All Questions

What does it mean when a guy calls you seductive?

My guy says I'm very seductive. I've never thought of myself as such... Not sure I know what he means.

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

If you run into an old flame or old crush, do your feelings come back for them?

of course if you didn't date, you just liked them and things didn't go far maybe things didn't end well, but you see them after a couple of years does your heart start beating again?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I saw my boyfriend cry...now he's defensive.

We were in Les Miss, the movie, and at the end, I turned to look at him and saw a tear rolling down his cheek. I've never seen him cry before; I've seen him come close to crying, but never actually cry. My response was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you consider yourself a hopeless romantic?

Do you consider yourself a hopeless romantic? What do you do or want that makes you a hopeless romantic?

ryleemegan

Xper 3 Age: 33

What does it mean when a guys says that he's not easy, he's difficult?

This guy that I currently have a crush told me that he's not easy, he's difficult but a couple weeks ago he kept calling me his girlfriend. I don't understand why he said he's not easy, he's difficult, is he trying to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Does hair color really matter?

I hear a lot of people, especially men, saying that blondes are hot or brunettes are the sexiest or that they have a thing for redheads. Both guys and girls: does hair color really matter? I personally think if someone's...

tomfeltonforever

Xper 6 Age: 30

Never get compliments, i think i'm pretty. why?

I think I'm pretty, but sometimes its flattering to receive compliments from others. Why do I never get any compliments ..neither from my bf. I'm 5'5", 104 pounds, 30D bra size, jeans size 3, long dark brown hair and...

Deonlione

Xper 5 Age: 33

I believe I have come on too strong with a guy. What is my best strategy now undo my mistake?

I have been working with this guy for about six months. There has been intense chemistry between us from the start and we playfully flirted with each other but he was in a relationship until recently. Once they split...

emeraldlulu5381

Xper 5 Age: 45

Whats your favorite place to be touched in a flirty way?

Is there a certain way a guy can touch you that just turns you on?

HardlyPerfect

Xper 5 Age: 32

How come guys like sweet, girly, cute, feminine things about girls?

I have always wondered this. A lot of guys are usually somewhat manly, they like tough stuff, and sports, and acting macho, and they admire strong people etc. So what makes them like the girlie stuff about girls? They...

nermalinda

Guru Age: 45

Break Up & Divorce

Boyfriend likes to pick at me

sometimes my boyfriend picks out my flaws as a joke. I'm not insecure but it gets annoying when he points out the mole on my forehead almost every time I see him. he also makes jokes sometimes when we are about to have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My sister's boyfriend hates me

I just found out my sister's boyfriend hates me,I don't even know the guy.I found out he thinks I'm annoying and lame.I don't talk to guy and have ever talk to that guy before.I think my sister told him things to make him...

GaiaGirl2468

Xper 5 Age: 32

Does he just want to watch a movie?

This guy asked me out a few weeks ago. We had coffee and he was hinting for me to come over a watch a movie with him after, but I wasn't comfortable with it. He lives with his parents, but I still didn't want to. He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does a B mean at the end of a text?

Sometimes my guy friend will text me and put a capitol "B" at the end of a text. No colons or anything, just "B" and sometimes "b" I can't figure it out. Please explain.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girlfriend said please don't hurt me ?

Been dating this girl for a month and at the end of our very fun evenings and conversations she says please don't hurt me what does this mean, I have heard her say this in three separate conversations, meaning?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to get a girl to stop liking you nicely?

There's a girl that my best friend hooked me up with that likes me a lot and I don't feel the same way. I don't want to just go up to her and say "I don't like you." Since both our best friends are the same person. So I...

bandm2219

Xper 5 Age: 32

FWB how do you say goodbye? Hug Kiss Both?

do you hug and kiss each other or just hug? Also how do y'all act in public do y'all flirt?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when your boyfriend dreams about killing you?

he was mad at me and my best friend and then he killed me in the dream.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

My boyfriend drives like a manic. 80% of the time we are not even in a hurry.

