All Questions

Guys which girl would you find more appealing and why?

Girl 1: is fairly tall with long legs, has a pretty face, green eyes and dirtly blonde( light brown) curly medium length hair. She has a pretty face, small love handles, a nearly flat toned stomach and small curves but...

EmmaWatson15

Xper 3 Age: 30

She says we need time away to heal but deep inside of me I feel so sad and depressed. Please help me.

We were together for 8 years, we fought and hurt each other so much but we were always really really attached even if we fought. I take most of the blame, I treated her really bad the whole time. She also hid so much from...

brokenheart0703

Xper 5 Age: 41

Relationships

How to deal with a nonchalant boyfriend even after a serious argument?

Guys a little help here!... I've been with this guy for about 8 months. We get along so well, we are really close. We definitely give each other the space and freedom to go out drink club ect. I mean we are only 21. Of...

Lola_02

Xper 4 Age: 36

Do you guys mind a little belly fat?

so I'm pretty skinny but I have been trying hard to get rid of this tummy fat, it just bothers me and I was just woundering what guys think about it? gross or whatever?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you ever put on a sexy voice when you speak to the opposite gender?

I noticed some of my girl friends, who normally have a loud voice, put on a cute girlie voice when they speak to guys. I also know guys who are loud, but seem to discipline their voice into a charming gentleman one when...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Why does she always smile at me?

I like this girl and we make each other laugh at times. I've tried to ask her out but she doesn't seem to be interested. But she seems to smile at me a lot and it kills me cause she has this great smile, and I tend to get...

barlowboy

Xper 6 Age: 40

Have you ever had a crush on multiple people all at the same time?

LOL! I have had a crush on 4 girls at one time! It was kinda hard to do, because I wanted to show my feelings to this one girl, but I couldn't because I was trying to figure out which girl was best for me. Well...

Learning_To_Be_Wise

Xper 3 Age: 34

Leggings as pants? Girls?

Leggings as pants? And what would you wear with them? flowy dress like top? Or a tighter top? Do you think girls are sluts if they wear leggings as pants?

heatheeer

Xper 5 Age: 31

Other

If a guy sends you this song....?

https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=ZKvhkcJDbzY&ob=av2e what does it mean? He told me randomly "Hey, go look up Lotus Flower Bomb by Wale, it's a good song :)"

Anonymous

(30-35)

We act like we hate each other, but yet were attracted to each other. Anyone else experience this?

A guy and are always at each others throats, yet I know he likes me and I really like him. I really don't understand psychologically what is going on and was wondering if anyone had a good answer? thanks

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Why do I always attract taken men?

Lately, it seems as though every guy who is in a relationship is suddenly drawn to me, and I have no idea what I'm doing? When I was in my mid-teen years and in high school, on a few occasions there were boys who had...

alexandraa

Xper 6 Age: 32

My boyfriend deleted Facebook post without reason?

my boyfriend had posted a very lovey post on my Facebook wall right before he came over to sleepover at my house. the next day he deleted it? I had even commented back...i asked him calmly why and he said he didn't delete...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls wear yoga pants to accentuate their ass, that would otherwise seem flat?

I have a feel many young women (upper class-men in high school to college) wear yoga pants to make their ass look more full and curvier. I assuming this about women who have an ass that looks flatter in jeans and wish...

computertech23

Xper 3 Age: 38

If a girl keeps stroking your leg, does it mean she's in to you?

There is girl I know who at an after-school club, when the teacher isn't looking, keeps touching/stroking my leg. She asked me earlier if I was a virgin and claimed that she was trying to make me "uncomfortable"......

Sciguy1001

Xper 5 Age: 31

Guys-Is it all in my head or does he like me?

He- - makes eye contact with me all of the time and smiles (but maybe he is just being friendly - always seems impressed by my lifestyle - tells me I have lots of friends - laughs at all of my jokes, even stupid ones...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Did you or do you practice kissing on the back of your hand?

When I was younger I did, only when I was alone, and before I had my first kiss. I heard of doing it from some movie I saw years ago...Now that I look back on it, I feel kind of silly for doing that. Do you or have you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Men, do you notice girls eye color/ care about what it is?

