All Questions

Is acne a big turn-off for guys?

I have acne on my forehead, and I was wondering how guys are affected by this. Its not very noticeable from far away, and if I wear concealer it hides it a little. I have been told I'm very pretty, but I don't know if...

greendaygrrl

Xper 4 Age: 32

Break Up & Divorce

Why is the second break up harder than the first?

my ex girlfriend and I dated for about a year before breaking up in the summer. while we wanted things to work out we were fighting a lot so we decided to split up. it wasn't nearly as hard on me as it was on her and I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Valentine's Day

Texting him a Happy Valentines day?

Would it be awkward to receive a text saying "Happy Valentine's Day" from one of your female friends? I think there is a mutual crush but because I do have a thing for him I am over analyzing everything :P hence this...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is he trying to get rid of me nicely?

so I've been talking to this guy for almost a month and all of a sudden he never texts me I always text him, he has bailed on me once but he apologized. I think ever since I told him I was starting to like him he started...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He takes his anger out on me?

I notice that when my boyfriend gets mad at something or other, he takes it out on me if I happen to be the next person he sees. I know he's not really mad at me, just at something. But he picks a fight over some small...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Valentine's Day

He canceled Valentine's Day plans with me!

my boyfriend and I had a reservation at this really nice hotel and then we were going to hang out just us and today he said he can't because he's busy with some family stuff. i feel like crying... what should I do

Anonymous

(36-45)

Falling For My Cuddle-Buddy? Is He Falling For Me?

Over the past year I've slowly come to realize that I'm in love with my best guy friend. I think he might have feelings for me too, but it's really hard to tell. The thing is, he's a bit of a man-whore, and so I don't...

chrissymae

Xper 5 Age: 39

Which do you find more physically attractive? Soccer players or football players?

Just a simple question. Disregard personality or any other factors. If you asked a guy his hobby which would you find more physically attractive, a soccer player or a football player? and why? Be specific

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy tells you you're chill?

Hey guys! I've been to a party and I was talking to this guy who goes to my school but we never talked until that party and he was saying he thought I was really chill. What does it mean?

lala_rose

Xper 6 Age: 33

Flirting

She texts me and acts interested? Then a day later she ignores me. I don't get it.

The other day I met a really cute girl and gave her my number. Later in the day she texted me and we ended up talking for a few hours and I could definitely sense that she was interested (which is strange considering I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Black ladies into white guys?

OK I am just curious are there any African American ladies that prefer white guys over African American men, and if so what is it you like and why. I know that often African American men seek out white girls exclusively...

Bvroon

Yoda Age: 55

Break Up & Divorce

She left me for another guy, now wants to come back?

My girlfriend of 3 years said she felt we are growing apart and wanted to break up I went to my moms for the weekend a few hours away and when I came back she had been talking to a guy she had a crush on in high school....

andy21918

Xper 4 Age: 41

Valentine's Day

What to do if your boyfriend ditches you on Valentine's day?

my boyfriend ditched me on vday to see his brother? what should I do about that I mean we have had problems maybe he is afraid of commitment but I'm thinking about breaking up...help!

beatuamiga

Xper 5 Age: 34

Gave him my number, he texted, but does that mean he's interested?

A guy in one of my classes (150+ people) always looked at me in class for weeks, so after the final class I saw him in the library and as I walked past I dropped a note on the table where he was studying and walked away....

londongirl357

Xper 5 Age: 38

Pale girls, hot or not?

So I know girls with the perfect tan are usually considered the hot/beautiful ones, but are there any guys who like pale skin? Any guys that like pale skin OVER tan skin? I'm really pale and can't tan at all =/

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I say hi to him?

Back in the beginning of the school year, I liked this guy, and I'm pretty sure he liked me too, but we're both extremely shy, so we never really talked. Now we don't have class together, and I usually only see him once...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Does over dressing in college hurt?!

am a guy, almost 20, freshman and go to a university in KS, i really like dressing, shoes, etc does over dressing to college hurt? I mean does it send a wrong massage to girls? for example, I love ties, semi-formal...

mf-ibmj

Xper 7 Age: 35

Best cologne of these three: Polo Blue, Armani Code, or Curve for Men?

Which is your personal favorite?

Anonymous

(36-45)

A girl ask me if I like her. What does that mean?

Theres this girl that I like but I have never showed signs that I like her. Today, my friends where smiling at me and said that they were happy for me. And then later on, that girl text me and randomly ask if I like her....

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy says he is being cautious?

Said to the guy I must take a number when I asked what he was doing on Sunday. He said he likes me but is just being cautious and its not like that. I think it means he is seeing others.

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How do you out play the player?

How do you out play the player? Hey guys & girls do you have any advice on how to out play the player? How to play a player in dating?

SarahPurpleRox

Xper 5 Age: 33

Flirting

Who's more confusing, guys or girls?

its up there!

Titi18

Explorer Age: 34

Do girls like love letters?

OK I wrote a letter to my ex girlfriend but we are friends but I still love her and I think she still likes me to. I am wondering what do girls think of love letters, Like how do you think she will react or how girls...

chris214

Xper 5 Age: 40

Flirting

Is his sarcasm flirting?

Basically, I've had 4 "dates" with this kid who each time, comes off very sarcastic. At first, I found him hilarious. But now, after the fourth date.. and him still not showing too much of a real serious side, I'm not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Teen girls do any of you have long toes?

And what's your feet size?

Nekid

Xper 5 Age: 36

Guys, do you ever change your mind after breaking up with a girl?

My ex boyfriend has never had a girlfriend in his entire life until he dated me. He's in his late twenties and is somewhat introverted. We broke up because things went too fast emotionally and physically and we were just...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is Atheism so popular?

Just wondering. Just to give some background. I personally believe in God; I know many people will call me a fool for that belief. But if I try to take God out of the equation of my life, nothing at all makes sense,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when guys throw pennies at a girl?

On two separate occasions guys have thrown pennies at me and I don't know why. I wasn't wearing anything revealing or "slutty" and I have never talked to those guys before.

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when the guy playfully pinches my arm as he's walking away?

I really like this guy and I think he likes me, but I'm trying to read the signs right. we smile and wave at each other every day and I always catching him looking at me. And the few times I have talked to him he's...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guys, how do you act around a pretty girl?

Are you still really nervous/shy/intimidated by a pretty girl even if she is nice and makes an effort to talk to you? What things do you do when you're around her?

Anonymous

(36-45)