I hate the way my boyfriend drives. He always drives like we are in a hurry. 80% of the time I feel like we are going to get into an accident. He always thinks it's the OTHER person's fault but it's him most of the time....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

I told a shy guy I like him

I told a shy guy I like him in a note (long story, it was the best way). I gave him my number and told him to text me if he liked me too and he has not and it has been almost three weeks. *what I mean by shy is that he is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys like curvy girls?

Dont get me wrong I'm not fat that's not what I'm asking.im just wondering do guys like skinnier girls who have curves like I have a defined waist and well ya know look curvy so do guys like it or no?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ladies would you ever teach a guy friend how to kiss by actually physically teaching them?

Like if you knew he never kissed a girl and he asked you to teach him

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Do guys like a little bit of meat on their women?

You always see guys approaching women who are either skinny or have the obvious (boobs/ass). However, I wanted to know if men preferred women who were not completely skinny? I am referring to women who are slim but aren't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

I love my girlfriend but she's boring, what should I do?

shes so fun to be with and I love her a ton, we've been going out for 6 months and I feel like its been an eternity and I love it. Unfortunately we have to be long distance sometimes due to school. When she's away she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

A guy friend accidentally called another girl my name. Am I over analyzing this?

So my elective is debate and the team is rather small. My guy friend (whom I will refer to as S) was spectating a practice debate round between my friend K and my other friends. S had been stretching with my friend T, and...

camlop

Xper 5 Age: 30

"You're too sweet" Double meaning?

Ok girls, a girl tells me that I'm too sweet whenever I express concern or do something nice for her. (Nothing outlandish, just words of encouragement, advice, random jokes/stories to brighten her day) So what I'm...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I tell my friend I like her?

I have developed a crush on my friend over the past couple weeks, but we never hangout because she has a busy life. I text/Facebook her quite a bit, and both of us initiate the conversations. I'm not sure if she realizes...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, what do you think of headbands? Cute or not?

I like wearing headbands a lot. I´m 24 years old but I have a cute, flirty, girlie style so I think they compliment me. They are like this: link link I love them, but my friend told me that, since I´m hot, I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is there a difference between changing yourself and improving yourself?

I feel that improving is taking certain attributes and qualities you may already have and just sharpening them up and bringing those things out in a positive and productive way. i feel that change is much more for things...

kisaragi5TH

Xper 3 Age: 39

Do girls like to take advantage of submissive guys?

Because they know the submissive guy is easy and will try to please her where as the alpha guy will keep the girl guessing and won't take her sh*t. So she can use the submissive guy as her own "personal servant" whom she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

How do I pull off crossdressing?

I recently lost a bet with some friends, and I have to cross dress to the mall >.<. I used to be able to pull it off, but, you know, puberty and everything. I still only look slightly feminine. Any tips? You can check out...

CruelUltimatum

Xper 5 Age: 31

Why do people play mind games instead of act how they feel?

Why can't people just say what they feel? For me, it's fun to be playful and flirty but playing games is just immature. Give me your opinion on this stuff!:) For instance I texted the guy I like "are you back in town?...

Aphropuff

Xper 5 Age: 39

How to proceed after a friend/classmate rejects me?

Over the years, I've been looking online for answers as to "why" I keep getting rejected, because no matter what I try, it just doesn't work. About a year ago, I said I'd just focus on school and not worry at all about...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I unblock him?

I blocked him on fb and whatsapp fb I will keep him blocked, but whatsapp I am not sure what to do? We broke up last month cause he was being distant and ignoring my calls and never had time to see me...then he added...

smiley100

Xper 5 Age: 46

Dating

Ever date someone you never thought you would?

Maybe they were below your league and you disn't find them attractive but somehow you ended up daing them and were pleasantly surprised? Or maybe they were way above your league and you never thought you'd date thewm...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

How Often Should You Talk To Your Boyfriend?

I hate talking on the phone, always have. I prefer to text. Even with texting, I dislike having long drawn out conversations if the topic isn't really important. I'm dating really cool woman now, I definitely like her but...

PhilaPenn

Xper 6 Age: 43