All Questions

Men, do you have a hard time trusting women?

I know I do. I have for a while but I just realized. Probably shouldn't be like this either, I know many good women are out there but in my life they haven't been the best to me and my friends. Granted I know many men...

irykiryk

Guru Age: 34

Girl's Behavior

If a girl is constantly playing with her hair, does it mean anything?

so this girl came into my work and sat down and was playing with her the whole time while I was helping another guest, and then my friend helped her and started hitting on her, but when she left she said happy new years...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

I am 5'7 and weigh 115 pounds. Sounds thin, right? WRONG. HELP!

well my legs are thin and everything else is but my BELLY. I hate it! it protrudes from my body when I stand up and when I sit down I get serious gross rolls. and when I stand up I have red lines from where the rolls...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy calls a girl mam?

What does it mean when a guy calls a girl mam? And I'm not old lol Not really sure what to think about the guy that I like calling me mam what does this mean?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What to put in a locket besides a picture of family since everyone does that?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

She ended it and then reached out to me after I went No Contact. Where do I go from here?

So I had a great fling with a girl this past summer. We knew each other a little and went out & hit it off. Reason that it remained a fling was that she was moving 1000 miles away. So she moved and we stayed in touch. It...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm kinda getting stuck in a British accent. This isn't good.

Okay, so for giggles, I used an English accent in the mall and ended up with a girls number. I used the same accent at work to tell the story and everyone including my huge crush loved it. My crush keeps asking me to do...

tyler_davidson

Xper 5 Age: 33

You boyfriend/girlfriend has dated interracially in the past-do you have a problem with it?

You find out that your girlfriend or boyfriend has dated interracially in the past, meaning they've dated someone of a different race. Do you have a problem with it or are you accepting of it or is it whatever? Would your...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do women always play the pity card?

You women have it down to a science. You tease us, lead us on, get us to do whatever you want and then turn us down. Then it's always our faults. I don't understand how this is fun for you? But hey, I'm sure it never gets...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriend dumped me because I am insecure?

I used to be confident, have goals, have lots of hobbies etc but in the past few months I've gotten low-self esteem and I've become insecure. I asked him if he wants to break up, he said no, I had some emotional episodes...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I text my ex for closure?

So my boyfriend broke up with me randomly over a text. Things were going great...or so I thought. He didn't give me a reason or anything. Now that I'm getting over the hurt I really just want to know why...good or bad idea?

twintwin5678

Xper 5 Age: 31

Guys, does telling something very personal to a girl mean anything to you?

I started seeing someone just before the holidays started, and we've been apart for 3 weeks. We emailed each other every few days, and actually managed to have conversation that wasn't just superficial "hey, what's up?"...

Anonymous

(36-45)

"You are the most beautiful girl I have ever seen"-a good opener?

I'm learning in uni and in September I noticed an insanely beautiful girl in the hallways; however, she and I aren't in the same department and so I never see her in class, and she's always with her female friend....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Bikini question for the girls mainly?

Whats the sexiest bikini you would wear or have worn? Private and public? See through? strapless? Comparing to what I've seen and what my girlfriend wears.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

My boyfriend has beautiful friend?

I am with him 1,5year, it's everything OK with him just I am insecure person. He works with girl who is very beautiful, intelligent , ideal girl. I think I am pretty , creative , talented, but she has so extremely cute...

Anonymous

(30-35)

A little confused, is she playing hard to get or not interested?

I've mentioned this before but now things are starting to happen. I am just a bit confused at the moment. So I bumped into a girl the Friday before Xmas eve. We chatted twice that night, I saw her looking at me a lot,...

very-confused

Xper 4 Age: 50

Would you date someone while studying abroad?

On another continent? Say if you were going to be there for a year or two? And if things worked out would you be willing to stay in a foreign land and leave your friends and family behind?

kennyk

Xper 6 Age: 36

Relationships

Should I ask him what happened or just act unaffected?

I had been hanging out with a guy that I like a lot and there is amazing chemistry between us. I love that even more than the physical stuff, we can talk for hours about everything. Anyway, after hanging out several times...

TrinityNOLA

Xper 4 Age: 49

Guys, do you have a problem taking care of your girlfriend when she is really drunk?

Like making sure she gets home and safely to bed? If she gets really out of control and sick do you mind helping her with that?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Is chest hair a turn off for women?

If you were with a man, and took off his shirt and he looked like he fell on Alf. Would that really bother a women?

Bodhi1234

Xper 3 Age: 41

He keeps complimenting my butt?

I've been talking to this guy for about a week now. He'll always message me and we tease and joke around each other a lot. We both really get along and he's very sweet towards me. If I say something like "I always get...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is the difference between flirting & hitting on someone?

I know it sounds like a stupid question but I really like to know the difference between the two (flirting versus hitting).

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do men send pointless texts?

Why does a man I had a great date with (37 years old) text 'hiya lovey' then I replied 30 min later with ' hiya love' and then nothing...no chat...I've not heard from him...what's the actual point? Thanks

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

Why are brothers so over-protective?

OK so I have 5 brothers (28.25.23.16.8) I'm 21 they are way to over protective even the 8 year old. once a guy started to flirt with me he came up to me held my hand and called me mommy. I toke my 16 year old brother to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Once you go black, you don't go back?

I recently hooked up with a really hot Black guy, and now I'm not attracted to anyone unless they're Black.. ? Why? I'm surrounded by attractive guys but now, I have absolutely no interest in them. I've always been...

Kacie

Xper 3 Age: 39

Why does a guy's face turn red when they look at you?

why do guys face turn red when they look at you?.. What do they actually think in they're heads?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is mirroring another person's speech a sign of interest?

It has been said that mirroring another person's body language could be a sign of interest. What about speech mirroring? I notice he picks up on my catchphrases and re-uses them during conversations with me or with...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why do some guys need liquid courage?

I've known this guy for awhile. When I see him, he's pretty happy to see me, all smiles, goofy, loves to tease me...yet he can't look at me. He's pretty content to talk to me but just stares ahead, not looking at me only...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When girls approach a guy at a club?

I went out to a few different classy clubs last night to bring in the new year and I dressed pretty nicely. I had a bunch of people tell me I looked really good and a lot of girls were checking me out. One of the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are you attracted to someone's voice? or accent?

a man with a deep voice will make me melt and I'm not attracted to guys that have a certain higher pitch of voice. I love the way south African people speak, new Zealand/Australians are a little different but I like...

assley

Yoda Age: 35

Girly girls who listen to rock?

What do you think of that? girlie girls that like to dress all cute but listen to rock?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Calling all guys! Are gamer girls found attractive?

Okay, I've always been a nerd/gamer and I was just wondering...is that found attractive? I don't tend to tell many guys and I was just wondering...Please and thanks in advance<3

LeaLovley

Xper 5 Age: 33

Girl's Behavior

Why does this guy like to piss me off??

A guy I've known for 2 years really knows how to push my buttons. He will tease me or say things he knows really make me mad. He's flirted with me a lot over the 2 years I've known him, but I'm not sure why he tries to...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Is it wrong to Facebook stalk?

i think stalking is wrong and creepy, but it does not stop me from doing the same to my crushes... what do you think? and do you do it too?

AlwaysOneStepTooLate

Xper 5 Age: 35