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My boyfriend doesn't have faith in me.

We get along great. He trusts me. We both try and be as open as we can. I never lie to him, and he makes sure he tells me everything, even if it is hard for him to tell me because I will not like it. Even after being...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why won't any white guy date me?

Well at my school, I am a black girl nice looking and if I ask a white guy, no offense to anyone, he always says no. I don't know if it is because I am black or if he just doesn't want to? I sometimes feel depressed...

keyrutherford

Xper 4 Age: 33

Family & Friends

Boyfriend broke up with me, then changed his mind but still isn't trying?

My boyfriend and I are in our mid twenties. We've been together almost 2 years and live together. About 5 months ago we moved to his hometown so he could pursue his career. Things were going great before the move and he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is 5'8 too short for an American male?

I'm 21 and still a virgin and never had a girlfriend. I have a quite handsome face but the only girls that have ever shown interest in me have been very short. Like around 5'2 or 5'3... I'm pretty positive most girls my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Nothing I do is ever god enough for my wife

i work morning and when I come home between 5-6 I clean and cook dinner and every time I do something its wrong or not good enough. when we sleep be side each other she pushes me away. we haven't made love in a month. I...

Exploited_1986

Xper 5 Age: 39

He went after me for 6 months and is now ignoring me?

I had a class with a boy. Within the first week I could tell he was interested in me. He'd constantly try to talk to me. He tried to hold my hand multiple times and constantly touched me. He loved when he made me laugh....

diamondalle

Xper 5 Age: 33

Relationships

Love my boyfriend but miss my ex a little! What should I do?

I broke up with my ex 3 months ago and he was calling me and begging me to come back but I moved on with a nicer wiser choice and was ignoring him. My new boyfriend I have been with for a month and half. I'm totally happy...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Girls putting feet on the car dashboard?

I am just asking this to see if it is just me or ... Girls: We often see a car pass by on the highway, and see a girl place her bare feet up on the dashboard. I know most girls would do it for comfort; but do any girls...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girl's Behavior

Why do girls look at me from a distance but ignore me up close?

Is it a shy thing or something? If I am walking towards a group of girls I can see them looking at me from a far off distance but about half way to each other they act like I don't exist. I know it has nothing to do with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

How much money do I need for a movie date?

I'm taking this girl to the movies on Saturday. The tickets are ten dollars each but I don't know if she wants me to pay. so if she does how much money do I need? Is 40 enough?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Do guys like when girls initiate things?

If you are dating a girl for a month do you like it if she initiates plans? I understand that most guys like to be the "pursuer" in a relationship and enjoy the chase but how soon after seeing each other is it acceptable...

bicoastalSURF

Xper 3 Age: 43

Is asking "are you dating anyone?" mean the guy is interested in you?

This guy I have been talking to asked me that recently. Does that mean he is interested or just being nice? After that I had to go, so I gave him my number, he hasn't called/texted yet? How long does a guy take to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my ex not just let go after he cheated?

My question is ... I'd been with my ex for two years when I found out he been cheating, when I'd met him he said everything I wanted to hear, how he'd been hurt , just wanted a true love thing with no crap no lies etc .....

Kezboo

Xper 5 Age: 49

A guy friend put his arm around me when he was drunk. Is this cheating?

My guy friend and I are pretty close, we joke that we're like brother and sister. We made out a few times when we were really young, but we joke now that it's gross to us. Anyway when we were at a party, he kept trying...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm Not Ready For A Relationship?

For you fellas-- is the "I'm not ready for a relationship" always a genuine answer or sometimes an easy cop-out? (I'm in a situation, so if more detail is needed, let me know) Thanks in advance!

kt_kyleen

Xper 5 Age: 40

Why won't he give me a chance?

My friend C and I meet each other at this summer job. We did talk but not much but when the summer ended he got my number and started texting me. He is a really sweet, fun and handsome. His family lives here but he goes...

fabulousmuah

Xper 5 Age: 34

What's with guys and straight hair?

