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He seemed awkward during our date. He was stumbling on his words, his legs was shaking and he also pulled out his phone? bad signs?

When he saw me did a double take on me. Then during the date he seemed nervous. He was talking fast and stumbling on his words. At one point he pulled out his phone and sometimes what he said felt out of the place. bad...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What can I do that I trying to join a learning disability special dating sites but the joining process is very difficult?

I am 23 years old and have a learning disability, I am trying to join a dating site only for learning disabilities. The dating site is called Love2meetU Only moves a tiny bit forward. Didn't get any letter in the post at...

SplatKatieSims

Xper 2 Age: 28

Why does a guy "always" stare at a girl?

He's not shy, but the last time he spoke to me was a few months ago, he's been looking me in the eye since then. He looks at crowded places, too, after passing me he looked back a few times and looked at him again and we...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Met on Tinder, switched to Insta? Lastly he left me on read, can‘t Access to Insta now? Should I Write him via tinder?

I dont‘t know if he Wrote something because I can‘t Access to my insta Account for now. Lastly, When I checked there was no Message. Not Sure if I should Write him via Tinder That I can‘t Access to insta. Wouldn‘t it be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Guys, Female nature at its finest?

I went out with my daughter, my wife and one of my wife's friends 14-year old daughters. Let's call her Kate and she seemed like a smart young lady; seemingly well-educated, very articulate, fun and friendly. Whilst at...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do men always call their wife out of their name?

Im 23 years old i have 3 kids ages 2-5 i have been with my husband for 7 years and married for 1 year i work overnights and he is a stay at home dad and i pay all the bills he does not want to work he dont ever want to do...

mommaofjjj

Xper 2 Age: 27

Why do guy become friends and stay friends with a woman that rejected them?

My friend is friends with a woman he had a few dates with but she told him she didn’t want a relationship with him ever. So now he says they are just friends who have dinner once in a while. He is seeing someone actually...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Do You Have A Garbage Disposal In/Under Your Sink?

Static_In_The_Attic

Master Age: 44

How do I stop being boring?

This guy invited me to a few things and I was busy. I work a lot and most of my time goes to working and then I pay my bills which leaves me broke and needing to work some more. If I didn’t have so many responsibilities I...

MilaRay

Xper 7 Age: 28

Why am I so mean to my parents?

So, I'll try to make this as short as possible. I've always been so introverted and shy, but up until 12 yo, I had an awesome relationship with my parents. Ever since then, everything they do annoys me. I am always so...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

What does “Ahan” mean?

Like if you’re messaging someone and tell them a statement & they respond with “Ahan” Is that the same as “uh huh” ? Or “I see” ? I don’t get it

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy says that he wouldn't be able to keep himself in check next to me?

After returning from our first date, this guy texted me how he wanted to hug me, hold my hand and kiss me.. He even said that he wouldn't be able to keep himself in check when he'll be next to me.. What does that mean?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do so many parents think it is better to let their offspring sneak out and have sex instead of allowing them to do it safely at home?

I have asked similar questions in the past and was amazed at how many parents, or future parents, especially males, said they would rather their kid did it at some seedy hotel in the bad part of town, at who knows who's...

laurieluvsit

Master Age: 32

Is he actually concerned about me?

I had my first date with this guy.. We met on tinder and talked over text sometimes and then we decided to meet.. When I was leaving my hostel to meet him, I told him that I'll text him when I reach the location.. I got...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Are guys turned on by watching girls dancing in the bar/club?

So I was dancing at a bar and there was this guy that I like that kept watching me like a deer in headlights. Anyway, I noticed that he was kind of nervous, excited (I don't know how to describe it) , he tried to get my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would a pattern like this mean anything or am I thinking too much into it?

Well for starters, my mom was mostly raised by her grandparents, aunts and uncles. By time I was born, I thought she was raised by her parents who were very “loving” towards her and I until she told me how they really...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Technology & Internet

Did Albert Einstein really invent the lightbulb?

I don't think so. I think someone else invented the lightbulb

Joker_

Master Age: 23

Had a fall out with childhood friend and I feel horrible.. but he invited me to his stag now but not the wedding?

We’ve been friends since 10 years old and we’re now 30. Reasoning is that over the last 4-5 years every hangout session became a roast.. always made fun of you and made it personal. I finally had enough and lashed...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend feels embarrassed/insecure, what do I do?

Occasionally my boyfriend falls asleep on the couch, so I sometimes pick him up and carry him to bed, he woke up whilst I was doing last time though. He freaked out a little bit and explained he didn’t like the fact he’d...

Sophxoxo

Xper 3 Age: 23

How likely it is for a guy to come back after he dumped you for some family issues and knows no can love him as much as you did?

hihihiok

Xper 5 Age: 25

Parents: where were your kids born, and how long did it take?

snackthatsmilesback

Yoda Age: 26

Girl's Behavior

Guys, have you ever met a woman who acted like she was really into you and you, but you found out later that she was in a relationship?

