All Questions

So you wanna be Casual Friends?

This guy I used to date wrote me this after I wrote him... Guys what does this mean? What is a causal friend thing? I am the type of girl that usually has boyfriends. He wrote me a 3 paragraph email and this is the end of...

Nicoles0426

Xper 5 Age: 47

Health & Fitness

Do you guys mind having a chubby girlfriend?

I mean, I know a lot of guys that won't consider or are not attracted to fat girls.. but are there some out there who actually love girls with meat?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why can't I get a boyfriend?

I'm loyal, trustworthy, not a slut. I'm respectful, funny, sweet, caring, generous, pretty though a lil chubby for my height. So why do guys not like me enough to want to be my boyfriend?

Anonymous

(36-45)

He says he would go out with me if he was single

This is similar to one of my other questions but I'll put more information on this one..I Like This Guy. He Likes Me Back. He Has A Girlfriend but says he would go out with me if he was single and I dunno what to do...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

I really like this guy but his brother likes ME!

I really like this guy and I met him through his brother. His brother really likes me, but I really like his brother. I finally got the nerve to tell him how I felt and he told me he liked me and I asked him if I was...

mshel02

Xper 5 Age: 42

Should I visit my ex-boyfriend?

We broke up over long distance. Even though we said we'd be friends, he definitely knows that I still like him. He didn't want to get back together when I hesitated for many weeks before giving him an answer (it was a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys criticize women's bodies as much as we do?

Women tend to be pretty hard on themselves when it comes to body image (I know I am). They think.. my thighs are too big.. my boobs are too small.. my boobs are saggy.. my butt is jiggly.. I have cellulite.. etc! But...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, do you ever say I love you casually?

Ive been friends with this guy (a virgo) for over a year. Recently we started hanging more and we eventually slept together a couple times(after he pursued me). The first time was not good but the second time was amazing...

Black-Cat

Xper 5 Age: 41

Do women really prefer a shaved chest to one that's trimmed or slightly hairy?

I'm curious because my hair is slightly thick but it's not that bad. If I trim it it looks alright too, but shaving has always been way too much personal maintenance for me. It requires shaving every day or so because my...

Aedak

Xper 4 Age: 42

How do I stop intimidating guys?

I'm 19 years old and, yes, I'll go ahead and say it, a virgin (in every possible since of the word...I haven't even kissed a guy). I haven't dated anyone seriously, and several people have told me that apparently I'm...

annwyl-cariad

Xper 5 Age: 38

Shopping & Gifts

How should I dress for my boyfriend's birthday?

Okay, my guy's birthday is coming up and I'm planning to take him out to dinner and hit the club with couple of friends. I'm not really a girly type and dread getting all dolled up. But I figure I would for my guy. So I...

gummayRgood

Xper 5 Age: 45

Society & Politics

How do guys talk about their girlfriends when we're not there?

I have an awesome boyfriend of about 3 months; he is a senior and I am a junior. We get along great and his friends seem to like me. Today he was giving me a ride home from school and two of his other friends were in the...

dml17

Xper 4 Age: 35

What do women think of buzz cuts?

This is a two part question. So I've read on here that ladies seem to like short hair, but what about a buzz cut? My hair is a modified version of what's called a high and tight, or the military style cut. It's 1/8 of an...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy says you're feisty?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys judge so much on our looks?

Why do guys judge so much on our looks? Why don't they judge us on whats inside? I'm a big girl, but I'm a beautiful big girl, and no matter how I doll myself up guys never seem to notice. I'm a fantastic person on the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How does a non-preppy guy flirt with a preppy girl?

I'm a nice kind of non-preppy guy who wants to know how he should flirt with the preppy girls. Any advice from guys or girls will greatly help.

PcPanther2010

Xper 4 Age: 35

Hispanics and Asian Dating?

Since the Hispanic/Latino culture is similar to the Asian culture in terms of family values, parenting, and the likes, I'd like ask this poll/survey to see the likelihood for the two cultures date interacially. In all...

WindChaser

Xper 6 Age: 42

What does it mean when he says, "we should do it again sometime"

Guy asks girl out. They have a good date (nothing great, nothing bad). He ends the date by saying "we should do it again sometime." Does that mean he's not interested or what?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

Why is my ex-boyfriend emailing/sending me cards?