I naturally have curly hair...but when I straighten it I get SO much more attention. It is really weird, do more guys just prefer straight hair because its silky and looks nicer to touch ahhahah?

hollyj98

Xper 5 Age: 36

I just don't understand why girls I am attracted to are not attracted to me. What is the deal with me?

I am attracted to sporty, cheerleader or sorority type girls but I never get the chance to date them. I am the frat boy type except I am a good guy. I want to date girls that I like and that are attractive to me.. Girls...

CollegeDude20

Xper 5 Age: 36

Relationships

My boyfriend doesn't believe in love!

what does that mean :\

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I text him after a week of him not texting me?

I met a fantastic guy walking my dog about 2 weeks ago. It was late and I just got home. He met me outside with his dog. We talked in person for 30 - 45 min. that night. I was hooked from that moment. Two days went by...

babilo

Xper 5 Age: 40

Shopping & Gifts

Guys: What is your favorite Halloween costume on a girl?

Which costume is the sexiest on a girl? Ideas :) Thanks!

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can I ask a guy if he's still interested in me even though we kinda stopped dating?

I just wanna know, I'm so into this guy but everything seems to go wrong or come out wrong...I just can't really open up and he did a little (also asked me out, but the dates went not well, I behaved just weirdly because...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I threw a plate at my girlfriend.

I'm under a lot of stress right now, and I'm recovering from a heroin addiction. I've been best friends with my girlfriend since the 5th grade. Almost all her boyfriends before me have been abusive in one way or another I...

TDSD89

Xper 5 Age: 37

Why are shirts so long these days?

I'm a guy with a small build, so it is hard to find shirts that fit me perfectly. But even small shirts in the adult section are way too long for me. I have older shirts that aren't so damn long and they are supposedly...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Why hasn't he called in 3 days after our 2nd date?

I winked at a guy on Match and he then emailed me. We emailed a couple of times and he asked me out for a drink. He suggested a couple of days, none of which I was available. I then responded and told him a few days that...

LBEsq

Xper 5 Age: 44

Sending a "Happy birthday" message to someone who rejected me in the past?

I know it's kind of stupid, and normally I wouldn't care and just post "Happy Birthday" on his wall on facebook or something. But he ignored a message I sent him once already, so I don't want him to think I'm still after...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He ignores me when he's with his friends (GUYS PLEASE HELP)

so I ignore him too. then if I do, he sends me msgs why so and if I'm mad and he will say he misses me then asks me out for a hook up. I always stood him up because I feel like I'm a booty call and I'm not. then he will...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is it OK to kiss her again?

There's this girl that I've been friends with for quite some time. We flirt and hang out and cuddle. She knows I like her and would like to date her, I've told her. She is always saying she's not ready for a relationship...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Ideal partner height? what's yours?

whats your ideal, and what's your cut off (minimum)?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why is my boyfriend jealous of my dead ex?

My current boyfriend of 2 years has a huge and I mean a HUGE problem with me going and visiting my exes grave. My ex was my first ever boyfriend and my current one is my second. Anyway my first boyfriend and I grew up...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why doesn't he make a move?

i think my friend and I have developed something more we hang out everyday for hours he tries to be on good terms with my best friend he stares at me when we are studying always tries to make me smile gives me messages...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, what do you think of forward women?

OK, so I have the tendency to be a little forward with guys. If I see one I like I have no problem approaching them, I tease and flirt with them a fair amount and usually they ask for my number. Sometimes they text me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He's 29. I'm 21. How to get him? I want him!!!

What exactly do I want from him? Not sure. If I like him enough, I might like to pursue something more with him. But right now, my fantasies are just leading to a good...well, you know ;) Don't get me wrong though! He...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Can a short and skinny guy rock a buzz cut?

Buzz cut like channing tatum, wentorth miller, etc. Only the guy is about 5'8 and 135 pounds. Not super muscular at all.

Anonymous

(36-45)