This one really hot blonde who I met through friends was always suggesting that we do stuff together and she sent me sexy videos for a while. I’ve only met her twice, but we chat online often. She just told me that she’s...

FruDawg1

Xper 6 Age: 38

Religion & Spirituality

Is there a god looking out for me?

I've been an atheist for years, but I've had such luck. There have been some very difficult situations for me this past year/years and I've somehow managed to get out of some of them scot-free. Situations where things...

Whatthefluff

Editor Age: 24

Boyfriend called me the “C” word?

My boyfriend of 3 years got upset because of something I said. He proceeded to call me a fat “c”, fat b$&ch, stupid b$&ch… among other things. We were having a discussion about electric cars and gas prices. I said...

Fluttergirl007

Xper 3 Age: 38

What Is Important For A Good Relationship?

jessicaparks

Xper 2 Age: 31

Technology & Internet

What are some good chat apps or sites to meet new people?

Something like kik but not so toxic or disgusting. Kik use to be a great app for chat rooms but then bots and seller took over it.

BHooper

Explorer Age: 25

How long to wait before making things official?

I have been talking to this guy for a few months now, he told me that he was not ready for a relationship right this instant but he would be open to it in the future. We talk daily and see each other almost every...

Dmaria507

Xper 2 Age: 31

Technology & Internet

What happens if I don't replace my A/C compressor?

Whenever I start the car, the A/C compressor makes a lot of noise. It's so expensive to replace so I'm wondering if the car will be ruined if I just don't replace it.

Whatthefluff

Editor Age: 24

Should I Feel Insecure?

I'm a black woman my boyfriend is white. As a woman I've watched his gaze and he never looks at woman that look like me. He usually looks at blonde hair blue eyes white girls or if he does stare at a black girl she's...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Boss and intern?

hey my boss and i liked each other for a long periodof time but no said a word a the other until we went to the next level and kissed for like 5 min with passion but he calls me my lady or lady and that is what i don't...

Riamgsk

Xper 2 Age: 29

Flirting

My boyfriend asked a random girl at a festival if she wants a line of coke and he gave her one while I was next to him. What are your opinions?

I would be interested to hear your thoughts if this is something that I should ask him about or just play it out cool. He has never asked a girl before if she wants to do a line before. We usually have lots of fun...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Do you like going shopping by yourself?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Fashion & Beauty

Big lips or thin lips?

Which lips u guys and girls love to kiss? And which lips y'all think its beauty and attractive?

bubblegunnn

Explorer Age: 29

Other

Can we still get amazon guftcards if we redeem xper?

RobEurope

Xper 5 Age: 31

Society & Politics

!!! Sensitive issue!!! Do you agree with the word "Islamophobia"? Like it's not a choice as in homophobia. Is people's fear of Islam legitimate? Why?

Sinaaa

Xper 3 Age: 32

Girls, Do looks matter to y'all or is it about how much money a person has?

I'm ugly but I feel like I can step my game up.

deandre09

Xper 5 Age: 30

What are the steps you take to having respect as a man?

im to the point we're I'm tired of being childish and I want to start carrying myself as a man and I want people to look at me like I'm a man from family to friends to people I don't know

deandre09

Xper 5 Age: 30

Why guys act that they don't like make up but react that way?

I met a guy and he constantly was saying if I don't wear make up I am not feminine but manly. He took it so far he was calling me gay. It really bothered me even tho I am Natural pretty it made me very slef conscious that...

Eleonoraa

Xper 1 Age: 22

Religion & Spirituality

How do I fix my life as a person?

How do I get motivated to take care of my hygiene, develop new skills, health, self care, relationship with God, build better qualities, improve with my education, take responsibility for my actions, and stop being so...

DelayedMist

Xper 5 Age: 20

Entertainment & Arts

Just some help from you lovers<3 ?

Hey everyone I hope that u're doing good, I need to share this with you all. Drawing really helps me in my life it's a therapy for me, the problem is that I no longer have the desire to draw as before I want to resume but...

simply_xsara

Xper 2 Age: 22

Should I keep making effort to stay friends with an autistic person?

I have this friend who has autism, been friends for 2 and a half years now. He sometimes initiates conversation but hardly ever and every time I talk to him he doesn’t keep the conversation going so I have to constantly...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys what hurts more, imagine you’ve been a c**t, and your ex wants nothing more to do with you?

Imagine you’ve been a c*nt, and your ex wants nothing more to do with you. What would hurt more? Her blocking you on social media, so you cannot contact her atall, or see what she is up to without you, or her leaving u...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should my brother sue my sister?

Trigger warning: family violence My sister and I were having an argument over money that was stored in our house. It got very heated and we actually began fighting physically (stupid I know). Our brother tried to stop...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Religion & Spirituality

I have just started doing meditation for happiness and positivity. Is this something you would try?

It’s a class each week in a big glass dome shaped place full of plants. I’m really enjoying it but it doesn’t seem like a lot of people are that into the idea of it or know the benefits. So, my question is, would you...

Confusedashell123

Xper 5 Age: 36