I have been dating my girlfriend for a little over six months. She was dumped by her ex about 3 months before we got together. When we first got together, I knew she still had feelings for him, but as time went on, she seemed much happier and I could tell she was getting over him.
Recently she left her Facebook on at my house and I saw she had been talking to her ex and saying things like she missed him, and he said how his new girlfriend didn't make him happy like she did, and she responded saying that she thinks I'm great but it isn't the same...
She tells me she loves me everyday, we have a great sex life, and she is extremely happy around me and anxious to spend lots of time with me.
But I couldn't handle that and told her it was over, and she begged me to take her back and promised she wouldn't do it ever again. She blocked him on Facebook, and now about a week later. she was at my house checking her email and I she had been chatting with him over email.
I feel like I should just break up with her for good, but I'm not sure if she is just confused and really loves me, or I'm just a space filler.
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Dump her. You're her back up plan. We probably likes you as a person, enjoys you. But at doesn't mean she loves you. Seriously doesn't. One time mistake might be understandable (the things she was saying weren't, I just mean in general) but to lie and go behind your back.
The fact that you went through her stuff shows some trust issues as it is, and that would warrant a break up even without her actions. But she justified the trust issues. Break up with her. You don't need to hell. Get angry, just leave her. If you get emotional and start a fight she's going to try and talk you into staying2