help her, if that doesn't work, then you might have to take "severe measures" (aka keep away from her) so that you don't become depressed yourself.
maybe because she's retarded? dump her. she sounds annoying.
You should make your limits clear. Talk to her about what she is doing and how that makes you feel. And don't do anything for her because if you say no she gets mad and then you say yes. You show that getting mad is best way for her to act to get what she wants. I don't think you should leave her but you make your limits clear and if she loves you she will adapt.
It's time to get a little bit harsh with here you're softness will make her get worst. You need to make your point in the harsh way to wake her up. If she does'nt response to that, it's time to make her taste of her own medecine. Don't get me wrong, I'm not suggesting a revenge. This is just one effective way to make here "aware" of what she is doing...
u turning into a wuss, you kissing her ass too much and once you do that a woman loses respect for you. two things to do, reclaim you manhood or dump her, you got to set you standards
u have become TOO NICE
Just , uh, tell her how she's making you feel when she hurts you. Seems like she really cares about you, so if you were to tell her when your feelings are hurt, maybe she could better understand what it is she's doing wrong and it would help fix the relationship.
Its now worth the trouble bro, I am in your situation, 2 years and I'm trying to get out, its not worth the heart ache
TRUST ME!
There's a saying my dad once told "what you give is what you get". if she makes fun of of you tell her to shut her mouth. say NO to her n if she says why tell her that she doesn't do shit for you. Also don't be afraid to let her go, just remember that there's hitter girls out there who will never treat you like shit... and for the love of god wear the pants in your relationship...
It’s going to turn toxic and when she dumps you because you’re not man enough to put her in her place, you’re going to beg and then regret not standing up for yourself