All Questions

What does it mean if a guy changes the subject?

My mum just told the guy I am interested in that he doesn't seem to have interest in me and he changed the subject. Does this mean he does?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can someone think of a cute username for the name Amanda?

I can't seem to think of any that goes good with my name. I'm not creative like that

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

How did you muster the courage to ask a girl you like out? (Girls how did you feel when he asked you out)

Just want to know how it felt or what you endured before or after you asked a girl out and girls how did you feel when he asked you out? I'm planning to ask a girl out in 2 days and I'm a little nervous, just wondering...

sawkid

Xper 5 Age: 36

She says I'm overbearing? What does that mean?

Real simple question. My crush says I'm over bearing, what does that mean exactly? I do text her first every day, but that's because she texts me FIRST everyday alot! In person though I don't really approach her, because...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend can't comfort me when upset?

I've been with my boyfriend 4 years, we have generally been happy and he is quite supportive in other ways and helps out practically. However, when I am upset he can't seem to respond and comfort me.. rather than put his...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, what looks hotter, big bulky muscles or lean mean with abs

So I decided get into gym. My friend told me that there are two ways to approach it 1) Get big bulky with huge arms, shoulders or 2) Get lean mean and ripped, with 6 pack abs So I asked him, why not get big and bulky...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would any of you girls date Ted Mosby? How about John Dorian?

Yes, that's right, Ted Mosby from How I met your mother. link In the show, it makes it seem like he can barely get a date, and after all of these years, can't find the right women. He is a very successful...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Minimum requirement in height to consider a guy hot?

easy question needs easy answers. I am for example 1m74 (5'9). Based purely on looks, style way of behaving when out with friends, I attract the attention of a few girls before talking to them. But I have been told more...

leax90

Xper 5 Age: 36

Girl's Behavior

Why do women make poor choices?

I know this questions gets asked a lot, but I'm asking it again anyway. Why do women make poor choices in guys? Virtually every girl I've known has dated more than a couple of "bad boys," and they all ask the same...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys hate tall girls?

I'm 6'1 and a sophomore. I'm 16 and I get my height from my dad. Guys at my school won't talk to me though and tease me.

YadiJ

Xper 5 Age: 30

Just me or are black babies the cutest?

I think black babies are adorable compared to infants of other ethnic groups.

Koldhearted

Yoda Age: 36

Do men mind if a girl is a bookworm?

I enjoy going out and about. Like in the summer, I love hiking, swimming, going to the beach, going to bar patios, basically I love the outdoors. I always buy a Canada's Wonderland season pass so I can go as much as I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you get upset when randoms call you babe, baby, honey, and sweetie?

I work at the mall and deal with a lot of people. On average, it seems like at least one customer, typically an older woman 40+ will refer to me by some form of "babe" or "baby". I also get this reference when I am the...

brandon8899

Xper 5 Age: 36

Flirting

Should you ignore or confront?

i just found out the guy I'm dating and have unfortunately made the stupid decision to sleep with is trying to date other girls, we normally text everyday and now after 3 days he sent me a text message asking me if I'm at...

alygurl

Xper 5 Age: 33

When to text after meeting someone?

When should you text a girl after you meet them? Do you just chat or should you just set up a date? I personally think you can't really get to know someone through texting.

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend is too emotionless....

My boyfriend never tells me I'm pretty, never texts me goodmorning or goodnight. We don't ever really talk about anything on a deep level. And that kinda bothers me. We have been dating for about 8 months now. I know he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I ignore her and let her initiate contact?

So me and this girl I met dated 3 months... things didn't work out because I was too nice and never escalated so she backed away... 3 months later she starts texting me again and this time I am very straightforward and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does a drunken makeout session mean anything?

I was out with a girl I've known for a couple years from work I've always been in to. Earlier in the evening she had a blowout with her boyfriend after a happy hour and ended up meeting me at the bar I was at. We drank....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do girls try to make guys jealous?

I really think this girl likes me because she would stare at me with her eyes locked at me (very creepy though). Today she was surronded by many guys (guys love her Because she is hot) so I decided to get away then out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, did I offend her?

Hello, Me and the girl I like were texting each other last night and I sent her a picture I took while I was in NY (her hometown) and she replied with "that's so perfect in so many ways!" In response, I jokingly said...

Anonymous

(36-45)

This guy is trying to steal my girlfriend from me What do I do? Should I talk to him leave it alone or what?

My girlfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks we went but we broke up because she didn't realize her true feelings we were skyping a few days ago and this guy she went out with that hurt t her text trying to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

What do you do when you don't hear from your boyfriend for a few days?

I haven't heard from my boyfriend since after New Years. I don't know what to do.

Lenapie23225

Xper 4 Age: 29

Do girls check out a guy's shoes?

I know that girls love shoes, and I am pretty sure they check out other girls style of shoes. But do women check out a guys shoes? If yes, how much emphasis or attraction do they judge the guy on based on this shoes?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

How can you tell when a guy admires your body?

I've always gotten compliments from guys on my body. There's this guy who is really cute and I always see him leaning in from his desk when he sees me and follow me with his eyes wherever I walk to. He does it with a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Why would a guy show affection towards a girl he has no feelings for?

Alright I will make this as short as possible. My friend and I started hooking up. He made it clear he didn't want a relationship in the beginning and I was okay with it until he started sending mixed signals. We would...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Saying I love you for guys--is it a big deal?

from a guys perspective how big of a deal is it to say I love you to a girl? what changes in your mind when you realize you love someone? i said it first to my boyfriend, when I said it he wasn't ready buthe talked...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Girls, is there a fine line between being best friends and lovers?

A girl told me that to her the difference between best friends and lovers is very thin. If you're truly best friends with someone you literally just lack the "status" of boyfriend and girlfriend. However as we often see,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

First time at a tanning salon ... do you go nude?

i'm heading to cuba in February, and I'd like to hit up the tanning salon a couple times before I leave to get a bit of a base tan so I don't burn as soon as I get to cuba but, I've never been to a tanning salon what do...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, what do you think of Barbara Palvin's looks?

New Victorias Secret model. I am thinking of getting my hair dyed that color as she has my skin tone/eye color and I think that is close to my natural. my hair is a dark brown shade now. link link link

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Do girls care about guys' noses?

I'm a little self conscious about my nose, because it's large and asymmetrical. The front cartilage if you know what I mean don't combine really. It's also a little bulbous looking sometimes... It has a sort of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, are high heels a turn on?

How much do you prefer to see a woman in high heels over flats? People always make a big deal about how great I look if I wear high heels, but I don't enjoy wearing them that often and I'm 5'8 so I typically stick with...

nollie33

Xper 7 Age: 37

I'm dating a DRAMA QUEEN--what would you suggest?

So I've finally become exclusive with this lovely drama queen that I was dating for about 2 months. We've been a couple for a month now and the drama just doesn't stop! I think I am getting used to it, and learning to...

slowtaking

Xper 5 Age: 45

Guy's Behavior

Do you think shy people are more honest?

Do you think that a shy person or even someone who's kind of introverted is more honest than an outgoing person?

red324

Guru Age: 37

Guy's Behavior

Why do girls bully ugly guys ?

They tell us we will die alone . They tell us we will never have girlfriends , They spread rumors about us , and now every girl hates me . Why are girls like this

adamfk1

Xper 3 Age: 32