All Questions

Why do guys like to play fight with their gals?

We are both in our 30's but the guy I am dating ( aka boyfriend) is totally into the play fighting. He has dowsed me with water, tackled me to the ground, he bites me hard, always pinches me to the point of screams. And...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What should I wear under white board shorts?

I have white board shorts that I usually wear to the beach or pool that I've had for a year. Last summer I wore them all the time without anything under them because I just don't worry about things like that, and then a...

soccerrun1

Xper 3 Age: 34

Fashion & Beauty

What's the difference between big and fat?

I'm 17 years old 6'1 and weigh around 205(I loose or gain about 2 pounds a day, but usually I'm 205) I have a 36' waste, and I have very broad shoulders, I also am muscular to en extent(I work landscaping no body...

petedunham

Xper 5 Age: 32

What exactly IS the "girl next door" type?

Explain her looks & personality. I never fully understood the term..

Anonymous

(36-45)

Playing hard to get or lost interest?

Guys, how do we know if you play hard to get or have lost interest? I had this a lot of times... first the guy is very into me - speaks to me sweet thinks every day... giving me a lot of attention. But suddenly, he...

FrancescaMilan

Xper 5 Age: 37

Dating

Can a girl be too pure and innocent to get close to?

For some reason I always attract the bad boys and they are attracted to me. I look the party type but then they get to know me and I guess it's frustrating to them that I live at home, have never dated, and am a super...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

After dating for 4 years, he still won't introduce me to his friends!

From the start... We've been dating four years now. He's 36 and I'm 22. Our relationship is mature, loving, respectful, and full of zest. (None of that "Sugar Daddy"...typical dating a twenty year old ditsy stuff) I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Why does my ex suddenly want to hang out all of the time?

So my ex broke up with me over a month ago after nearly a year of dating and up until a couple of weeks ago there really wasn’t much contact between us. A couple of weeks ago we ended up hooking up, but not having sex....

Anonymous

(36-45)

She texts me first, then doesn't text me back?

I've never seen this behavior before. So twice yesterday this girl texted me first, which never happens. So first she said good morning, then I said good morning, what's good? Then she didn't reply. Then later that night...

seanekens

Xper 5 Age: 33

Only ugly girls play hard to get?

IMO the urge for playing hard to get is to raise his own worth. But if you're already desirable because of you're beautiful/ intelligent/ talented/ etc. where's the need to raise your worth? So do only ugly/ dumb/...

qwer1234

Xper 7 Age: 35

Dating

How do you know if a guy wants to kiss you?

There's this guy that I know for a couple months now and every time we chill he comes very close to my face and gives eye contact and he also kisses me on the cheeks allot I'm not sure if he wants to kiss me or wants me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Why do only fat girls like me?

Seriously, I definitely don't try, but it seems every girl I know who weighs 180 or more lbs. becomes extremely attracted to me. Most recent example, I was talking to this one chick I work with about the world cup. Not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Girls, would you break the touch barrier with a guy you weren't interested in?

I need as many opinions and votes as possible, please. The person I am interested in touches me, and lets me touch her a lot. Would she do this and let me do it if she weren't interested? I'm sure that I have heard that...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

He always thinks he's right!

So my boyfriend love him to death but I can not stand how he thinks he knows everything. It irks my nerves to the core of my soul. He swears he's always right about every situation and we get into fight because I tell him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would a guy ask you if you're single or not?

I have been told that I guy who isn't gay will only ask a girl if she has a boyfriend if he is single. So my questions are: Why would a guy ask a girl this? Is there some kind of motive behind it or is he just...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does he keep standing me up?

me & this guy have been talking for about a month now he tells me he really likes me & I know he does ,he text me all day & calls me all the time but when it comes to us making plans he keeps standing me up ? & blames it...

FreshDiva_Yuup

Xper 3 Age: 34

Who is more ticklish?

I just wonder who is more ticklish guys or girls in your experiences or opinions? I know a lot of ticklish girls and I know guys try and fake that stuff. Just asking cause I'm a semi ticklish guy and I mistakenly got...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why doesn't my boyfriend kiss or cuddle with me anymore?

I moved in with him a month or so ago and now he never wants to kiss me or cuddle with me anymore. What am I doing wrong?

sportscutie_2

Xper 5 Age: 35

My Girlfriend Cheated on Me?

Last Saturday my girlfriend decided to go out to the bar, with some of her friends. I was invited, but wasn't really in a mood to go to the bar as I had been out all day and was just really tired. I told her to go out...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

Why did she choose him over me?

he had her first, but I fell in love with her, and I know for a fact she had feelings for me to, when her boyfriend wasn't around, she would ALWAYS sit right next to me, talk to me, scream my name from across the hall...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys get nervous and clumsy around me?

IT seems like whenever guys are around me their eyes are popping out and they get nervous and clumsy. Am I doing something wrong?

ilovecreativeguys94

Xper 4 Age: 32

Do girls get clumsy around guys they like?

There's this girl who always is clumsy around me .eg. dropping her books or folder if I talk to her unexpectedly. If I pick them up and give them back to her she avoids eye contact but she does smile and laugh. She also...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting glance or creepy stare?

Girls, I was wondering, when a guy is checking you out or eying you up and down what is the difference between a casual flirt and a creepy stare? Be as specific as you want.

downfall7

Xper 5 Age: 42

Why are girls so into you one minute then the next avoid you like you're the plague?

I mean I know inside girls go crazy emotionally... is it to try show they are strong? Don't they know a guy has feelings, too? How can a girl go from being so into you, to just pretending you don't exist? How does a guy...

mz4568

Xper 6 Age: 46

Valentine's Day

Can someone really be "too busy" to call or text?

I met this guy online a few months back. We talked on Christmas Eve and New Year's Eve until the clock struck twelve, and he was pretty vocal about how much he liked me. He used to want to talk everyday, but I've noticed...

skip2myloo

Xper 4 Age: 38

Relationships

Do gorgeous shy women exist?

Or women like that are just a complete anomaly a walking oxymoron. Think about it can somebody that gets attention all the time have a low self-esteem, low level of self confidence, or act nervous around men.

Yeahhbro

Yoda Age: 37

Dating

Guys, if you are casually dating someone and go on a date with another girl, that means?

We completely act like a couple. I guess I will first of all start out by explaining why he said he's not ready for a relationship. He still has feelings for his ex (broke up with her almost a year ago though and has...

Anonymous

(36-45)