All Questions

Does she like me if she always texts me first?

there is this girl I like and she always sends a text first, and we talk for awhile and when we meet at someones b-day she would hold my hand and hug me, she also came over and laid in my bed and watched a movie with me...

Timewilltell18

Xper 5 Age: 33

Other

Why is it that a lot of guys like Japanese girls?

Yes I am Japanese , but why is it that guys ask me what my background is they all of a sudden get way too "close" I'm not saying all guys just a lot

Pinkcheesecake

Xper 5 Age: 32

My ex broke up with me over a misunderstanding on Christmas. Do I send his Xmas gift I already bought?

My ex is a lot older than me but we both are ready to settle down. He lives in another country. We met online. We have spent time together and we fell in love at the end of our holiday. We were desperate to be together...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do guys get so funny about a girl they know becoming a model?

Well, I've been offered modelling jobs, I've had a few photo shoots, I've been told I have the potential, but my boyfriend does not like the idea. My guy friends also say, ''Don't do that, your objectifying yourself.''...

emmablunt1993

Xper 5 Age: 32

How do I stand up to my verbally abuse roommate (who is also my boyfriend's best friend)?

I'm very bad with verbal confrontation. My father was verbally abusive and if I ever stood up to him he got physically abusive, so I learned to shut up and take it. This is stressing me out, though. My one roommate is...

Red_Raconteur

Yoda Age: 36

Flirting

Why do girls like guys that ignore them?

I have a problem. It's when I start ignoring girls they come after me, but then when I like one of those girls and show interest they turn the cold shoulder?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do some guys lose interest after the first kiss?

I've been seeing this guy (he's a coworker) for around 2 months. Because of the holidays, we spent 3 weeks apart out of those 2 months. So we haven't really done anything either. Just a few dates, a few kisses here and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Valentine's Day

Is it cute or creepy to leave a rose and a Valentine note in a crush's locker?

Okay I know its a bit early to plan for Valentine's day but I as wondering if someone went into your school locker and left a rose and a valentine card from a secret admire would that be cute or just plain creepy?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls like eye contact?

Lately, I've been wondering about whether or not eye contact is an effective way to show kindness and display confidence when talking to women. For as long as I can remember, I've always had trouble maintaining eye...

devin2002

Xper 5 Age: 35

Do guys care about if a girl has money or not?

When you're dating a girl, do you care if she has money or not? Do you care what type of job she has? What if she's trying her best? She has a job but doesn't get paid as much as you, does that make you want to or not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Boyfriend is TOO proud, advice?

I'm getting sick and tired of his pride. He's too proud to do this, settle for that, complains about things being not good enough for him, sets his standards waaay too high, etc...too many times I've tried to tell him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys not like "spunky" girls or is it a complete turn on?

And in spunky I mean a VERY specific group of girls, not the bitchy Paris Hilton types or the ones who start crap (cough cough Joan Rivers). Not even the ones with good intentions but serious voice inflections and...

lindsey1227

Xper 3 Age: 33

How does a shy and sensitive tomboy find the right guy?

I'm 17 and have never even had anyone have a crush on me. I've had depression since I was 6 years old and I also have ADD (attention deficit disorder) I'm not stupid or anything. I'm very self conscious and have low self...

roseofthewolf

Xper 5 Age: 31

Fashion & Beauty

He has a girlfriend but calls me hot and tells me how good I look and teases me sexually a lot...

He also told me that if he hadn't had a girlfriend when we met last year he and I would be a couple. And he tells me that he wants to break up with his girlfriend soon because he can't see himself spending his life with...

xobrowneyedbeauty

Guru Age: 33

If he calls himself your boyfriend?

he referred to himself my boyfriend.. is this his way of making it official. I'm not gonna bring up "the talk". and we all know guys avoid the relationship talk at all times. so what do you think?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Was I wrong for telling my sister she disrespected me when she had sex with him?

This is really long but if you could take the time to read it and help me out I would appreciate it. My sister's boyfriend is our cousin (yes, that is completely disgusting but I'm sure some people won't find anything...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Has feminism affected the relationship between men and women?

