All Questions

Guys, which do you prefer - a handwritten or word processed love letter?

I am thinking about writing a love letter to a guy I am in love with. Do you think he would take it more to heart if I handwrite it rather than type it out. Does it matter to you guys? What do you like to read when you...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Fashion & Beauty

Why are most attractive women arrogant?

I approach pretty much any woman I find attractive even though I'm quiet. I don't consider any woman out of my league and consider myself a good catch because I'm loaded and relatively good looking and I'm not afraid of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys like it when you lightly rub their backs while you hug them?

This would be in really good close hug situation.

prettypatty001

Xper 5 Age: 40

Girl asked me out to meet her for a drink!! how to act? Quick help please!!!

How do I act and keep her interested? I don't even know how to go about this...i need to reply soon as she has just asked me to meet her

addict0709

Xper 5 Age: 37

Society & Politics

How to know if a guy plays footsie?

How to know if a guy does it deliberately and not accidentally? This guy I like have been "kicking" my leg on several occasions during our time together, and at first I thought it was by accident. But today, I felt his...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Valentine's Day

Girlfriend is angry because I bought my best friend a more expensive gift than hers?

OK so last week was my best friend's birthday and I thought of expressing my gratitude for all she has done for me. so I bought her a stuffed panda bear and on its chest its encrusted with a picture I drew of me and her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I feel that my crush likes me. Is your instinct or what you feel is true??

because I feel that my crush likes me...so should I trust what I feel or my instinct?

cillelav

Xper 5 Age: 36

Relationships

How to ask a girl to become 'exclusive' ?

i've been seeing this girl for just over a month now, we have a lot in common, have a great time together and have mutual interests and I can really see a relationship working between us, I told her how much I like her...

boomymoon

Xper 5 Age: 39

What does it mean when a guy drunk texts you?

This guy constantly texts me when he's drunk, at 2-3 in the morning, typically says one of the following: "I wish I was with you" "I really think we should be together" "I really like you" etc. I always respond,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Touching someone's face? What does this mean?

i work at Starbucks, and the other day when I was making a drink, I some syrup splashed up on my face. I laughed and wiped it off, thinking I'd got it all. a few minutes later, I was talking to this guy that I work with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If every time you see your ex girlfriend and she puts her head down, what do you think?

what runs through your head?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys downgrade after leaving a decent girl?

Because this just happened to me. I did everything I could to make my relationship with him work. I tried to be there for him and be kind, despite the fact that he blew me off every weekend, blew off phone calls,...

princess011

Xper 3 Age: 33

Guys and Girls: How do you react when you accidentally meet your ex?

Do you say a quick hi, or make a ''hi-facial-expression'' or do you just pretend you don't know that person? I believe it directly depends on why the relationship ended, how long time ago, and how long the relationship...

Juliana7

Xper 4 Age: 38

Why do girls sometimes add extra letters at the end of words. is it flirting?

for example, she'd go "thanksss" it's not something she normally does. she did it after I wished her merry Christmas a few months ago. ( of course she didn't just write thanksss but it was part of the message) is it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Sharing food with the opposite gender

How close would you have to be? For me, I'd share food with really close guys friends or guys that I like. I can't help but think of it as an indirect kiss. It kinda gets me excited in a weird way, haha. How easily do you...

moyasu

Xper 7 Age: 36

Society & Politics

Why do guys' emotions flip like a light switch in a matter of days or hours?

He loved me. An undeniable love and desire. He professed it every second for 2 months. He asked me to move in and marry him. I don't oblige and say I need him to prove to me I can trust him again before we get back...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, would you date a Muslim girl?

I'm 20, and born in a Muslim family. my family and I are not that religious though. like we don't wear hejab(cover for our face,hair or body) and we can have relations with opposite sex. but we have some limits. like I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

She's confused between me and him. Girls what does this mean?

My ex-girlfriend has been dating this guy for some time now but she's always talking to me and telling me at times that she's confused between me and him. And things like her sister saying "I like (me) better, you should...

mshummy88

Xper 3 Age: 37

Family & Friends

My boyfriend's short attention span, is it just a guy thing? Girls, is your boy the same?

Something that irritates me so much is that whenever I speak to my boyfriend, I have to repeat it twice or three times which annoys the sh*t out of me. He says he loves me lots and I know he does (We've been together for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Has he backed off because I made him think I wasn't interested? Can anyone tell me what I did wrong?

There's this guy I've known for two years, and we have been friends on and off but we where never close. But a few months ago some how our friendship got rather tense and something about me and him just sparked and we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are narrow shoulders really that bad?

According to wikipedia girls look at height and shoulder width more than anything in checking out a guy. I have been cursed with a narrow and lanky body and girlie shoulders. Is it really THAT unattractive for a guy to be...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I can't talk to my crush. I'm too shy. Help please!! Ahh!!

Well I've had a crush on this guy for about 3months (wow that's ages lol) And my friends asked him out for me today at school in front of LOADS OF PEOPLE. Awkward... 0_0 lol I play the piano at school with some friends,...

Wolfdragonspirit

Xper 3 Age: 32

Ex responding to my text, then ignoring me again. Why is he doing this?

So after a month of NC on my part I decided to text my ex boyfriend on Saturday. 5 min later, he responded with a pic from a hike he was on. He sounded excited in his text. We continued to text back and forth about the...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Health & Fitness

Do girls like a guy who doesn't drink?

I honestly do not like drinking, and was wondering what your thoughts where on a guy like that. Is it good? bad? and also you drink at all? Share your thoughts :)

wallaber

Xper 3 Age: 33

Relationships

Guys, thoughts on chubby cheeks...?

It's a pretty stupid question, I know, but my face is a bit chubby, not from being overweight, that's just how it is. I kinda look like a little kid, and they're a pretty fair insecurity for me because I always feel like...

DreamerFreak

Xper 5 Age: 32

Society & Politics

Guy friend called me "Sweetie"?

We were texting, he was asking me how I was because I stayed home sick...and I asked him if I missed anything and he replied "Nope, you're fine, sweetie" He had never called me sweetie before... he really only calls me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

She looks down until she passes me. Why do a lot of girls do this?

Not all girls do this but I've noticed that a lot do. When I'm walking around campus and there's a girl walking in the opposite direction and we pass by each other she looks down until she passes me. Most of the time...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Got dumped, and she's already moved on. I just don't get it, help!

So a few weeks back I was dumped by my ex-girlfriend, she told me I was being too clingy and it looks like she's already jumped onto another guy. She really broke my heart, and I've been very cut up about this since she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do girls ever realize they made a mistake, but don't act on it?

When they dump a guy, the guy cuts all contact with them but see's them at least once a week, can the girl realize that she had made a mistake with the break-up, but she is too proud to say anything about it? (The guy...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, when a guy likes a girl does he ever skip days in texting her?

I was the last one to text, we were both out in different places Saturday night and sent a couple texts, he asked where I was at.. but didn't reply to me. Would it look desperate for me to text, I don't know if I've put...

chocobloc

Xper 5 Age: 34