All Questions

Is there such thing as being too romantic?

I am worried that if I try to be romantic even if the gesture is well received that I may be coming off too strong. Is there a point where you think a guy might have tried a little too hard or do you wish men would try a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating an ROTC guy: a good or bad idea?

So I recently met this really nice guy in my college psych class. We went on a few dates and he's really chivalrous and a great person in general. He's also in ROTC. when I mentioned that to a few of my friends, they kind...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I ruined my chances with a girl....any chance of rebounding?

I finally got her out on a date and I used to always have that "edge" over her, where I was sarcastic, teased her, made jokes/comments that made it seem like she was chasing me, which she loved. But on the actual date, I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Boyfriend has ignored me for 2 weeks. Is this his way of breaking up with me?

Here is my dilemma. We have been dating for 6 months and after my boyfriends birthday he started to act differently.He started to become distant and wouldn't talk to me for days. He spends most of his time on social...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy says unfortunately I don't do relationships?

This might be stupid but idc. So I started to talk to this guy and he calls be pretty and all this other stuff. He woud throw out litte hints that he liked me. He says sweet things to me I thought he liked me so I told...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can guys wear Victoria's Secret yoga pants?

So I wear Victoria's Secret yoga pants at home, they're really cute and comfy even though they are kind of girly. I'm not gay (not that there's anything wrong with that), but what do girls think when it's guys wearing them?

hengyr

Xper 5 Age: 33

You rock my world - when a guys says this what does it mean?

guy friend has been what seems to be flirting on and off for a while then out of the blue during a mindless convo he says to me "you rock my world". what is he trying to say? if he likes me, he hasn't asked me out. and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

How to make a shy guy comfortable?

Getting to know a really lovely but very shy guy and I'm taking the lead in most things, chatting, arranging a date etc How do I get him to be more comfortable? He's super shy. I get he likes me. I don't get his...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do gold diggers operate?

I'm just curious, what are their tactics? I even left the anonymous option available so any women who have dug for gold can spill without being attacked.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

My boyfriend says I have changed :(

we have been chatting since as friends July but started dating in August. Lats night he said that I have changed and that our conversations have changed. So I asked him if he isn't feeling me anymore and he said at first...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He texted me "Hey girl" but he usually calls me Babe. What does that mean?

This guy says he likes me. We do more texting back and forth than anything. The last time I saw him he said he really wanted to spend some one on one time with me - usually we are around a bunch of people. We were...

tahnyahr

Xper 5 Age: 57

(GUYS) what does it mean when your ex says that he cares about me a lot and he will always care about me!?

my ex told one of his friends that he feels guilty for hurting me and that he loves me and his friend said she loves you and he said o know she does .. he told another friend that he sees me as a really good friend and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it always too late to redeem yourself after acting needy?

If my boyfriend now sees me as insecure and needy is it too late to redeem myself? I want to turn things around but I'm worried it's too late...apparently he is really into girls who act unavailable and uninterested in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do people become "gym rats"?

You know them. The people who go to the gym 6-7 days a week for at least 2-4 hours each day, sometimes twice a day. I could never imagine being able to dedicate that much time or effort to the gym! In fact, I hate the gym...

MissAlexandra

Xper 6 Age: 34

Why do we feel like we've known each other forever?

We've only been together for a little over a month and known each other for nearly the same amount of time. However, it feels like we've known each other for so much longer, as if we've known each other for years. It's...

MWalsh89

Xper 7 Age: 36

He stood me up, should I forgive or just forget about him?

It was going to be our first date and I've known this guy for a while. He had texted me saying that he wanted to talk and get to know me better. Anyway, we ended up talking everyday all day for about two weeks and had set...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do some girls just put nail polish on their big toe but not the others?

They just paint their big toe nail. Why is this? Why not paint the other toe nails too?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are intelligent people attractive?

