All Questions

Why can't I find an athletic girl?

I want an athletic girl to play sports with and date. Are there any?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls- Is make-up a necessity or an accessory for you?

Is make-up something you can NOT leave the house without completing to the fullest extent (base, blush, lip/eye liner, lipstick, eye shadow mascara etc.)? Or is make-up something you wear when you feel like it, to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is My Body Shape Attractive To You Guys?

I'm sort of confused about my shape an yet how so many guys are attracted to me. I wear a 34d to start with and do have a pretty cute booty. I'm only 5'2 so I'm petite, I guess. I'm not exactly fat or obese but I'm not...

igoRAWR

Xper 5 Age: 33

Valentine's Day

Should I wait until she texts me or text her?

I have been talking to a girl for sometime now and everything has been going well. We went and had dinner and saw a movie on Saturday night and everything went well. I got her something for Valentines day but she did...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is my ex-boyfriend playing mind games or does he still have feelings?

i broke up with my ex boyfriend 8 months ago after almost 4 years of relationship. This break up was violent for him at the beginning: suicide attempt, binge drinking (things he never did before)... I’ve seen him recently...

xxuxxi

Xper 4 Age: 40

Valentine's Day

What do you do when your boyfriend is talking inappropriately to another girl?

I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months. He started a new job (which I supported him in taking) where there were a lot of females and recently I have begun to get a bad feeling about some of his interactions. I told...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Health & Fitness

Do guys like girls with thick thighs and big hips?

what do you guys like about women's figure do you guys want a skinny girl or one with an hour glass figure..

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

I'm a nice guy and every girl thinks I creep them out. How the hell am I going to solve this?

I could say that I'm a legitimate, genuine nice guy who doesn't pretend to be nice at certain occasions just to get into girl's pants. I open doors for girls, just as I open doors for guys. Not a problem. I don't expect...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you hug your bro/sis? how often?

Do you you hug your siblings? I noticed some families are way closer than other and just wanted to know what you think.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys say they don't want to get attached too fast and want to take things slow, but continue to call?

I have been talking to this guy for almost 2 months, and we had the talk about taking things slow and not getting too attached too fast to avoid either of us getting hurt if things didn't work out. He just got out of a...

sweet_p822003

Xper 5 Age: 44

We should get together sometime?

we were talking about drinks and he says this to me. what is this supposed to mean? is this an ask out for a date.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do I make him nervous, or is he just not interested?

I really like this guy but I'm not sure if I make him nervous or if he is just not interested. He is a friend of a friend and we hang out about once a week. He is generally an outgoing guy and doesn't usually seem to have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

We make plans and he cancels last minute?

What does it mean when a guy makes plans with you and cancels at the last minute? I mean obviously he isn't extremely interested or he would do that or at least not more than once, but he has to have at least some...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Why do older women think I'm "good looking"?

But women my age want nothing at all to do with me. I assume I'm average at best to them... Now before you go saying "oh older women take other stuff into account besides looks," well I have NO PROPERTY, NO JOB, NO...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

My boyfriend has a job offer out of state. Should I break it off or try the long distance thing?

My boyfriend and I been together for a year and a half and we are crazy in love. He recently got a job offer out of state to work for. I've tried the long distance deal before and the guy crushed my heart. Since then I...

celestiika

Xper 5 Age: 36

Aviators, do chicks dig em?

i love aviator sunglasses they are the only kind I wear, I have 3 pair of different ray-bans. always wondered if chicks like em too.

lt17171717

Xper 5 Age: 38

What do I do if my girlfriend says she will kill herself if we break up?

I've been dating this girl for 3 weeks and she has become very attached to me. I need a break from her because she has become obsessed with me and won't leave me alone but when I tried telling her we need a break she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Why are women bad at communication?

Okay, so I talk to women and men all the time, as per being a human and social. When I talk to men it's usually just straight-forward questions and answers, with logical precedents and conclusions when discussing things...

Blackkid

Xper 3 Age: 38

Break Up & Divorce

Should I give my "changed" ex boyfriend another chance?

About three years ago, I became the girlfriend of someone who technically was never around. He never acknowledged me in any sort of way and I suspect that he even cheated on me, but I was never able to obtain proof of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, How Do I Approach My Crush In University?

There's this really cute guy in one of my university classes. I sit behind him, and for awhile now he’s been stealing glances at me. When I look at him he quickly turns around. -_- Last week, after class I left before...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When a girl claims she just lost feelings for you, what can it mean?

Let's get this clear, she ADORED me. But then one day after 5 months, right out of the blue she decided she just lost her feelings for me and wanted to break up. I wanted to know why. She couldn't come up with a single...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

What does it mean when a guy says you are motherly?

My roommate recently told me that I was very motherly and I'm not sure how to take it. I thought he had a crush on me but after comparing me to his mother I'm not sure what to think of it.

Perry1

Xper 5 Age: 43

What do you think of girls who wear headbands, or bows in their hair?

1) What do you think of girls who wear headbands, or bows in their hair? Is it cute, or childish? 2) When you texting, or IMing a girl, do you send a heart, randomly for no reason, if you just see her as a friend?...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do I do when I hate my boyfriend's hobby?

My boyfriend likes nerdy stuff like the card game magic , computers and computer games. I can't stand some of the things he likes to do. It has really made me argue with him and cause conflict. What should I do?!?!? I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I be a player or get a girlfriend?

so I recently moved to a new city which is absolutely packed with girls my age and younger like 19-20 college crowd . honestly I've seen hundreds that I'd fool around with in a second . but I'm not sure if I want to just...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does this guy move away from me but then stare at me?!

He generally looks at me until I look at him or make eye contact with him, then he looks away. He seems really tense when I talk to him, and I always have to start the conversation. He can start conversations with other...

Cooldudette

Xper 5 Age: 33