All Questions

Where can I get these kinds of leggings that fit cheeks?

Somehow I can't find these kind of leggings, the ones that are really tight around your butt cheeks and actually look like a second skin. Where the elastic cloth actually goes in between your cheeks, like these: All I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Can kissing on the neck ever be platonic?

I have known this guy for a long time. Last couple of times, he greeted me with a hug and place his lips on the base of my neck. He has never done this before ! Did the same when we were saying goodbye. I was wondering...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Taurus men: Do you stare at a woman you like, and would you keep staring if she caught you?

When I look at the Taurus guy I like, he's always looking at me- and he stares deep into my eyes until I blush and look away (I've never had anyone stare at me like this before, it's like he really is seeing into my soul...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does he mean when he says 'you will find someone better than me'?

What does he mean when he says you will find someone better than me. When he know I liked him but he said he's sorry that he couldn't return the feelings? Does he not care the fact I like him or what?

Deb1234

Xper 6 Age: 32

Other

Girls: do you really find it cute when a guy sings to you, even if he sucks at it?

do you? even if he is a terrible singer? or do you find it amusing and laugh about it with your friends later on? I'd like your thoughts about the whole thing in general.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Hand holding while grinding on a guy?

so I had my prom last night I was dancing with this guy I didn't know and as I was grinding on him he slid his fingers in between mine and he rested them on my hips while we danced. what was the point of this like pretty...

sweettangel

Xper 5 Age: 31

Relationships

When a guy says lets be semi casual (relationship wise) what does that entail?

6 months ago we were dating & we wanted it to grow into a relationship but It never happened. Now he wants to be semi casual with me but I don't know what that entails. Like is it a hook up? just flirty friends? or is it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex won't give me my stuff back, what should I do?

My ex boyfriend and I dated for 3 and a half years and broke up 2 months ago. Since then, I've casually and nicely asked him when I can get my stuff back, (I have a bunch of shirts and my pair of expensive ice skates at...

equestriantrailrider

Xper 5 Age: 33

Other

What does it mean when a guy says this song reminds him of you?

I was texting my "boyfriend" (we love each other but we aren't officially dating, long story of why we aren't ,anyhow) and he said: this song reminds me of you" and he sent this: https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=ouKGKgkSEMs

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do girls always stick their tongues out when they take pics?

every time I look at girls profiles there is always at least one picture with their tongue sticking out is there particular reason why girls take pictures like that? Kind of like this pic link

Anonymous

(36-45)

She doesn't wear make-up

So I've been dating this girl, everything is fine, but she doesen't wear any make up, yeah I know everyone says that they like it "natural" but to be honest everyone wants theyr girl to wear make up. So how do I tell her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shy guy taking to long to approach a girl out?

Say you liked a guy and you have been trading glances at each other, and showing other signs of interest. He has been to shy to make a move and it has been a couple of weeks now. Would you still be interested in the guy...

wanabkool

Xper 5 Age: 38

I hate that I imagine me stabbing myself all the time.

Every time I have a knife in my hand or see one I have a sudden urge to stab myself. It's be like this for a little over a year now and I don't know why I imagine me doing this to myself, I haven't really told anybody...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is there any truth to the whole "if a girl gets mad at you its because she cares?"

SOme of my female friends have told me that when they "get mad" at me, that they want me to try and make things better etc. Is there any truth to that? They are my friends, of course I'll try but what about a girl who...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

If a guy says he likes your lips, what does that mean

A guy once said he liked my lips, we were in church so it was weird, what does that really mean?

heart4god

Xper 5 Age: 31

Marriage & Weddings

Why women cut their hair short and gain weight after marriage?

I consider myself to be pro-marriage and I'm not one of those guys who relish always being single and who are scared from commitment, but it's very noticeable that many women after getting married cut their hair short and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls: if you ask a guy you like to dance at a club and he's horrible at dancing do you get turned off?

I'm not good at club dancing, mainly because I don't go to clubs very often (I'm 30..not 35 btw). But I know girls ABSOLUTELY LOVE TO DANCE. Last night I went out with 2 buddies to club. Truth is I really didn't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Doesn't feel any different now that we're dating.

My best guy friend and I recently started dating. There has always been this little spark between us of natural chemistry. He finally asked me out... which was super cute, but I've noticed that now we're apparently...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When is being, or being around, a "health nut", annoying or overbearing?

