All Questions

When a guy stands really close to me, does it mean anything?

I find out that my ex boyfriend like to stand very close to me. Especially when I'm talking to someone, he would stand up close behind me and look at who I was talking to. When I turn around I was like "whoa! that's a bit...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

How do you know how you rate on a scale of 1-10?

I know this is a very shallow question, but how do you know if your ugly, below average, average, above average or hot? are there certain things that could give you that indication? (I am only asking because my self...

Bhoot

Xper 3 Age: 36

Family & Friends

Guys & girls: he stroked my arm and said this, is it a positive sign?

We are friends (but I have a crush on him) we were saying goodbye (he'll be gone for a while) and he started stroking my arm gently (friendly not flirty) so I asked him: 'what is it'? he replied: 'what is it you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What would you define as an "Alternative" girl?

What exactly do you define as an alternative look or alternative girl?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Why is my boyfriend becoming so cocky?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. About a year ago, he met a friend who is a really good guy, but he got my boyfriend into bodybuilding. My boyfriend spends about 3 hours at the gym a day...taking a day...

shgurl22

Xper 5 Age: 33

Why guys don't like female bodybuilders?

I'm a bodybuilder and I've been turned down a lot by guys because I'm bigger than them. But Honestly its what I love doing... I just don't understand why guys don't like me for it

Anonymous

(30-35)

For the Females only

Since joining the site how many times have you been asked if you would send a picture of your breasts etc,to the person you are chatting to?

zalew

Xper 3 Age: 57

Health & Fitness

New study PROVES "most" not "all" women are gold diggers.

What do you say about that? Heres the link. link INCOME (shown at the bottom) is among the top 3 in EVERY state polled. New York's 'Perfect Man' (% Chance for a First Date): Body Type (38 percent): Athletic...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why are some girls so desperate?

why are some girls so much desperate for guys and relationships that they go for anything..like they even go for guys with EXTREME body hairs..like bears...? Why are they so desperate?..Why can't they wait for normal...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you like soft or strong/sharp features on a girl?

Guys do you like soft features or sharp features on a female better? Strong/sharp features- high cheekbones, strong jawline, maybe a pointy chin . Basically features that stand out Ex- Angelina Jolie, Gisele bunchan (vs...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can a guy call a girl cute and still be platonic ?

I met this guy about 2 months ago in uni , we were partners in a project and ever since then we became real good friends , we chat online almost everyday and he asks about me when I'm absent . I used to think he liked me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What are the odds you marry your first or second girlfriend when you're around 22 years old?

I have had one girlfriend in 7th grade (I don't really count those years). Then in college when I started being a little more outgoing I had 2-3 girls where we were essentially dating but we never made it official and it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys. Can you differentiate between beautiful vs pretty?

It's hard for me to understand what guys might find beautiful vs pretty in a girl. Can you explain what makes you think a girl is pretty vs beautiful and vice versa? Also, can you give some examples to support your point?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys have no problem kissing another girl when they already like one?

this guy liked me but he was shy to come up and tell me about his feelings, I just discovered he liked me because his friend told me, and he doesn't know I know. lol But before he gets the courage to talk to me he kissed...

naguala

Xper 3 Age: 35

Guys, what do you think about when hugging a pretty girl?

Do you smell her? lol Do you feel her boobs? And why was this guy shaking a little bit when he hugged me?

swaggyperson

Xper 5 Age: 36

Married man flirting- innocent or not?

my coworker has been hitting on me for quite a few years now, he tries to give me things, holds my hand, compliments me, and always tries to get my attention. Thing is, he is married. I'm pretty sure the marriage is not...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why would you ignore your crush?

i know some ignore their crush ! why would that be ?! how can you tell if they like you or just not into you and don't want to give you a wrong impression hence the ignoring?! would being protective, asking if going...

Anonymous

(30-35)

how does being able to tie a cherry stem with your tongue make you a good kisser?

I've always loved the the little game of competing against other people to see who can tie a cherry stem with their tongue faster. I play to win too, haha, and I usually do. People always tell me that means I'm a good...

Tigerbaby994

Xper 3 Age: 31

Can a guy and a girl go to the movies as friends?

I asked this girl to the movies and she said "of course!. Does this mean its a date?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ladies, who is hotter, Tom Hardy or Channing Tatum?

No poll, pick one and give a reason you freaks! The answer should be obvious.

Anonymous

(30-35)

I am a newlywed and really lonely. What do I do?

My husband and I just recently got married in August. We knew each other for over six years, have been dating for over three. I love him so much. He is such a wonderful person. The problem is I am so lonely all the time...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He says he's bad news but I see something more in him. Should I pursue it?

This is a bit of a lengthy explanation, so I'm sorry! So this guy I met a few weeks ago caught my eye at the bar. He was with some friends and kept glancing my way. Eventually he came closer to me and I asked him what...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If She cancels on you saying she is sick, does that mean it's over?

I have been going out with this girl for over two months. This Saturday was supposed to be our seventh date. Out of nowhere, she texted me her friend was sick and asked her to take care of her. So we planned to go out...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I worry that my boyfriend is spoiled by his mother?

I'm 25 and my boyfriend is 27. Although he's a couple of years older than me, he seems to have evaded a lot of responsibility in life by comparison. I have not always had a secure family situation - my mum had mental...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would you rather be wanted or be needed?

Explain your choice! Would you feel best if people wanted you, or needed you?

Janson

Guru Age: 35

Why does my crush keep asking me to meet my parents?.

My crush keeps wanting to meet my parents, and I keep asking him why and he won't give me a definitive answer.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you date a high functioning stoner?

What if you met someone and they were perfect for you but they liked to smoke a lot of pot but are high functioning in that they get great marks in the sciences at university, have a good job and it doesn't really pose...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Does parkour Impress ladies?

Not trying to impress anybody but I'm just wondering if it does or doesn't

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did my colleague kiss me?

There is this guy I like... A few weeks ago I had to work with his brother and he did ask me what type of guys I did fancy. Well I said, dark hair and brown eyes. And he immediately said his little brothers name, the...

Anonymous

(36-45)