All Questions

Is it ever ok for a girl to text a guy first? if so, when and how often?

All up there. I would prefer for guys to answer with their opinions no offense girls. Thanks. =]

xobrowneyedbeauty

Guru Age: 33

Society & Politics

Why do guys like watching girl fights?

This is one of those running themes in the media. What is it about girl fights that guys like? Or is it just fighting in general?

HaleyJo

Xper 5 Age: 34

Does my professor have a crush on me?

I’m taking a summer course and the professor (technically not a professor, a PhD student) is always staring at me with that "look" in his eye and smiling. Whenever he tells a joke or anything his eyes go straight to me....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is my guy friend constantly avoiding being alone with me?

Me and my friend had been friends for 10 years. Recently I have developed a crush on him and have told him how I felt. He didn't feel the same way, and so we grew apart for a few months. I have since then dated other...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when he says "I would take a bullet for you"?

My boyfriend of 9 months told me last night during a heartfelt conversation said: "I would take a bullet for you." He looked so sincere and emotional when he told me. Does that mean he loves me? Was he trying to tell...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm 19, and I still pick my nose.

OK well for me boogers are just so annoying, and always have been, so I just pick my nose, bit I DO NOT eat my snot, that's just too far. I always see people with those tiny boogers hanging out of their noses, and it's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Right decision? I told my ex I don't want to see her ever again.

My ex broke up with me for no good reason. I told her this time I don't want to see her ever again in a nice way. It's to hard to be IN love with someone and be their friend. Last time we broke up I was still in love with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He keeps blocking and unblocking me but won't communicate! why?

I haven't seen my ex since December. We used to talk on occasion but then out of nowhere he just stopped talking to me. He blocks and unblocks me on msn every other week ... and when I do try to contact him he doesn't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I swear he loves his bike more than me?

Any advice on how to handle this will be much appreciated. My boyfriend has bought a motorcycle last year and I swear he loves it more than me! He's always spending $ on it, gone on it, or on forums about them. He gets...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Am I too flirty, or is he too insecure?

My boyfriend thinks that I am "too friendly" with other men. I am a very talkative, bubbly person and I admit that I often find myself in conversations with perfect strangers at stores, gas stations, really everywhere. I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Want to break-up with my girlfriend but don't want to hurt her feelings?

So I've been with my girl for a little over two years. I was crazy about her at first, but after awhile the feelings I had slowly faded and now I just want out but I don't want to hurt her. She still really loves me and...

JayTexas

Xper 5 Age: 44

Family & Friends

How do I get her to see me more than a friend?

how do I get her to see me more than a friend because some how I end up in the friend zone how do I get out of that and get seen as more than a friend?

darrius321

Xper 6 Age: 33

Relationships

I am intimidated by blonde white women!

Hi, I don't know if what I am feeling is common . I am not sure even if I know exactly what I am feeling! I come from the middle east. I am actually good looking, handsome. educated and well behaved. I dress...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Would a guy ignore a girl if he likes her?

My friend is into a guy, who stares at her every now and then (well she looks good). The three of us belong to the same circle of friends, we go on trips together, have lunch or dinner together every now and then, but we...

hanabi

Xper 5 Age: 47

My ex saw me with my new boyfriend.

my ex saw me with my new boyfriend. although he broke up with me and also has someone new, is there a possible chance he was jealous? its not like I still love him or anything I just want him to feel jealous towards what...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

What does it mean when a guy asks you to live with him early in the relationship?

I've been with my boyfriend for 10 mos, and about 3 mos in the relationship he asked me if I would live with him. I'm curious to what his intentions are if he really meant it or not?

adriyane

Xper 5 Age: 41

What makes him "Amazing?"

Ladies I have a somewhat rather straight forward question for you. What makes your guy just absolutely amazing? And by this what makes you just call him that in each your own way. Like for example, is it because he's tall...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend is insecure about his looks and our relationship.. Help!?!

My boyfriend is really self conscious. He is insecure about our relationship and about his looks. He frequently mentions that he’s not attractive or good looking. When he does this, I try to reassure him by saying that I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

What to wear on date to a park?

were going to a park. and I don't know what to wear / wear shorts or skirts or jeans.. help .

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Boys forced to dress like girls in school?

Anybody think this is a good idea? OK so I read about this elementary school which required ALL students to dress like women for a fashion show to celebrate Women;'s History month..I thought it was SO...

Meetmeonthequinox

Xper 3 Age: 35

Is a goofy personality good?

I've been told I have a goofy personality, I don't have a lot of "game", and girls are all about friends, should I dump this and go with a more "mature" (to me less fun) personality type or stick with what I got and hope...

papasmurf

Xper 3 Age: 36

Fashion & Beauty

Thongs or boyshorts?

What do girls prefer, thongs of boyshorts? I personally think thongs are hot, but I know more girls wear boyshorts today?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

I hate my body, but my boyfriend loves the beach, what should I do?

Hello there I am a 22 year old female and have always been small my whole life, but recently I had jaw surgery and lost a ton of weight. After I was able to eat solid foods my body started to pack it on in weird places...

amber-lee

Xper 5 Age: 38

Relationships

Did he use me for sex?

He was here for the military. I met him on Saturday night. Saturday night he seemed really into me kept looking at me and was calling me later that night begging to come over and see me and I told him no because I was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

What do one word replies mean?

What does it mean when a girls replies to your text messages with only one word?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What fashion style do guys find most attractive?

Guys- when you find a girl you are attractive to what is her fashion like? What do you find is sexy when girls wear it? Girls- what do you feel sexy in and do you think guys find it attractive when you wear it? Do you...

saintlysinner22

Xper 5 Age: 36

My Ex is Now Dating His Best Friend

He and I were together 18 months. And he was everything I ever wanted, we got pretty serious. Then, he swears, he just fell out of love with me suddenly. I am trying so hard to get over it. I'm still alone. It's been 10...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Is it too late to talk to her?

I wanted to talk to this girl the entire year in my school. She always looked at me and I looked at her a lot too. But there was never that perfect time where it was just me and her to talk or even get to know each other....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys pretend to not care about a girl when they actually do?

There is a guy in my class in university whom I liked from the first look. He started talking to me about 3 weeks after the start of the course. During the first 2 days he was really nice and actually made me feel that he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I think my boyfriend is cheating on me with my sister!!!!

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. Recently I have suspected that he is cheating on me and worst of all with my sister who is 1 year younger then me. I am horrified of this thought and I can't eat or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does he keep lying to me? Please help!

I met this guy at work a few months ago and things really hit it off between us. I wasn't interested in him at first but with his constant pursuing me along with sweet text messages and such, I began to fall for him. He...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys have standards?

I hear this saying a lot and I know it sounds kinda crude but the phrase goes, "if it has 2 legs and a hole, a guy will do it". What exactly does that mean for the girl? Will a guy sleep with an average girl or a girl he...

anydaynow

Xper 5 Age: 39