All Questions

I don't feel attractive enough for a relationship?

I'm not an attractive girl by media's standards, I have a pretty average face nothing special, although not spectacular. My body is average too, I have small boobs, slimish and big thighs with cellulite =/ I'm not what...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I beat a player at his own game? haha

Like you know get him to like me but beat him and take things into my hand ? ha ha like what should I do act bored when he tries to flirt with me? He flirts with a lot of girls and it bugs me now ha ha so how can I get...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

I've cheated on my boyfriend, what shall I do?

i know this is long but please read, I need serious advice :'(! This sounds absolutely crazy, but I always had a 'thing' for this guy for a very long time (about over a year) every time I saw him I got butterflies and all...

rachellloyd

Xper 5 Age: 32

Earrings! Dangle or Studs?

Do you prefer (either for yourself or others) earrings that dangle or stud earrings and why. :] Me, I like dangle earrings because they jingle when I walk and make your neck look long and elegant. On guys maybe a stud.....

Twilixt

Xper 5 Age: 34

I fooled around with a guy from work. What do I do?

The other night I invited a guy from work over. It was just to hangout as friends. We get along really well and everything so I thought why not. Only problem is we had a bit too much to drink and fooled around a bit....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is a really hot girl talking to me?

I'm an average looking guy. She is in my college class, and she's been calling me every night to talk to me, for the last week sometimes we talked for like 4-5 hours till late at night. She already has a boyfriend and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls describe your dream boyfriend?

it can be physical, personality wise, how he treats you, anything that makes him perfect in your eye's

Anonymous

(36-45)

Your girlfriend is a "planner". You're the opposite. How would this make you feel?

Is it good or bad? I don't mean a controlling planner. If she is flexible to go with the flow as things come up or situations change. We both have jobs tat make it hard for us to plan trips, but we keep wanting to go...

countygirl

Xper 5 Age: 47

Am I being used for emotional support and to forget?

So I'm kinda seeing this girl who has recently broken up with her boyfriend of a year.. (less than a month) Anyways we knew each other before the breakup and since the breakup we've been hanging out a bit, including...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does alcohol affect your voice??

i asked this because some girls I have met have rough voices or slurred. these tend to be party girls, which means a lot of drinking so do girls have natural voices like that or does alcohol affect you voice

gtex1991

Xper 6 Age: 35

Why do guys not have the balls to talk to a girl?

I know so many guys that don't have the balls to talk to a girl that they think is pretty or a girl they like... I don't understand. Why is that?

Anonymous

(30-35)

I know my girlfriend's dad physically abuses her, what can I do?

My girlfriend is living with her dad (restraining order from mom, she's an abusive crazy too) and he's an alcoholic and has violent outbursts about once a week. She's already been through foster care at an earlier point...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys actually notice or care about the brands girls wear?

girls at my school are really critical about brands. they'll be like "she wears hollister so she's fake" or "she wears juicy so she's a snob". do guys do the same? I figure that if 1. the girl isn't obsessed with brands...

princess_for_life

Xper 3 Age: 32

Society & Politics

Guys with long eyelashes?

do girls like guys with long eyelashes or is it weird I have long and pretty black eyelashes and a lot of people think I wear mascara

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

Boyfriend inattentive?

Well our relationship is fairly young. 1 month. we can only see each other over the weekends. When we hang out I love it. We watch TV together, movies, go to school dances, he came to a football game at my school, cuddle...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does being called "Cute" mean?

I thought about this today since my mother was talking with my teacher and she was telling him about how I was the cutest little girl, etc, VERY embarrassing thing, but then he looked at me and was like "SHE IS really...

monny1emano

Xper 5 Age: 35

This girl acts like she likes me one day, another day she acts like she doesn't even want to see me, flaky?

When I met her she was friendly and friendly no problem at all. But then she 'changed' she became cold towards me, although she was acting "shy" she was acting cold and wouldn't even talk to me, even when I was talking...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When should I invite my boyfriend over to my house?

I don't really want to invite him to my house anytime soon, because we're getting a lot of things redone and therefore everything is a wreck... I certainly don't want his first impression of my home to be a bad one :/ I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

10 year marriage with no spark?

I have been married for 10 years and my wife shows no affection. We do get along good but we are more like roommates. We both have careers and we also have three children. I can count on 1 hand the number of...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girls: Do you Like Being Picked Up Off Of The Ground During A Hug?

rocksongwriter

Guru Age: 45

Why do men stare at women?

This goes to men who know the women such as being in the same class/workplace or men who just randomly stare even if they don` t know you

tyt_2012

Yoda Age: 33

What does it mean when a guy talks about a future with you, but still says things like "it's my life!"?

When my boyfriend goes out with friends he never lets me know until he is walking out the door. it bothers me and makes feel like he doesn't respect me. I made a comment to him if he could maybe give me more notice so I...

concearnedlady

Xper 5 Age: 39

Asking a guy to homecoming over text?

I am SO freaked out to ask him in person...is asking a guy over texting not good?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Making a guy jealous?

Do girls try and make a guy jealous if she likes a guy and he's not responding to her flirting , a girl made me jealous by going off with a guy I know outside the club one night and it really hurt me ever since , only I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Whats it mean if they are a SLOW texter and take forever to respond back?

It seems like throughout the day he texts me SO slow but at night he is really good about it. I just feel like he wants hook ups because if he was truly interested wouldn't he want to always be talking to me?

Anonymous

(30-35)

New girlfriend is looking for handouts....I'm getting very angry. How do I confront her about it?

I've been dating a new girl for about 6 weeks. She's 20 and I'm in my late 20s. For the most part everything going well. She doesn't flake out, she keeps her word about meeting up. She drives to see me. She laughs at...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Girls, romance: Good vs Mushy

What sort of things do you girls consider romantic vs those that are plain mushy? My girlfriend says she's not into mushy romance, but I don't know what that might entail and I sure as hell don't want to have some of my...

bubbleboy

Xper 7 Age: 38

Why do the bad boys want good girls?

If the bad boys want good girls, wouldn't you think they would realize that some good girls don't want anything to do with bad boys? Like, there is a guy that likes me, and outside of his other, bad boy stuff, he's nice,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you know the difference between a North Indian accent versus a South Indian accent?

There is a big difference apparently! especially in their native tongues and English

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

My girlfriend resents me?

I changed my mind about wanting a baby, I know its bad but I wasn't sure that I was ready for one and she asked me to be honest. iv expanded how I feel too young to be a dad (22) and that she puts pressure on my to have a...

Upperlower

Xper 5 Age: 38