All Questions

How do I stop hating women?

I have been single a long time now and I have started to really hate women. I feel like they only want men with lots of money and that are hot. I also find the whole "flirting game" to be infuriating. Why can't women just...

wes5566

Xper 5 Age: 39

Relationships

My boyfriend deserves a better girl than me, should I leave?

he is lovely, fun, handsome, rich.. and I am shy, not outgoing , I prefer to read a book than to go party with friends, I don't have rich family ( have to study and work) ,.i have no qualities to deserve any thing good,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I tell her I'm done chasing her?

I was chasing after a girl but she called me stupid... I want to tell her some things, and I also want to tell her that I m done chasing after her and I don't want anything to do with her, but I don't want to ruin her new...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend doesn't get turned on by kissing....help?!

My boyfriend just told me he doesn't get turned on by kissing. We have never kissed so I know it's not ME, but what do you make of this? Why doesn't he like kissing!?!?

Anonymous

(36-45)

One time I woke up and my boyfriend was staring at me

we were just laying in his bed and I dozed off, then whenever I woke up he was laying there on his side next to me staring at me. when I caught him he put his eyes down and started to act as if he wasn't staring. he's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it normal to be 17 and a virgin?

I've never been asked out/ dated a guy who I Haven't been friends with for at least a month. I'm 6ft and 140lb. I seem to be anti-flirting material or something. Most importantly, is it normal to be 17 and still a virgin?...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Girlfriend went clubbing a couple times with a guy friend solo. Should I be concerned?

I have been dating this 21 year old girl for two months now. She and I get along very well and we care a lot about each other. One of her coworkers is a guy about her age and they hang out together sometimes. The...

AL2000

Yoda Age: 44

What do most girls mean when they say they are open-minded?

It's common to hear people, especially girls, say that they are open-minded. What does that mean? Is it code for something?

nathanalbright

Xper 5 Age: 44

Guys: Would you notice if a girl is bloated?

If you are talking to someone and the girl you are interested in/like is somewhere there too but not close by, so you are glancing at her, do you look at her face? or her stomach? overall? Would you notice if she looked...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How important to you are a persons teeth?

Girls and guys, when you see an attractive girl or guy, they have a nice body, put together and then they smile. What do you prefer to see when they smile? Straight, pearly white teeth? Do you like a gap? Do you not mind...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

Marriage & Weddings

My boyfriend says he wants to get engaged, but...?

I've been with my boyfriend for 1.6 years, and its been 2 years since we met. I'm 22, he's 28. We've only had one issue where he lied to me about someone from his past, but I've moved on from it and we're both okay. In...

hmariep

Xper 3 Age: 36

Guys: Good night, sweet dreams, sleep tight? Friends?

So the guy I have a crush on and me I'm sometimes and we end up where we're going to bed, and he always says good night =) and then either sleep tight or sweet dreams ... I say it back. does this mean anything? he didn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My girlfriend does random webcam chats and such, please help?!

okay so I would greatly appreciate everyone's opinions. My girlfriend of almost two months webcam chats with people like that site call 'omegle' where you can chat or webcam with strangers. It honestly hurts inside my...

AllenShoutNever

Xper 5 Age: 34

What does it mean when a co-worker asks you out for drinks?

This guy just started at my office a few months ago and we have gotten close. We text each other often and sometimes he calls me sweetie and babe in text. He just asked me out for drinks in a text. He had asked me once...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What makes a woman a head turner?

What makes you do a double take on the street? Any specific things that make that girl stand out in the crowd?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Should A Girl Ask A Guy Out? Why or Why Not?

Some people (guys&girls) is all for a girl asking a guy out on a date then there's others (guys&girls) who think a girl should NEVER ask a guy out. I think the guy should ask. because guys always say how much they hate...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Men, would you want to wear skirts or dresses?

Okay, before everyone starts getting all fussy, I know these are typically feminine articles of clothing and I understand the societal struggle to want men to be "men." yadda yadda, BUT dresses and skirts can be SO...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is a 32D bra size unattractive?

i'm pretty thin, and I'm a runner. I absolutely hate having large-ish boobs, so I always wear sports bras and try to lose weight in that area. I hate how things look on me because of my boobs. I cannot wear cute tops...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys,if your girlfriend were to fall asleep on you how would you handle it.

My boyfriend hates that sometimes I fall asleep on him while cuddling or watching a movie.It annoys the sh*t out of me not only because he wants to hang out all the time,but when we do I go along with whatever he wants to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

What does it mean when an ex girlfriend acts hot and cold?

