All Questions

Can you be friends with your ex?

I didn't become friends with my ex immediately after the breakup. I thought it is healthy to take a bit of distance and I was right. After a while, I was able to communicate with them without resentment. All my feelings...

alexsa

Xper 6 Age: 34

How long should I wait for someone to text me after a first date?

I'm fairly new to dating apps but just started using Hinge. I met a guy and we had a virtual (video chat/Skype) date. The date lasted three hours and we talked the whole time. We got along really well, and he mentioned...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I want to get revenge on him?

I met this boy at 17 on a dating app and he was my first boyfriend. the first date we hit it off. We went to college shortly after our second date and he came to visit sometimes but the problem was the drive back and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Religion & Spirituality

Are psychics or medums real? Are they modern day prophets?

novert

Xper 4 Age: 39

What does it mean when a girl send you the heart eye emoji?

Like I text hey and she said hi handsome 😍

Rt567

Xper 4 Age: 28

Guys, I am a 31 year single mom of three, my son is 16, daughters are 12 and 15, do you prefer to date a single mom?

Just after my son was born, it was so tough for me to date, now that I am a tad bid older and have one tween and two teenagers, older men 15+ years have been asking me out a lot..

momkeyana

Xper 3 Age: 37

I am black girl, why am I not attracted to black men?

Hi, I am 21 years old black lady. Ever since I became interested in opposite sex, I'd always been attracted to WHITE males only. I dunno why. I dated 4 guys, all of them were white. I went on a date with couple black...

MartinaB

Xper 5 Age: 27

Society & Politics

Which is worse pedophilia, or abortion?

Which is worse pedophilia, or abortion? Which is worse and why?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girls who'd you rather date if you had to chose?

rapfan107

Guru Age: 30

Are Asian girls prettier with blonde hair or with their natural hair?

Asian girls are pretty in general, but do you think they look better with the basic blonde ombré abg look OR do they look better with their natural black/brown hair? And why?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Flirting

Is he flirting back with me on Instagram?

So I followed him and liked an old pic and he liked one of mine back instantly does that mean anything guys does he want me to dm him does he like me

Anonymous

(25-29)

Are you ok to wear thongs if u r plus size/ chubby woman?

Are you proud of ur body whatever how it looks? So if you wanna show it off to your man or on the beach can you wear a tiny thong shows your phatty cheeks and your 🍑 gap?

hamadazopry

Xper 6 Age: 43

Girls that have their hair up to their butt or longer, why?

im not hating cause i actually like the look but i wanna know, is it cause you dont want to get a haircut, too lazy to get one, too broke, or you just like having really long hair? and guys, you know where i can find...

chriscdi

Master Age: 25

Relationships

She called me genuine. What does this mean? Am I just a friend to her or is there potential for more?

I've been in a situationship with someone for a couple months now. I've had the feeling for a while that I'm just a friend to her. We hang out and i stay the night at her house almost everyday. I sleep on the couch when I...

jmo5950

Xper 3 Age: 32

What’s Your Experience Been Like On Dating Apps?

So far it’s really good, I just started using one last night and I’ve gotten a lot of messages and likes, plus me and this one guy have a lot of chemistry

Aphrodite801

Yoda Age: 25

What does a girl snaps mean?

What does it mean if she starts an streak and keep it for 106 days? And most of the snaps are with half her face like from nose up/ eyes/forehead/ smiling eyes, wrinkled eyes/ smile face. And "goodnight snaps" like a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

How do you stop being jealous of the ex?

This guy I really like was in a serious relationship for 3 years. I can’t help but feel jealous of his ex-girlfriend even though I don’t know her and probably never will because she lives in a different state now. It’s...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why does the majority of men hate on muscular women 💪💪💪💪?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy tells you that “he wants all of you?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why Are Some Guys So Aggressive When You Make It Clear You're NOT Interested In Anything More Than Friendship?

I've noticed this a lot lately on this app... Could it be rising tensions in isolation? Maybe they're backed up so much that they channel it into aggressive energy... I don't understand why they're so mad... Like go eat a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would she ghost me?