If so, how? I think it has, but I'd like to hear the opinions of others. Please share your thoughts & discuss.

Hades

Xper 4 Age: 35

Other

How many shots can you handle?

My 21st is tomorrow so alcohol is on my mind :P. How many shots can you have without being drunk?

briannamarieb

Xper 6 Age: 35

What are signs when a shy guy is crazy about a girl?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating a younger woman? Too big an age gap?

It is a 10 year age gap, she is 21 and I am 31. Met in a bar and hit it off. Ended up staying at hers all weekend. She is a very pretty, smart and witty young woman and I get the impression she likes me a lot. I am...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why this guy was staring and why he didn't look away?

The guy that was sitting next to me at a party, went and sat opposite me across the room. I caught him staring at me but he didn't look away, just kept staring with a dreamy face. I looked away and then looked at him...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What does "ha" mean when texting?

Is it short for "hahaha" is it a bad sign. Is it like in life where you go Ha! Told ya...and why not just write any of that. Wtf does ha mean?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Ninth grade girl dating an eighth grade boy?

Hey, is that weird too do. like can a ninth grade girl date a boy or will that make the girl seem like an idiot

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

How do you feel about plus size women?

Namely because I am one, I would just like to know your opinion. Would you date a plus sized woman? My SO tells me he like the chub I have (more cushion for the pushin') and all that, but it really piques my interest. How...

kasiecakes

Xper 7 Age: 34

Flirting

Why do men like to tease and/or get a rise out of women?

When a man teases one woman in particular and not to mention incessantly (don't worry, it isn't cruel and she teases back!), does it really follow the age old tale that they like her? Is it their subconscious way to tell...

Shimmyshammy

Xper 7 Age: 34

Would you rather know the sad truth or live a happy lie?

If your man was cheating on you, would you rather know the truth and be hurt and may never ever trust another man again? or would you rather he hides everything so well that you'll never find out until you die?

squeakyclean

Xper 5 Age: 39

Do high heels scream high maintenance?

I'm a girl who own an entire shoe store of high heels... not literally of course but 85% of the time you will see me in some form of heel 2-3 inches is my average. Some of my guy friends have said my shoe preference...

gemsglitter

Xper 5 Age: 32

Health & Fitness

Unathletic Guys: Intimidated by athletic girls?

So I know that most guys (or at least the athletic ones) are attracted to athletic girls. I love sports and am pretty decent at every one I try. Is it a turn off when, lets say, a girl teaches you how to throw a rugby...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can I fix something I did wrong on our second date?

so I just met this guy and of course I really like him. he asked me out on a date and it all went really good. Then 2 days later he asked me if I wanted to come hang out with him and his friends to a bar... we all started...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would you date a girl who lives at home? Is there a stigma attached?

Would you date a girl who is 26-27 who still lives at home? I work a full time job and my parents are kind enough to let me stay while I go to graduate school. I cannot afford to live away from home and pay for graduate...

pinto121212

Xper 3 Age: 41

Im 25 she's 19. Is that too big of a gap?

I started seeing this girl that's 19. She goes to school about 45 min away from me and I work full-time. Am I wasting my time here ?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Do Asian People Have Curly Hair?

Random question but I was curious of there were any Asians that had naturally curly or wavy hair? I was reading a hair types chart and it said that Asians have very straight coarse hair, was wondering if they can have any...

pr3ttybr0wn

Master Age: 38

Fashion & Beauty

Do you guys like girls that smell like cupcakes ?

I am planning to make some organic body mists .. and I love the smell of vanilla.. Not that I am self concious , but I was wondering if guys like girls that smell like sweet vanilla, or honey .. could it ever be a turn off ?

Yriuqni

Xper 7 Age: 36

Health & Fitness

Hyphal elements seen in stool?

What do you mean by Hyphal elements seen in stools? I did a fecalysis today. The result shows that I have no parasites and no ameoba.. But it says under it.. Others: Hyphal elements seen.. What does this mean? Please...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating older men...Does age matter?

Girls would you date a guy,that is older then you. What age would be your,cut of point. Dos age matter.

icepolarbear

Xper 5 Age: 66