Something I've been thinking to myself lately. Where does the attraction come from? - and are there certain aspects of intelligence that are more attractive than others? Are people who you recognize to be more...

dustyfootphilosopher

Xper 6 Age: 34

Relationships

My boyfriend seems obsessed with his niece.

My boyfriend is constantly talking about his two year old niece - which is totally fine, she's adorable. What bothers me is how many times he's brought up the subject of child sexual abuse, in various ways, in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Entertainment & Arts

What kind of camera should I buy my boyfriend? I'm a noob to photography ;)

He's interested in photography as a hobby but can't afford a digital camera. I really want to buy him a relatively professional one- he takes photography classes with a borrowed camera so he knows some tricks. I guess I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

My boyfriend's mom does everything for him!

I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 20. We've been together for almost 10 months. I do plan on spending the rest of my life with him. He's amazing and I'm perfectly happy. Although I still live at home with my mom, I was taught...

JCK6791

Xper 6 Age: 35

What Does it Mean When a Guy Says "You're Pretty Cool"?

Now I don't want to read too much into this but, I want to know what it means when a guy says a girl is "pretty cool"? Like what does this mean in "guy code"? See here is why I'm asking this question, I think this guy...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I ask him for his number, give him my number, or wait for him to ask for my number?

I really like this guy, don't want to seem too interested by freaking him out. I've been waiting for this guy to give me his number or ask for mine. But two weeks later no such luck. Is it best that I wait for him to give...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Can't take this anymore! Boyfriend refuses to reassure me

I feel so frustrated. I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and whenever I try to talk to him about his feelings about me or our relationship he gets angry and won't say anything or reassure me when I'm feeling...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dark skin masculine?

why do people think dark skin is masculine on females and in order for a woman to be considered beautiful she has to be light skin. what makes dark skin masculine

Anonymous

(30-35)

I have a feeling he thinks I'm not into him when I am. He's a great guy..help?

So a guy asked me for my number, I gave it to him and a few minutes after we departed he texted me saying, "hey its ____ this is my number :)" I just simply texted back "k :)" My question is, I have a feeling he thinks...

Savill45

Xper 5 Age: 32

Fashion & Beauty

Is it slutty for a girl to get a lower stomach tattoo right above the pantie line?

i want to get my last name and it would look good there but I don't know if I should

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls what makes a guy smooth?

Not skin smooth, but I am talking about what makes him, or what things does he say that makes him so smooth, fly, attractive etc?

Yeahhbro

Yoda Age: 37

Break Up & Divorce

Why do people hate hearing about past relationships?

This one guy gets so uncomfortable and frowns when I mentioned that I once kissed a guy a year ago or how this one ex bf use to go to the movies a lot with me. He also doesn't like it when guys hit on me. Seriously...

Anonymous

(30-35)

A female wrestler? won't date?

Hey guys! I would you date a girl that was on the high school wrestling team? She is considered to be pretty at 5'5ft 126lbs, but in hopes on getting to the 120lbs class. Would you or not? P.S. she has short hair.

ktbeasleyze

Xper 6 Age: 33

Shopping & Gifts

How can I encourage my girlfriend to be more independent?

I posted a similar question a week or so ago. She's recently told me she WANTS to be an archaeologist, but is GOING to do dermatology for me. I've said countless times since then that she should do what she's most...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does this cashier girl always stare at me?

There's this cashier girl that always stares at me. She works at the local grocerry store, where I buy my grocery. Sometimes I wonder if I have a bugger in my nose, but I check and I have nothing. I would ask her why she...

joalto

Xper 5 Age: 38

What is your skin tone? Which skin tone do you find most attractive?

Elaborate in your answer. pics are cool too - show what your interpretation of the following skin tones is! These are some examples: Pale Light Tan Medium Tan Dark And No one should take this offensively. Its...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does it mean anything when a guy puts your name at the end of a good night message?

Does it mean anything when a guy puts your name at the end of a good night message, or not?

Anonymous

(30-35)