More details are in my other questions... To sum it up my ex girlfriend invited me in when I walked over a Christmas card to her house last week. We had a nice talk about stuff going on in our lives and I felt that old...

huck13

Xper 5 Age: 31

Relationships

How to un-spoil your fiancee?

I have spoiled my fiance from the get go...did everything for him like I'm his mother now I'm regreting it cause we have 3 kids and I'm overwhelmed trying to keep up with them and him. He won't even make a phone call or...

jessi02

Xper 5 Age: 44

Girl stares at me, but doesn't say anything?

There's this one girl that I run into at my gym sometimes . All we say is hi . every time she sees me she smiles. The other day she was working out in the machine next to me and she was staring at me , but did'nt open...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Do people need alcohol to have fun?

Okay, first things first: I drink alcohol. I understand the risks involved with drinking way too much of it. I would also like to point out that this question can go hand in hand with why people use recreational drugs at...

musicbrain5

Master Age: 36

Health & Fitness

Help! My boyfriend wets the bed!

OK my man is 22 years old and in awesome shape, not sick ever, and wets the bed. In out almost 3 years of sleeping over at each others house he has wet MY bed 6 times! I'm not sure if he does in his or not though. Its...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

How to be immune to heart break?

How can I become immune to the heart breaks that seem to be happening all the time without being a jerk , a**h*** or a heart breaker myself... I don't want to hurt someone but don't want to get hurt either... HELP...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you like short & "tiny" girls?

I'm only 5 foot and 110 pounds, I thought I was pretty much average size but apparentlly I'm not. When I look at Most guys(-_- Including my dad) I always have to look up at them. Do you think that's cute? All I hear is "...

littlemissamber

Xper 5 Age: 31

Holidays

Boyfriend won't spend new years with me?

We have been together for almost a year (New years is the anniversary that we first met). Earlier last week I asked my boyfriend if he would spend New years with me. He said to me basically what if he wanted to spend...

Darkfairie17

Influencer Age: 36

Is he interested if he doesn't ask questions?

How do I know if a guy wants to continue a conversation via text messaging if he doesn't ask any questions? Or does that mean he is not interested? Even though he does respond with a nice message if I text.

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do guys/girls think of chinos?

I personally am a sucker for a guy wearing these (is a big fashion trend in the UK) What's everyone elses views on chinos...do many of you guys wear them,do you girls like guys wearing them? link

justhope21

Xper 5 Age: 36

Girls, what's up with having so many pillows?

First of all yes yes I know not all of you are pillow-maniacs. But I've seen quite a few girls like this. I had to sleep in my stepsisters room last night. Her entire bed was filled with pillows. So many I had to layer...

sixstring

Yoda Age: 39

My boyfriend is planning to study abroad although he promised me not to before we got together

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 8 months. We were from the same university, that's where we got to know each other. I was at the end of my 3rd semester, and he was in his last semester when he asked me to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Just found out that my boyfriend did coke a few months back

He was smokin' up with a couple of friends. I came down from my high and was already sober. The topic of coke suddenly entered the conversation, and my boyfriend suddenly mentions that he did some recently. I was like,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Hanging out with a guy on New Year's Eve... What does it mean?

I met this guy on a dating site. I've been out with him once- we met for coffee. He seems to like me and seems interested and I like him. We have been talking every day for hours pretty much. The day after we met for...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

I'm jealous of my boyfriend's cousin

So I have a new boyfriend. We were dating for 3 months maybe 4 and we finally decided to make it official! I'm only 20 and my boyfriend is 36 . He is a sweet guy and all but he has a female cousin who I can't stand ! I...

jennyloves

Xper 4 Age: 35

Why do girls get mad if we don't respond to texts or calls immediately?

Maybe we are busy? Like is there a real reason or is it something else? Assumption...probably

Ceomoss

Xper 3 Age: 35

Society & Politics

Feel like a jerk. Coworker keeps asking everyday to cover her shifts

So I work at night and graveyards at my uni. Everyday she asks me to cover her shifts. Her boyfriend of a year cheated on her and she caught him in the act now she does counseling mon-fri and she works from 4pm to 8pm....

pheonixhart

Xper 5 Age: 34

Why do the guys always insist on paying for everything?

Me & my boyfriend were at the mall and I wanted a really exspensive diamond neckalace from Zales that I had been saving up for (it was 2,000$). My boyfriend sees me looking at it and offers to buy it for me. I tell him,...

skyeisblue

Xper 4 Age: 33