After a year of dating, my ex boyfriend broke up with me. He is a divorced man and had trouble committing to me throughout which caused me a lot of stress and confusion because he was so in love for the first 6 months....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

He calls me just to say hi

Ok.. so there's this guy i've been hanging out with. He complimented me and he is handsome too. We made out. I haven't seen him in like 3 months. But sometimes when he'd call me, i'd ignore him. So he started to call me...

exoticbaby

Xper 5 Age: 37

Other

Girlfriend doesn't want me to join Army

I am 18 and in high school and I have a girlfriend of 10 months. And when I get out of high school I am going into the Army, but my girlfriend does not want me to. So what should I do?

paintball2483

Xper 5 Age: 36

Freckles and blond hair cute?

Ok, so I have too many freckles for me to count on my face. And I have Blond hair. My hair is naturally blond, but I have so many Blond highlights that my hair is basically blond. It's a dirty blond. I don't wear any make...

famous

Xper 5 Age: 34

Other

An affair with a married man?

I am seriously considering having an affair with a married man that is almost 30 years older than me. I am on a non-profit volunteer board of directors with him & we talk on the phone often for a long period of time &...

giageor

Xper 5 Age: 55

Does he have feelings for me?

Why are guys protective of their girl friends? I was wondering why guys are so protective of their friends that are girls? One of my guy friends tends to be very protective of me. When it starts to get a little dark...

Living-the-ADvenTURe

Xper 7 Age: 34

The guy can't dance

How important is being able to dance? I know girls really like a guy who is smooth on his feet, but is it something that he just has to have some skill at? I can't dance at all, besides really slowly swaying hips slow...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do women think of submissive guys?

What do women think of a guy who is more submissive? I'm not talking about, "wanting to be your slave." And I'm not talking about some guy that is going to let you push him around. I'm just talking about letting you have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

My husband tried to have sex with my best friend

My husband of 5 years tried having sex with my best friend there was both drunk. My best friend didn't want to and kicked him out. We have a 2 year old son. All my friends want me to kick him out. What do I do?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Would women date a 32-year-old virgin?

I am a 32-year-old man and I have never had sex. To make matters worse, I have never even been on a date or experienced any romantic relationship. They are several reasons for this for this state of affairs, such as 1)...

amon1998

Xper 5 Age: 50

I cheated on my boyfriend and have so much regret. What do I do?

My boyfriend and I have been together since we were 16. We are now 24, and have been living together for just over 6 years. It has been tough as sometimes you can't help but wonder if you've missed out on something or you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is she not ready to date, or just not ready to date me?

I am serious about a girl who just broke up with her last boyfriend last month. He drank a lot and cheated on her. I am fairly good friends with her, and on Christmas day, I asked her out. She was ok with that up until...

lostsoulmusic

Xper 3 Age: 56

What type of body do girls like in guys?

What type of body do girls like in guys? Every girl can answer what she thinks I'm not waiting for a particular answer.

hy7y8

Xper 5 Age: 36

Flirting

Does holding hands mean anything nowadays?

There was this girl I fell hard for, it was love at first sight for those of you who believe in that. I told her I liked her a lot, I held her hand in a movie and she held mine too, that was the second time we hung out...

gthcsmt

Xper 5 Age: 41

What does it mean when a girl says she needs a time out?

My girlfriend and I once had an argument, and she got offended by some things I said. She told me she wanted to take a time-out in our relationship. We have since worked through it, and never did have that time out....

lovebird01

Xper 7 Age: 73

Nice things girls want to hear?

Couple of exes, and my current ex, one way or the other, always tell me something to the extend of "tell me something nice"; normally I come up with something they did, or mention something I like about them, or give a...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Other

Why am I so unappealing?

I am a student at a good college, I work out, I don't drink or smoke, I coach at a high school, I am studying to be a teacher, I am hopeless romantic in every meaning of the phrase, I'm not Hideously ugly, I love what I...

a400m-runner

Xper 6 Age: 39

Family & Friends

My boyfriend doesn't like to go out to dinner.

So, I'm normally a fast food kind of girl, but people get tired of that after a while, you know? So, one day I asked my boyfriend, why don't we go to olive garden? he said no, I was like o.k. well, how about sweet...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can you have a purely sexual relationship?

Guys only - Can you have a long term sexual relationship, (just sex, not dating or hanging out) without developing feelings for the woman? I'm talking about 18 months, of having sex with her and only her.

Anonymous

(45 Plus)