I'm just curious because some of my guy friends I've found don't notice it.. my brother said it's hard to tell because of the changes in lighting and most guys are looking at either your whole face or your mouth when a...

rachel05

Yoda Age: 34

Break Up & Divorce

Ex-boyfriend is dating my roommate. What to do?

i found out that my ex boyfriend is dating my roommate. well here's some background. ex and I first started dating in 8th grade going on and off. we split up before college because he didn't want to have a long distance...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys - The "Nice Girl"

So I'm kind of "the nice girl" - I treat others nice, I'm sweet, I don't dress provacative or swear or drink or do drugs. I'm smart, innocent, Haven't had sex, etc. whats weird to me is, a lot of the "bad boys" like me....

Anonymous

(30-35)

I don't want him to be the rebound guy. Should I go for it?

I just broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago. Things weren't working out, hasn't been for a long time. There's this other guy, he has waited for me about 4 years now. I just found out about it. I like him a lot, but I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Do all girls have scented candles around?

Seems like such a woman thing to do lol. I don''t think I've ever gone to a girls place without a scented candle somewhere! So what's the deal yo?

Kain6th

Xper 4 Age: 42

No third date after two good dates. Should I call her?

So I went on a date with a girl on Wednesday. The date went well and she did mentioned that she is free coming weekend. She also texted me that she had a good time and would love to hangout again. I also texted her that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why did my crush guy avoid looking at me?

The other day I was sitting in Starbucks when I casually look up to see my crush who I haven't seen in two years sitting there on the table opposite me with a work colleague. I kept my head down reading. He got up several...

Lala29

Xper 5 Age: 44

How do you feel about dating a girl that is much richer than you?

Just wondering... there is this Russian girl in my university, and we hanged out once and it went pretty well. I flirt with her on fb occasionally. The only thing is that I recently noticed she is really rich. Like she is...

NothingGoldCanStay

Xper 3 Age: 36

My boyfriend of 2.5 months now speaks in a somewhat crass verbage and I was just wondering if this is normal?

guy speak... Instead of saying he wants to make love to me he said I want to put my d*ck in you or f*ck u... But otherwise he is very loving and very attentive. Also he wants to know all of my business where...

theville

Xper 6 Age: 61

Men with thin lips, would you rather kiss a woman with full lips or lips your size?

I have full lips but the guy I like has thin lips. I'm afraid that if I kiss him it would be awkward like as though I were devouring him. So, all the guys with thin lips, would you prefer lips a little fuller than yours,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If I touch guys in clubs while talking/dancing, will they think I want to get laid?

I've started to run my hands over a guy's (upper) body while dancing or just touching guys casually and get really close to them while talking, because I really like their bodies lol I always do what I feel like doing...

cenicienta

Xper 3 Age: 35

Health & Fitness

How long should I wait after drinking to take cold medicine?

I have a cold, but I went out with friends after work. I only drank half of a Crown and water and then half of a beer, which isn't much at all. Then, I got home and realized I might want to take cold medicine before I go...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Did I ruin my chances by coming on too strong?

Hey, so I had a drunken "one night stand" with an acquaintance a while ago. I never got his number but he got mine and made sure I had it the next day. I told him it was fun and we should do it again, he agreed. I then...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy calls you 'babe' or 'baby'?

personally I think he either forget my name or doesn't know how to pronounce it. and if it is that he forgot it how do I bring it up? when we met we were both drunk and since that day whether he calls or text he calls me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are calves attractive on men?

I've been training in Vibram Five-Fingered toe shoes for the past 5 months and I've noticed the biggest difference besides my running form and foot flexibility is that my calves have improved tremendously. Definition is...

MrEM4N

Explorer Age: 37

Cleavage/tight shirts: how much is too much?

I love "the girls" and I like to dress to show them off a little. I don't want to come off as trashy though. Is there a sexy but classy way to do it?

Alouette

Xper 4 Age: 35

Do I miss him or the attention?

I met this guy and we hit it off great. We kind of rushed into things so before you knew it, we were together. We thought we had a lot in common but turns out it was just little things that really didn't matter. He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you look down on people who have less of an education than you?

Like you got a phd or a college degree, do you look down on someone who only got a high school diploma and worked retail? Why or why not?

Kain6th

Xper 4 Age: 42

Could you date a racist or homophobe?

Racist meaning he/she hates races other than their own, believes races other than theirs is inferior, discriminates towards those of different race and even talks about their hate openly, enough to where they'd pass it on...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

What's college dating going to be like for a black chick?

So I'll be going to either a UC or CSU in 2013..I might try to save $ by going to a community college then transfer but I really wana live on campus so I can leave home. I may live in California but guys still seem...

Anonymous

(30-35)