DISCLAIMER: I am referring to social settings and social interactions in this question. --------- When do you feel someone being very self-conscious about their health and fitness is "too much" to the point of...

Prof_Don

Master Age: 40

I want to stop dressing like a frat boy and dress like a man

I dress like a frat-boy wanna be, with the Khaki shorts, mid-calf socks, t-shirt and a faux hawk. It's really...getting old and immature so recently I thought about dressing with more class instead of swag. Can you guys...

Kennybobennie

Xper 5 Age: 31

Girls have you ever kicked a guy in the nuts ?

I have been kicked a few times but don't think I deserved any of them to be honest .

Anonymous

(36-45)

My roommate threw out my food!

Okay, So I had spent all yesterday cooking up really delicious food. I probably spent at least 5 hours yesterday cooking. I made some chicken and some spring rolls. I spent what was left of my grocery money on food to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why did he send me a friend request after he rejected me?

I liked a guy a lot but I barely know him. My ex-best friend kind of backstabbed me (yeah, she was a b*tch) and told this guy that I liked him a lot. So, the rumors spread and I didn't know how to approach him and get...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Weird to miss her after first date?

I went on a date with this girl last night and it went perfectly, but the next day I can't stop thinking about her! I've never really felt this way before, so I guess what I'm asking is this normal? Thanks.

Jbull75

Xper 5 Age: 31

Relationships

Being intimidated by age difference?

are you slightly intimidated by older guys, girls? I'm 21 and talking to a guy who is 32. I'm entering grad school. He's working, he went for the same field I did. So far he treats me nicely and with respect, not like a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When a girl is taller than the guy?

what do you think in general of the idea where the girl is taller than the guy ? girls ; did you ever fall for a guy that is slightly shorter than yourself / guys ; did you ever fall for a girl that is taller than...

rockingpianoman

Xper 7 Age: 34

What does it mean when a guys says he 'maybe' likes you?

I told this guy I like him and asked if he felt the same and he said maybe. I thought he might be just saying this because he was too scared to say no, but he then told me a couple of days later that he meant what he said...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls: Difference between underwear and a bikini?

Still haven't figured out why girls don't mind running around in a bikini, but those same girls freak out if a guy sees their bra and underwear. What's the difference?

eldamien

Xper 6 Age: 45

Family & Friends

Is there such a thing as "mommy issues"?

Like women can have "daddy issues" in which the absence of their father affects them in future relationships. But is it the same for guys but with the absence of their mother?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

What does it mean when someone has thick saliva?

Mine is watery but I've seen some people with very thick saliva that's stringy. It's kind gross looking. No offense to thick saliva people. You guys may think thin saliva is gross.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls: do you smile at a guy you like?

I was wondering if you girls only smile at a guy you like...consider my situation I got a class with this girl, this is what happened. 1 Some guy was late and made a weird sound as he walked across the classroom. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does my hairdresser fancy me?

Second time I had this hairdresser, first time we got on well but I had a girlfriend and I now know she had a boyfriend. Anyways we got talking and she says she split up with her boyfriend. She tells me how he cheated...

Guy0082

Xper 5 Age: 39

Do you have to be tall to be considered attractive?

The question box states it all. Does a guy have to be tall to be considered attractive? Or to be considered super hot? Currently I'm not short, I'm 6'21/2 but sometimes in certain crowds I feel short. So, I'm kinda...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When to hold a girl by the waist, when to hold them by the shoulder?

When to hold a girl by the waist, when to hold them by the shoulder? Is there an unwritten rule concerning this when taking pictures or walking side by side or a small hug, etc. (One of my friends pointed it out that...

Kennybobennie

Xper 5 Age: 31

Are big hips and long legs attractive?

Is it a good thing to have long legs and bigger hips? I think big hips look kind of off, it least on me, I'm really tall and my hips are 39", I heard it really isn't because no one likes Kim kardashian's shape, than again...

heart4god

Xper 5 Age: 31

Guy's Behavior

A drunk guy admits his feelings.....

A guy that I like called me while he is drunk and tells me he misses me and that he likes me. Should I believe this? Is it true that a drunk man never lies?

bonita1076

Xper 5 Age: 34