All Questions

Should I spend the night with my boyfriend?

so, I've been dating my boyfriend a couple of months, and recently he invited me to his best friend's surprise party. some people are spending the night since it's his friend's 21st birthday and there's going to be a lot...

supervixxen

Xper 6 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

If my boyfriend broke up with me because I decided to wait until marriage do I have the right to be mad?

If my boyfriend broke up with me because I decided to wait until marriage do I have the right to be mad ?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Do girls check out guys??

This is a serious question do girls bother checking out guys why or why not? I thought girls didn't care about looks so why would they check guys out?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Victoria's Secret vs. Aerie: which is your favorite?

Don't get me wrong, I love both of these stores and I think they both have great stuff, but which one do you think has better quality bras? Better quality underwear? The best sweats and casual clothes? Let me know what...

Shabambam

Xper 5 Age: 30

Which do you find sexier girls? A bodybuilder or and MMA fighter?

A bodybuilder or an MMA fighter? Just a silly random question to settle a debate between me and my friend. One of us is an MMA fighter, the other is a bodybuilder, but I'm not gonna say which is which until I get answers...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When you use the word 'dumbass'?

I'm asking because English is not my first language.. does that mean dumb + a**hole ? what's the actual usage ? i looked up dictionary but when I see TV show native speakers seems to use differently. thanks

Anonymous

(36-45)

That 'one' girl/guy that gives you butterflies?

Ever just spotted that one person that you can't help but glance over at several times and actually have a genuine "thing" going for them? What makes them so attractive and special in your eyes? Guys, what qualities...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Earrings on my boyfriend, no?

my boyfriend wears earrings on both ears and it makes me feel sick as I think they should be on girls but even though I don't say anything it bothers me so much but wouldn't if it was only on one ear so should I tell him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why is she contacting me after she said she couldn't date me?

So I had a great fling with a girl this past summer. We knew each other a little and went out and hit it off. Reason that it remained a fling was that she was moving 1000 miles away. So she moved and we stayed in touch....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Is Taylor Swift's "you belong with me" a rip off of Saving Jane's "girl next door"?

girl next door by saving jane, came out in 2005: https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=P7DJ9yqydsA chorus goes: She is the prom queen I'm in the Marching band She is a cheerleader I'm sitting in the stands She gets the top...

starryeyedbabe

Xper 5 Age: 32

"Maybe I'll see you there" ...what does maybe mean!?

I was telling this guy I like about an group I am intending on joining. He said he likes that too and would like to join. Since then he he brings it up every once and awhile and says "maybe I'll see you there." When you...

harveykinkle

Yoda Age: 41

Break Up & Divorce

How can I stop hoping he will come back to me?

My ex and I only just broke up on Friday. We broke up because he was going through stuff and couldn't give me what I needed for the relationship to work. Neither of us wanted it and it was so hard. I told him I need...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy says "you look really nice today"?

There's this guy in my class and every time he sees me he tells me I look nice! And I just keep saying "thank you" For some reason, I thought it meant he has a crush on me too since he compliments me all the time! Lol! Oh...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

How many pages on average can you read in 1 hour?

I think I'm a really slow reader because I want to take my time to understand the material. I love reading non-fiction genres particularly on world culture and psychology. In 1 hour, I can only read about 20~25 pages in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Ask a girl out and she says yes, but later she changes her mind?

Hi, This girl has been flirting with me for a while now, so I start talking to her and after talking to her a couple of times I ask her out and get her phone number (she says yes). Then 2 days later when I arrange for us...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do you ignore pretty girls?

Why do average looking, normal guys ignore pretty girls? (I mean I know personality is key, but you don't even approach her or smile at her) Why?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to know when a girl wants you to approach them?

Ladies, what are the subtle hints that us guys might be missing? Often times, we pick up the wrong cues, and choose the skank over the cute shy girl in the corner that doesn't have it in her to approach us first.

6Paul11

Yoda Age: 37

Family & Friends

I feel embarrassed being the only single child?

Both of my sisters have boyfriends and it embarrasses me that I am the only sibling without a boyfriend. My parents make comments on it all of the time and my sisters always invite their boyfriends over to family dinners....

mccollins

Xper 7 Age: 33

Trading pictures?

IF your a coupple and you trade pictures is that OK ? IF a guy likes you and asks for a picture but doesn't send ..what does it mean ? IF you are ex boyfriend and gf and he wants a picture of you and you send and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Nobody really approves of my boyfriend?

i was with my boyfriend for a year and a half before he split up with me. I won't deny that he broke my heart and I was so upset over it for ages. he quickly got together with another girl. naturally my parents/friends...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He said I'm girlfriend material?

"i see you as girlfriend material, derfor it wouldn't be bad with us exchanging some pictures" - came from my ex (he broke up with me ) good or bad ?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Asking for a girls number?

whenever I ask for a girl's number that I have a crush on or I'm flirting with, I always get some hesitation, then an okay. then when I call them, they don't pick up, LOL. so, whenever I ask to exchange numbers or to get...

sportdistant

Xper 3 Age: 39

Relationships

If a woman calls you "My love", does that mean they love you?

I've been in a physical relationship with a wonderful women. We have EVERYTHING in common and seem to really be enjoying our relationship! The other day she's responded to one of my questions like: "Yes, my love." Was...

timmy290

Xper 4 Age: 38

Break Up & Divorce

She rejected me and flirts with other guys?

We used to flirt a lot, and then her boyfriend broke up with her. Even though we kept flirting after that, she ended up rejecting me. Now we've stopped talking and she just flirts with other guys, including a couple of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are people in general so mean to waiters and waitresses?

i am a waitress so I get and see my fair share of customers being rude. but I see it when I go out to eat at other restaurants and I can't believe it. last night I went out to dinner with some friends. out waiter seemed...

littlemissthing

Xper 5 Age: 31

Do girls color coordinate their outfits with their underwear often?

This thought often comes to me when the guys and I are evaluating neighboring females and we speculate how often women do this. I've seen examples of both clashing colors and coordinated colors. My wife does...

martyfellow

Editor Age: 46

What does emotionally unavailable really mean?

So a little background information to give it context: I fell in love with X while I was dating another guy, and X and I ended up making out. Eventually I broke up with my boyfriend at the time because I realized that I...

ph0ar

Xper 3 Age: 35

Relationships

Do some women like younger guys?

I've noticed lately that I attract older women, especially at clubs. I'm 22 and when I go to clubs where most of the people there are my age I hardly get any luck with girls. Yet, when I go to a club where there are...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Should I call him after 6 months?

I would like a guys opion on this... I really ike this guy and he knows it, I think about him all the time,haven't spoke to him in 6 months I have no clue how to see...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)