Usually, a breakup happens after lots of problems pile up, and there are many warning signs. You should be able to tell, but that isn't always the case. Sometimes a breakup can suddenly happen out of the blue, but nevertheless, here are some tell-tale signs of a breakup.
Long Terms of Unhappiness
Long terms or large quantities of dissatisfaction are big red lights. Repeated periods of doubt and unhappiness, anger, disappointment, or hurt happen frequently and for a long time, a breakup is imminent.
Ups and Downs
Some ups and downs are normal and healthy in a relationship. But too many is not a healthy relationship. A giant increase in the quantity of ups and downs is a serious warning. Yes, they are normal to an extent, but be wary.
Little Commitment from the Start
Not being very commited to the relationship in the very start of it is a huge red flag. Even if it wasn't serious in the beginning, if the level of commitment, consideration, and care didn't grow throughout the relationship, then be warned.
Imagining Splitting Apart
When you begin to wonder what it would be like to be single again, divorce, etc, that is a sign.Imagining what it would be like to break it off and be on your own says something, especially if you're making concrete plans in anticipation for separation.
Disagreements
Maybe small disagreements quickly escalate into huge fights more and more often. Maybe one or both of you always feels bad, for example, they feel disapointed, angry, bored, hurt, or taken for granted. This can be caused by the possibility that one of you is pushing for more commitment than the other wants to give, which can lead to laughing and talking less together than you used to.
Lack of Passion
Living like friends or siblings, a totally platonic love, is also a sign. Yes, you can love each other, but you aren't intimate. And even if you do have sex, its less "making love" and more going through the actions. Something just isn't quite right romantically/emotionally.
Communication
Your conversations do not include personal things anymore, and you hardly know much about what they are doing. You argue and complain about the same things again and again. You can never come to an agreement or a compromise, in small and big issues. Whenever you try to have deep or meaningful conversations, your frustrated or hurt feelings arise. You are talking less and less and your lives grow apart. Maybe one or both of you has been acting odd lately and ignoring each other. You may break each other's promises to not want to put in the effort in being kind anymore.
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