Im into girls too and we went on a date and hooked up (well it was only me doing things for her) and we had supposed to be meeting again we texted lots and lots but she literally cancelled a few hrs before and now she...

anonbrunette99

Yoda Age: 27

Flirting

If a girl calls you a player is it a compliment?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you think men look good with kohl in their eyes?

Kohl is probably the most widely used 'cosmetic' by men from many different cultural backgrounds in history and in the present day.

CubsterShura

Editor Age: 25

He randomly told me this was his favorite song (Ed Sheeran-Perfect) Does this mean anything or just friendly conversation?

He’s 30 and I’m 23 https://www.youtube.com/embed/2Vv-BfVoq4g

Dandandan966

Xper 3 Age: 29

Religion & Spirituality

Where do you go to church?

Which denomination?

CaseyBlack

Xper 7 Age: 26

Girls, what do you usually wear under tight black dresses?

foxrider77

Yoda Age: 38

How can I convince my mom to let me get dreads?

She never lets me change my hair style. I get bored and tired of seeing the same person in the mirror. I need a change. But claims that dreads arnet a "neat and clean hairstyle". How can i convince her to let me have at...

Quisat

Xper 5 Age: 24

Health & Fitness

Are Chinese people more likely to have a lazy eye?

AllAmericanGirl99

Xper 5 Age: 27

Why do some girls wear their bikinies so high?

It may look good from the front, but from the back looks weird, especially ifbyou don't have a tiny bum. I couldn't find better pics on the internet, but for many girls it looks weirder than the example.

emmily2396

Influencer Age: 30

Why does this ex toxic friend try to contact me over social media a year after I cut off all contact and blocked her?

I was friends with this girl, and she became a toxic friend, so I decided to cut myself off from contact The reason I decided this was because she was always angry and snapping at me, and it became very unpredictable...

Anonymous

(30-35)

23 year old virgin, starting to get really depressed?

Hi everyone, it's been a while since I was last on this site, sadly not much has changed. Still a virgin at 23 which is really destroying my confidence and mental health. I've tried dating at least three different...

Gavilar1

Xper 6 Age: 29

Relationships

When a woman stops wearing her wedding ring?

Could be several reasons for this I guess. What are your thoughts?

NicolaJ35

Yoda Age: 47

I spat in his face?

I once spat in a guy’s face for being a smartass. I don’t regret doing it at all. Is this the ultimate form of disrespect?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What's the least attractive thing about you and are you doing anything to change it?

Physical or personality wise

Anonymous

(18-24)

My boyfriend likes, even reacts love on ugly girls' pictures on facebook but won't like mine?

I'm pretty attractive but my boyfriend won't like my pictures. He prefers liking and reacting love on pictures of girls who are less attractive than me. Also, they use lot of filters in their photos. Why does he not...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, need guys' help! how to get this haircut?

My boyfriend and I are finding haircuts that might suit him. The 2 by 3 or korean haircut isn't too much to his liking, and so with the curtain hairstyle. I found this one, and it matches his hair texture, but I don't...

kassnoir

Xper 3 Age: 25

Do you find multicoloured hair attractive?

This is a phenomenon I've seen a lot about. Some saying they'd rather die then date a person with pink hair, others say they find it really hot. I never see a middle-ground. So here's the question: Guy or girl, do you...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He wants to record me giving him head?

We’re not dating. I give him head and he puts his hands under his chin watching me and asked if he can record it I said no I dont trust that he won’t show it around. He said it’s for himself. I’ve never been asked that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Would you rather go into the past and meet your ancestors or go into the future and meet your great-great grandchildren?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

Can a man work in child protective services?

I may sound dumb asking that but I only see women represent CPS, I love kids myself and want them to be safe.

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend lifted up my skirt in public?

Today we were hanging out outside , his neighbor was mowing the lawn and I was wearing a skirt : suddenly he lifted up my skirt so my ass was out. He said he didn’t think the neighbor saw and if he did he was lucky. Girls...

Anonymous

(30-35)