All Questions

How attached do YOU get to coworkers and bosses?

I think I may be finally seeing growth in myself in this area because I used to get secretly very emotional over little and big things at work and over people at work and that includes having intense crushes, jealousy or...

Xwr6gff

Xper 1 Age: 30

What might be the consequences of unprotected sex with a heroin user even after being tested for STDs/STIs? Also, I donated blood multiple times?

Hi all, About five and a half years ago I had unprotected sex (with the withdrawal method) with someone who I found out later was a recently recovered heroin addict. Knowing him I don’t think he would have directly...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do men cheat if they are not getting enough at home?

heartless2u

Xper 4 Age: 22

Other

Hows the day been for y'all?

There’s nothing much going on here. Just minding my business and snacking on roasted carrots. Would’ve love to have been at the casino but I’m trying to hold off on it, plus I think a tropical storm is brewing on the...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Why are British people still telling Americans how to live all these years later? Are they still traumatized by their loss in the American Revolution?

The number of times I’ve been lectured by British people on how to live is just astounding. If I had known how ungrateful towards America they would become, I would’ve advised the US to let Germany keep bombing the sh*t...

WhiteBoyChill

Yoda Age: 26

I think I have been friendzoned, any advice?

So to be brutally honest, I’ve had my eye on this guy for a few months, I really thought we got on and got eachother, I thought he actually, someone, thought me of something special for once. I know we haven’t know him...

anoymousunistudent

Xper 3 Age: 24

Is it worth it creating an instagram account to find a guy?

I don't meet people often, I most go out with my friends or family and I don't like parties. I noticed a lot of people meet because of social media like instagram, so I've been thinking of trying. But, as you might know,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Entertainment & Arts

Do you have any 'Tips', for anyone who may need to hear any?

Sometimes we hear a tip at the perfect timing, even if we over heard it or just didn't ask for one. I give out 'Tips' from time to time. In this movie, there's a lot. https://www.youtube.com/embed/agXBK9hIf7E

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Should a trans woman (post-op) write on her dating profile that she is trans or should she tell the guy individually?

Such an iffy topic I know. Probably no right or wrong answers here. On one hand, it’s quite a personal information and not everyone has to know your medical history but on the other hand, it can be a dealbreaker for some...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it possible to lose 6kgs in a month without exercising?

So here’s the thing, I’ve been wanting to lose weight for some time but i despise the gym so i decided to take a step at a time and give a month to “adjust” to a healthier lifestyle before going to the gym as i feared I’d...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I was sure my crush liked me, but I'm not anymore. What do you think?

My (16F) crush (16M) used to give a lot of were "clear signs" he liked me (according to several people) and I corresponded so I was expecting he would ask me out sometime. Until today when he made fun of his friend saying...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls, what were you taught growing up on how to treat men?

As a guy we were taught to be gentler, kinder, softer. Open doors for women. Pull their chair out (showing my age). Be a gentleman. I wonder what y'all were taught on how to treat a guy?

Wazzaman88

Xper 2 Age: 37

What is your favourite activity after work?

My favourite activity after work is putting on some comfy clothes and going for walks. I should probably be tired but I have good stamina so I take long walks and it's really relaxing.

Anonymous

(18-24)

I've never been liked in my life, what makes me so undesirable?

No man has ever liked me in my entire life, all my friends have had bfs or guys have liked them in the past since like primary but no guy has attempted to talk to me or go off with me or even ask me out so I wanna know...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why would people not have an issue with an omnipotent and omniscient God watching them?

More detail, why is there a lot of people that hate it when governments and companies watch them and their most intimate private moments, but would have no issue if it was an omnipotent, omniscient God (basically a...

KlinkyCoder

Xper 6 Age: 34

What’s the First Move you want potential dates to make?

In a bar, cafe, etc…they approach…what’s your desired “move” or what do you want them to do or say?

OddBeMe

Master Age: 42

Entertainment & Arts

Do you like this song?

https://youtu.be/zWA75x_NcY4

Julie4

Explorer Age: 28

How do you answer the question how are you?

spicegirl445

Xper 5 Age: 22

Other

How old is your inner self?

Anonymous

(36-45)

My girlfriend is not emotionally open to me in our relationship. What should I do?

Me (18 ) and my girlfriend (18 ) have been dating for almost a year now and over time we have started fighting more and now she is hyper independent and doesn't like to tell me anything about how she feels. When I try...

rehanQ

Xper 3 Age: 23

What workout would give me this physique?

What types of workouts or weight lifting or cardio should I do to achieve this physique

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Would you get beaten up by a rich girl just for money?

A very wealthy girlfriend's sister hired a guy to use him as a punching bag to improve her boxing skills. The girl will punch and the guy will take it. He just defend himself and never strike back and then get paid. Would...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Questions for guys…?

1. If a girl who is called pretty/hot a lot has a low snap score is that a red flag 🚩 2. 5 biggest red flags in a girl 3. How do yk if a guy likes u back

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do you think having kids past age 30 is more stressful?

Explain why and why not.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Do you think my sister should stay away of things that do not concern her?

I have a married sister and she lives with her hubby. They both live in a nice modern house and has nice things in their home. The house is not big and even though my sister and her hubby are not like rich, they both...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Whatdo you think of women who pole dance (black)?

Well I'm a black woman, and I've always wanted to pole dance for long time. I always get compliments on my body. I'm super petite and small A cup boobs.. I always dreamed of men lusting over me. I work out everyday. Do I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it normal to be scared of closeness?

I avoid talking about my feelings and I think guys hate that cause I just refuse to show any interest most of the time.

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

Are crushes a waste of time?

zoezoe174

Xper 4 Age: 42

Should I be worried about my relationship?

My name is Elise and I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. We've had many ups and downs during our time together but it is evident that we both care about each-other. He gets along with my family and I...

Fassarii

Xper 5 Age: 29

Fashion & Beauty

Show me your biggest glow up?

I looove seeing other peoples glow up’s, I’m obsessed! And I looked through old photos of me from a couple years ago, and I’m proud and happy for my glow up as well☺️ I look much younger (and I’m much happier) now too...

Anonymous

(25-29)