All Questions

I'm a ginger, should I dye my hair black?

before anyone says red is a special color and I shouldn't dye it, shut up. I'm just wondering, will black (or dark brown) be too much for my fair skin? or will it just make it look better. i have blue eyes and I always...

throwit

Guru Age: 33

Flirting

What to do when his actions don't match his words?

He apologizes later...but its getting harder and harder to believe that he's sincere. I want to believe his words...but his actions hurt (some are big things and some are small things, but all the small things add up)....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Do you have a urge to touch someone you like?

I do. It obvious to me because there are 2 workers. One coworker is talkative. He is nice but some comments like walk of shame, do for fun, etc listens like he wants to know my relationship status. I have no desire to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Insanity vs. Tapout XT?

I'm thinking about getting one of these programs to do. I wanted to get peoples opinions about them before I go out and drop $120+ on it. If y'all have done one of them, what did you think of it? Was it worth it? and...

Mac5500

Xper 5 Age: 33

Girl pulls a 180... what's up?

OK so for the last 2 months I've been talking to this girl. She moved home right after finals and this weekend she invited me down to see her for the first time since she left. I stayed at her house, her parents loved me,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys: What do you think of boy shorts?

What first comes to mind when you hear 'boy shorts'? I'm just curious!

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are string bikinis slutty?

Does it depend on how many people your chilling with or if you are with just girls or both girls and guys? I haven't worn one since I was 10 and want to know what guys thought.

ginnyweasly

Xper 5 Age: 30

Can anyone get a bubble butt?

Such as this: link If so will running, squats and lunges do the trick? Along with proper diet?

mccollins

Xper 7 Age: 33

Relationships

I think the word "love" is too broad a term. Ever try to break down how many different ways you can use it?

It's no wonder that people get so confused about it all the time. I'm not claiming any of these as specific to me, but giving examples: I love my family. I love my dog. I love my wife. I love my kids. I love my car....

HardAppleCider

Xper 6 Age: 43

She's constantly changing her mind.

me and my ex girlfriend talked over the phone and agreed to meet up at her house. at first she was all exited and was hinting that she wanted me back and possibly to hook up. after a while she started expressing her fears...

dragonkid

Xper 5 Age: 30

Does agreeing with a break up work?

Apparently they say that's a good wake up call to make your ex reconsider?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a married guy asks if you will be going out with your boyfriend?

At work I talk to this married guy. We have a civilized discussion so there's no flirting going on and sometimes we joke and have a laugh. The other day when conversing with him I told him I would be going out of town...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

How do you handle a friend who is blinded by love?

I have a friend and she is 18 and in love with this guy and I know and I would tell her my honest advice every time she asks and sometimes without her asking whenever its needed and she says she's a big girl and can make...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why would he copy my tone of voice/ the way I speak subconsciously?

He works at the local store...I wen there with my mum, she spoke to him first and he was very polite as usual and spoke in his regular way but as soon as I spoke he changed the way he spoke to mirror/ copy me and even had...

candyhoneypie89

Xper 5 Age: 37

When someone keeps their distance from you can that ever mean they are attracted to you?

I have had some recent encounters with a woman that have made me wonder whether she was atracted to me but then on Friday something odd happened that makes me re-think. I was in a queue and she joined the queue right...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Would you prefer to date a tsundere or a yandere?

For people who don't watch anime a tsundere is someone who is mean and turns nice and yandere is the opposite. My family says I'm yandere but others say I'm tsundere. I really don't know. But I do want to know which one...

oreo23a

Xper 3 Age: 30

Why do ugly women reject attractive guys at clubs?

Im a pretty attractive guy, I'm not some hot guy, but I'm definitely not average looking or ugly. Every once in a while I get asked if I do modeling or get suggested that I should for example. I go clubbing, and I have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When a guy says "Hello Miss. _______" Is he trying to be cute?

I saw my crush yesterday and we were walking by one another. I said Hi _____. and he replied with "Hello Miss Johnson" He never does this... I know this is prob a silly question but I was jw. I think this guy likes me.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Why do women find musicians so sexy?

Yeah it seems that most if not all women go wild for musicians. Is it just because they are coveted by other women or does it have to do with how talented they are with playing their instruments or something else? I...

whateverdude

Xper 4 Age: 45

Health & Fitness

What do guys think of scars on a womans breast?

what do guys feel about breast reduction surgery scars? would this be a turn off? and if you met an attractive woman and then you realized that her breasts are not great and have scars. what would you think and would this...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My friend gets everything handed to her on a silver platter?

My friend Jen has everything handed to her on a silver platter. She plays a wounded little deer to the world making everyone feel sorry for her. But if you really know her like I do she is nothing but a two faced bitch....

lilangel22

Xper 3 Age: 38

Can I say sorry to a girl for being clingy?

well I was being to clingy to a girl I liked and she stopped talking and texting me so should I just tell her I'm sorry? it's already been 3 months. everyday I text her good morning and some stuff.

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when he smiles to himself when he sees me?

He will look at me, properly like up and down, then smile to himself...does he think I'm cute or what? I have no idea :s

HoneySpiceSugar

Xper 5 Age: 37

Is it nice to wear a t-shirt with no bra in public?

Dragan

Guru Age: 40

What is an emotional roller coaster for a guy?

If a guy who doesn't seem to like you for anything but sex, tells you he can't take the emotional roller coaster anymore, what does that mean? I had told him that we had to stop seeing each other.

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guy's Behavior

If a girl laughs a lot when you chat with her on Facebook, does that mean she likes you?

I added this girl that I met a couple of months ago, and every time I talk to her and joke with her or flirt with her she laughs like she goes like hahahaha you know? Does that mean she like me?

Yeahhbro

Yoda Age: 37

What does it mean when a girl asks if she is annoying you multiple times?

What does it mean when a girl asks if she is annoying you? I have a situation right now where I went on a date with a girl from college and hung out in a group a few times after that but I'm not sure what her deal is. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Do Mexican men like white blond women?

I just started working at a blackberry vineyard picking blackberries. And I'm the only white person out there, the other people are mexicans. I am very blond. My hair is a yellow color but sometimes it looks kind of...

Cheeries95

Xper 5 Age: 30

Does No Contact really work with a ex or will they forget you?

I split with my ex of 2 1/2 years 2 months ago. I haven't gone more than 3 days without talking to him. I usually initiate it but he always answers right back or if I call he answers. I'm not a crazy ex that constantly...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it weird I wear spandex to the gym?

I'm 16 and I usually just wear a tshirt and spandex to the gym. Is it weird or ok? I'm not trying to get attention it's just comfy I find some people(women) look at me funny or like I'm doing something wrong. I'm not...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Guys- If a girl touches your hand while talking, would you think anything of it?

Just curious because I am trying to be more flirty with my crush. I went to tell him something today and I reached over the counter (we were on opposite sides) and touched his hand to tell him. If you were him, would you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I get a guy back after acting needy after the first date?

After the first date, I didn't hear from him for 4 days so I called/texted him constantly and said it seemed like he led me on and we argued about that and I ended up calling him names. By that time, he stopped answering...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Mohawk on a guy. Yes or no?

I don't know if anyone here's familiar with Yelawolf, but he's a rapper with a real badass mohawk-like hairstyle link Kind of the shape of how it should look like link That's how I'd like it. Now, I need you...

AdamUndead

Xper 5 Age: 31

Do guys like long dresses on girls?

Maybe something like this with a cute pair of heels. link Is it too formal for a informal dinner?

cinamongirl

Xper 6 Age: 38