All Questions

Girls, are abs important on a guy?

Or does it not really matter that much? Do you mind if a guy has a relatively skinny stomach but some flab. Help a dude understand you all haha. Give some example of what you like or what have you. Thanks.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys who go tanning are attractive?

Do you think men who go tanning and openly admit it are attractive?

Anonymous

(36-45)

If you sent your crush sexy pictures of you and now regret it?

Would you say something to him or let it go. Even If he liked the pictures and said they were very nice, but looking back you still regret doing it. I want to tell him I don't usually do that, they weren't bad pictures, I...

Cindy86

Xper 3 Age: 39

Would you date a girl with stretch marks?

I have some from my heavy days. I now have a 9/10 body from working out in terms of shape, but I have really bad stretch marks on my inner thighs. they look like this: link and are still reddish like that, although...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I slept with a black guy when my boyfriend and I were broken up. Now he thinks I am into black guys?

I had a drunken night and made the biggest mistake. I slept with a black guy and now he thinks all black guys are eye *&^%ing me and I am eye *&^%ing them. He think I want a black guy and it is ruining our relationship....

jaqi1983

Xper 4 Age: 43

What Happens When the Tattoo Fad is Over?

Yes, tats have been around for thousands of years. But it's been the Gen Y population that's responsible for the massive surge in popularity for the past several years. Millions of people who would have never considered...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is a leather jacket o a girl attractive or butch?

.i recently bought a leather jacket and I like it but is it a turn off to guys?

Kat_in_the_hat

Xper 3 Age: 31

Health & Fitness

Are there any other over the counter drugs like ipecac syrup but aren't quite as harsh?

I just think we need it in the house just to be safe but I read up on ipecac and it sounds kinda scary

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

How can I tell if I've peaked his interest?

I see a guy around a lot, but I can't tell if he's glancing at me because he's interested or because he's bored/glances at everyone. I do ignore him so he ignores me too, but before I can take the next step in showing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can you tell if a guy is checking you out in a shy way?

How can you tell, if a guy is checking you out in a shy way?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why girls don't put as much effort in me, when I put effort in them?

Somebody told me that all you needed to get a girl was to put effort in them, make the first move, be chatty, fun, show interest and what not, but I have realized that girls rarely put the same effort as I do if any at all.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Did he just want to hit it and quit it?

so I meet this guy in the summer by two of my closest girlfriends his name is "manny" but we all didn't start hanging out til about in October. every weekend it would be us 4 we'd get together and drink. manny and I were...

cherrybottom12589

Xper 6 Age: 36

Other

Do Latina girls like white guys?

i love cute latina girls they're amazing. usually have super cool personalities and a lot of them are really nice. but do they like white guys? a lot of them seem to like black men I've noticed, which is fine and all, but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

Her birthday is soon, should I text her happy birthday?

It's quite a long story so I'll keep it short: I've known her for a long time now since 2009. We're 21 now. Some signs of interest include: she flirted a lot with me with her actions like she flipped her hair while...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

What does it mean when a guy looks at you like there's no one else around?

So my friend says there's this guy (whom I'm attracted to) looks at me as if I'm the only person there, and nobody else. What could this mean? Different suggestions? Insights? :)

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Can you suddenly stop liking someone? your boyfriend in particular?

So I have been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months, and a few days ago I've been thinking about what would happen if I didn't like him, if I randomly stopped liking him and its weird wen I thought about him I didn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is the most attractive body shape, size, weight, etc. for a girl to have? (I want to see if my mom is right)

OK... So I think this is thee most asked question by all women around the world! But.. I wanted to see for myself what "Men" actually think. I personally think guys tend to like girls that are thin (not skeleton-thin but...

DancerGal

Xper 5 Age: 31

Would you rather be beautiful or intelligent?

If you had a do over what would you choose? If you consider yourself either of these would you change or stay the same? It seems like I have never seen a poor beautiful person and their life seems easier so I choose to be...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

How is Victoria's Secret stuff delivered?

trying to surprise my girl with some but don't want mom to know what it is, does Victoria secret stuff come in plain boxes or does it have Victoria secret stuff on it?

Anonymous

(30-35)

When a girl calls you their little brother?

There's this girl that I go to college with and just recently before break, we hung out everyday a week before break started. I know she finds me attractive because she's told me herself. There's this whole family thing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do people grind at a rave?

I am considering going to a rave but don't know much about them. Do girls grind there and please include any additional information I may want to know.

Anonymous

(30-35)

How long do you wait to add your crush on Facebook?

For example, there's a guy I like at work. Holy moly, he's the sweetest, kindest, funniest, most adorable guy ever. :-) He's got a couple of other co-workers on his friends list (yes, I Facebook stalked him - don't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys text their exes?

Pretty self explanatory. Why do guys text their exes even if the guy dumped her? Why do guys want to be friends with their exes Immediately after breaking up with them?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why do girls subconsciously open their legs when they are standing?

I just notice sometimes when I'm talking to girls just like casually they will open their legs. I just find it weird I mean I never do that and I'm pretty sure guys don't do that at all. Its just girls.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Nice Girls are Boring and Finish Last?

I think they do. Girls are told that we should be nice, sweet and innocent and we'll find the right guy, but isn't that a bunch of BS? Most of the girls who get guys are less of the docile, nice girl and more of the good...

pr3ttybr0wn

Master Age: 38

What does it mean when a guy sizes you up?

sizes you up? Why would a guy do that? And what does the term "sizing up" mean?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How bad/corny is it to post a shirtless pic on Facebook?

I've seen it a few times on Facebook and every girl that gets to see my shirt off goes gaga, why not just throw it out there? Because id look like a tool, right?

youngbud

Xper 3 Age: 32

How old were you when you had your first girlfriend/boyfriend?

just wondering..what age to you think is normal to start dating?

daria996

Xper 5 Age: 36

How to deal with petty roommate drama?

I'm trying to stay above it all, I don't really socialize with them. I live with two girls and a guy. The one girl is really catty, especially when her friends are around. Normally she is okay, but when her friends are...

Darkfairie17

Guru Age: 36

Relationships

He asked if I was jealous?

I was talking to this guy and he tells me that he has to tell me something and mentions a girl who likes him. So I ask him if he likes her and he tells me that she's too young for me. I then tell him that she probably...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

Do you wish Merry Christmas to people you haven't spoke with for a while?

i met this guy about 10 months ago and just once, we texted for few weeks than NOTHING till August when he suddenly asked me out (but I said "no"). We haven't texted since then...and today he sent me "merry Christmas (my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Tragus piercings, gorgeous or not?

i actually had my tragus pierced about a year ago, but I had to take it out because of my older brother, as he didn't like it and said it looked trashy. but now, I'm thinking on getting it pierced again. I would like to...

-purpleLovEr-

Xper 5 Age: 31

Relationships

Besides good night or sweet dreams, what do you say to your special other?

What do you tell your special other before you go to sleep or they go to sleep?

ManWhoDropsTheBall

Xper 6 Age: 38