All Questions

Do you look down on people who have less of an education than you?

Like you got a phd or a college degree, do you look down on someone who only got a high school diploma and worked retail? Why or why not?

Kain6th

Xper 4 Age: 42

Could you date a racist or homophobe?

Racist meaning he/she hates races other than their own, believes races other than theirs is inferior, discriminates towards those of different race and even talks about their hate openly, enough to where they'd pass it on...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

What's college dating going to be like for a black chick?

So I'll be going to either a UC or CSU in 2013..I might try to save $ by going to a community college then transfer but I really wana live on campus so I can leave home. I may live in California but guys still seem...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are stretched ears attractive/unattractive?

I started stretching my ears before summer started. I know some people like them, but a lot of people also find them unattractive. I have always found piercings/gauges attractive and I don't plan on taking mine out any...

yixingxu13

Xper 3 Age: 31

Dating

Through text, why does she keep saying "lol" does she not like me forreal

We are cool, in my dorm this girl gets mad that I don't visit her as often as she would like, one time she said that I need to visit her more than anybody else. I know this chick isn't a natural flirter and she's not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I ask an ex girlfriend to hang out again?

So for full details on my situation, you can look at my very first question. To save you guys time though, I'll summarize and just say that my ex and I were going out for over a year from freshman to sophomore year in...

huck13

Xper 5 Age: 31

My boyfriend has PTSD. How can I help him?

Last night he got a little drunk and he told me his life story (which he apparently tells no one!). I already knew he has PTSD, but now I know why (child abuse, army experiences, etc). I feel like I helped at least a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He says he likes me but isn't ready for relationship...does that make sense?

Been hanging out for a month, and he acts like he's really into me because he texts and calls almost everyday and he's always around...but I've been confused because he hasn't asked me out on a real date. He told me the...

chloed

Xper 6 Age: 43

I feel so depressed and I don't value life, she was all I had for more than 7 years, please help me.

well here is the story. We broke up 2 months ago, it got really bad with her and her family and she went with a rebound right away. She's with another guy now. Well I had tickets for a concert schedule for last week. She...

brokenheart0703

Xper 5 Age: 41

What size do I wear if a 34D is too small, but a 34DD is too big?

So my boobs decided to grow enough to spill out of a 34D bra, but not enough to completely fill out a 34DD bra, which is a pain in the ass. The band size is fine, but the cups are the problem. Do they make like half...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Did she use me as rebound?

Hi, my story as I understand it. I met a girl, over a dating side. Pretty soon she told me about her past relationship, that got broken about 6 month we first met. She told me a lot about it, how long this rs was going on...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Texting crush over break?

I've only texted this guy once and I talk to him some at school. Is it weird to randomly text him without a reason? Would it be OK to text him something like "How's your break going?" or do you have any other ideas for a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Moving on from my ex, and now she's trying to make my life miserable?

I recently went through a very difficult break-up. It's been a few months and I'm slowly getting to the point where I'm moving on from the relationship. I'm not entirely over her, but I'm enjoying being single again....

Anonymous

(36-45)

How long before my boyfriend resents that he's in better shape than I am?

I wasn't in my top shape before we've started dating, and now I've gained about 7 lbs on top of that. We eat out way more than I did. He works out all the time and has an awesome body, whereas I'm about 5'6, 137. I've...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How Small is too Small for a Guy

I'm a 22 year old guy 5'5" and 145 lbs. I'm very athletic and my girl friends call me handsome all the time, but when I go to bars or clubs it seems like girls look right through me. Am I just too small to them to offer...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My ex girlfriend wants to be with me again even after getting pregnant with another guy's baby?

About a couple of months ago I broke up with my girlfriend, she got another boyfriend (who is known for sleeping with a lot of women), slept with him, got pregnant, and broke up with with him. Now she wants to be my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Debating my "FWB" situation ... Do I speak up or just walk away?

Met him almost 5mos ago through my bro-n-law, started talking, hung out a couple weeks later & its been physical ever since. I've been open, telling him I like him, wanna get to know him better & he gave me his busy...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

If a girl asks who you like?

if a girl ask you who you like is that a sign either they or one of their friends likes you

Anonymous

(30-35)

Love Confession Letter (for guys)?

Guys, what would your reaction be if you received a confession letter of love from a girl ?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls like if a guy plays with their hair while cuddling?

Do girls like if a guy plays with their hair while they're just cuddling, watching a movie? What about if she is giving him head?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a girl talks about her ex boyfriend?

I've been spending time with this girl, and she keeps talking about her ex boyfriend. We have a lot of fun talking to each other, and she at least seems to really enjoy my company. Every once in a while she will throw in...

RandomTree23

Xper 5 Age: 36

Relationships

Why do some guys like to flirt with much older women?

I don't flirt but it seems that several guys who flirt at me are so much younger than me and they all want to go out with me.The youngest one was 11 years younger than me.He asked me to go out with him which I of course...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

I don't feel like a girl will ever fall in love with me.

I'm 22, never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, only kissed one girl and never been on a date. Not to mention I'm painfully shy around girls which has held me back in life a lot. I've been complimented on my looks and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I kissed a guy at work and now I don't know how he feels...

theres a guy I work with on a day to day basis, and we use to just play around with harmless flirting, and people would say he liked me, but he just wanted his leg over, which is all I fort of it. but then other night...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do young women look for manly men anymore?

When I look at my step sister for example, she is 16. She is obsessed with a kid called Ryan Sheckler. You also see most young women love this Edward guy from Twilight. What happened to women seeking manly men? All these...

NothingGoldCanStay

Xper 3 Age: 36

Health & Fitness

How do you get rid of lazy eyes? And guys, do you mind them?

Is there any way I can get rid of a lazy eye? Makeup tricks, products anything? I'm really self-conscious about it. :/

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does my childhood friend like me?

hi .. I like this guy, Ken who is my childhood friend .. Our parents are business partners and we went to the same school etc .. in school, when we were kids we were super close, always together, talking fighting,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When do guys start liking a girl?

I'd like to know when guys start liking girls! :) Thank you much!

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

Guy who blew me off contacted me today...Advice please

ok so guy and I were getting closer and closer after two months of dating. then last date happened and he had told me he wld be busy all week but when I didn't hear from him I took it as a blow-off and sent him a long...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What does it mean when your ex says he misses you?

Does it mean your ex boyfriend possibly wants to get back together if he tells you that he misses you and still loves you?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

What does it mean when a girl asks about your girlfriend?

Okay, I met this Japanese girl who is new to the college, and we were talking about Japanese things. I was telling her about what Americans think about Japan, and the subject of maid outfits came up. Maid costumes are...

RandomTree23

Xper 5 Age: 36

How true is this statement: "Men want to be heroes to women"

I have a close friend who went to a workshop about dealing with me in relationships both romantic and day to day. One of the most important things she learned was that men want to be viewed as heroes to women. They want...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)