All Questions

Guys; would you ask a girl her age unless you liked her?

I took a leave from my job while I was away at school and just came back to work again over spring break. Since I left a few new people have been hired including this cute guy who's two years younger than me. ( I'm a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is touching appropriate on the first date?

I mean like touching their, arm, hand, thigh, hair, or whatever while talking on the first date.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Signs that a guy likes a girl?

Start making an outline! (:

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he trying to teach me a lesson or is he serious?

I texted something that made my boyfriend mad and he texted me back saying he was done with us. I tried to call him the entire next day and he wouldn't answer my calls. I texted him asking if he still loved me. I said...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Are shy guy + shy girl relationships difficult? Do opposites truly attract?

I've been wondering this for a while, and I would like to hear responses from shy girls and shy guys who have been in a shy+shy relationship and how it worked out. My own experience is that there are a lot of awkward...

BluMac81

Xper 5 Age: 45

Should I apologize for rushing things? How do I untangle myself from this situation!

So I have known this girl for a good 2 months and in the heat of things I believe I have rushed things... Since first talking to her I have always been a big flirt with her and admitted to her that I have a crush on her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Is it self hate to be unattracted to one's own race?

I used to find the guys of my own race the most attractive when I was younger, but over the years, my attraction towards them have slowly dwindled down, and now I am somewhat repulsed by them at times. This has something...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What is the meaning when a guy just wants to cuddle and sleep with you?

OK by sleep, I mean just that. We just sleep together cause fooling around goes against his religious beliefs/and mine so I don't mind but I have some friends say that is is just using me. He likes to cuddle and watch...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Am I getting too close to my (Platonic) guy friend?

I have gotten really close to this guy I work with. We both feel really comfortable with each other, and it seems to be Platonic for both of us. The reason I'm asking is because we've started hanging out a lot more, and...

ellacha

Xper 5 Age: 45

Would you consider sarcasm as a form of flirting?

I tend to be a sarcastic person with people I know, but not to an extreme, sometimes if my friends make kind of a dumb comment I will throw some sarcasm their way. This girl I've known for a while, while at first we used...

Anonymous

(36-45)

BOYS!! I blew it with my crush!! Is there any way I can fix this?

I was being kinda clingy and got insecure after him not calling me for a couple days and I basically called him and asked him why he's been distant. I KNOW-big mistake, I know, I'm so embarrassed and I can't stop crying...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I give my boyfriend a second chance after cheating?

I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months long distance... the first two months we were in the same city and in a couple of months we will be back in the same city again. The last time I went to visit him I discovered...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Should I text him back after he got mad at me?

Hi, I've been dating this guy for 2 months and for the past few weeks he's really been asking a lot about the other guys that I'm dating. He'll ask if I see them as often as I see him, and kinda gets jealous whenever I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Do drunk cuddles mean anything?

Fell asleep beside a guy who I'm just becoming friends with. We cuddled face to face pretty much all night and spooned. Do you think he's interested? He didn't try anything and in the morning was very polite.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Do you usually kiss on a first date?

I do. If I'm out with a guy in the first place I'm attracted to him physically at least. I was talking to my sisters a little bit ago and they were in utter shock and almost disgust that I KISS a guy on a first date. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What kinds of guys intimidate girls?

Are there certain characteristics of guys that would intimidate you to the point that you wouldn't approach them despite the fact you are interested?

TurbulentDan12

Yoda Age: 36

Why does everyone come to me for relationship advice?

I'm just curious, all of my friends, even ones I have only known for only a very short time come to me for relationship advice, even though I have almost NO experience! Being that I'm often very shy, and to be honest,...

xomellll10x3

Xper 5 Age: 34

Girls Invading their BF's cell phone?

I heard of many women who cannot stand to have a relationship where the guy is unwilling to let her ravage through his phone. Personally, I think these girls are paranoid and insecure, and cannot be trusted themselves. I...

ThickRick

Xper 3 Age: 38

I can't sing in front of boyfriend?

i love my boyfriend I trust him with everything and do anything with him.. the only thing I can't seem to do is sing in front of him..thats the only thing that makes me nervous... every1 else tells me I sing amazing..so...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would it be a turn off if a girl got botox?

I'm considering getting botox so I won't get those annoying wrinkles on my forehead. I know I'm really young to get it but it just really bothers me and I feel really insecure about it. Guys, would you be totally turned...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Passing flirtatious notes in the college classroom; good, bad, or indifferent?

This is a poll regarding passing flirty or love-letter type notes in class, in a college class specifically. Not just mutual passing of notes, but maybe sneaking a note in someones purse or backpack. Childish? Cute?...

BluMac81

Xper 5 Age: 45

What do you think of a guy who wears a chain?

Is it bad-ass? Juvenile? Somewhere in between?

PsychedelicZebra

Xper 7 Age: 42

Why do girls find men who are doctors instantly attractive?

I have heard and read that girls seem to be attracted to men who are doctors. Why is that? What is so attractive about male doctors?

sovetskii13

Master Age: 36

Shopping & Gifts

Boyfriend owes me money and I want to break up with him?

so my boyfriend owes me some money and I wanna break up with him but obviously I want my money back first. he said he would pay me bk today but he cancelled on our hangout...and were having problems so he's I guess hiding...

singingbird

Xper 5 Age: 36

Would you rather be wise or intelligent?

SocietysBomb

Xper 5 Age: 34

How observant are guys?

This guy usually sees me every day but he hadn't in a week so today he came up to me and said, "Hey! I haven't seen you in a while." In situations like this, not just mine in particular, but do guys usuaully notice...

SuckerPunch

Xper 6 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

Do I confront girl who is spreading rumors about me?

So I dated this guy for two years. We are in love, its great..then he decides that he wants to be single for awhile. I'm not stupid, he wants to sleep with other girls. Great. So, after weeks and weeks of moping around, I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can you flirt with a guy when you are playing basketball?

i need help this is this really hot guy and I play basketball at the gym and he's there what should I do? he knows I'm good what are something I should do like to flirt with him?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it OK to ask the girl if things are cool between us or what should I say?

i don't really know where things stand , we've know each other for a while now and I couldn't be more confused . one minute she seems interested and we talk , then the next she's in a bad mood . she works at a position...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can a woman get rid of womanizers?

For a woman, womanizer could be very annoying. They have such dark mind in their brain, they are full of manipulative thinking that they eventually become like women but acting so macho in contrast. They are very jealous...

justaskinnn

Xper 3 Age: 34

My crush always looks at my legs when he passes by?

i ask because I'm not too sure if he's staring because I don't have great legs...or because he thinks I have nice legs. I was chunky as a kid and my legs were the worst! but I work out now and take care of myself...i even...

Lil_Lin

Xper 5 Age: 33

Family & Friends

I crossed the line of friendship with my best friend and now I think I'm falling for him what should I do?

Me and this guy have been best friends literally since we got to college. We both lived in the same dorm and he is in the fraternity that I frequent. He is like a brother to me and I a sister to him. We were always there...

beccakidd09

Xper 5 Age: 35