How to close the deal with a girl?

[Anonymous]

When I'm at a party and I see a girl I'm interested in, I'm pretty good at going over to her and getting a good conversation going. I seem to struggle though, with getting the kiss at the end. I mean I try not to be a guy who talks to a girl only to hook up with her. But it seems I've always seen other guys who are able to get the girl so easy but it seems whenever I try to hook up with the girl, it ends up with her saying I'm cute but declining and us awkwardly sitting there. Is there anything I can say or do to maybe get a better outcome out of this? Thanks in advance for the advice!

[Drake742]

I wish I could help more, but the only usuaful advice I could give you is either don't go for the kill immediately. You gotta allude to it, be charming with an edge. You gotta give offf masculinity. Watch mr. and Mrs. smith, and fight club. two different approaches that will work, you gotta imply it. You can't just directly steer the conversation in that direction, most likely the girls you wanna f*** are smart enough to pick up the ques indirectly, they will find that clever at the very least.

The other way is to immediately exude your sexuality. SMile at her like you're going to eat her, like a wolf, like you're a womanizer, if this isn't you then don't try this one. When you talk to her, you will have already set the tone with you smile, move in close and talk to her, then pull out and get lost for a while, you gotta tease her, get her to chase you, you're the catch, you're the sh*t remember that!

Good Luck

[Asker]

Thanks!

[Drake742]

Anytime bro

[heyitsdan]

Tisk tisk Jr... Depends on the girl, not what you do silly.

[XNicholex3]

Make sure you make it look like you are interested in her, but don't act like you just wanna get in her pants. Girls don't like that, at least the ones who aren't going around looking for a one night stand. There ARE actual girls out there who respect themselves. Anyway, simply just talk to a nice young lady like any other friend, if she seems to like you, you could try to kiss her but if it seems like she isn't ready for that, you should just respect it. But it doesn't mean you have no chance at any other time and day, just means you have to try harder. Treat her with respect as she with you.

[Asker]

Thanks for th great answer!=]