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You should of warned someone of his suicide threats. You should feel guilty for not trying to help him.
I did try to contact his friends. I got their phone no.'s (didnt know them) and tried calling them. Nobody picked up because they were all too busy with THEIR academic life
You should of contacted his parents. You didn't do enough.
Do you think that didn't come to my mind?
Did you do it?
Yes I did. He obviously woudnt give me his parents no. But I did go to the school authorities and tried to find some info and contact no, s but they refused to give meany information.
She didn't have to do a thing. Put in her position I wouldn't have even tried or care. I'd tell my ex to kill herself and move of with my life without any guilt.
@Scorpio909 Psycopathy at its finest.
No You should not be blamed he took his own he had some problems if it as not you breaking up with it would been something else he is responsible for his own actions
I don't know you dont sound sad at all that he died
Should she? If one of my exes committed suicide I wouldn't care.
Wow this describes my last relationship perfectly and now everyone in the school and community (he lived in another town) hates me and I have been called a mankiller and they mad it really tough on my new boyfriend but you did the right thing no one deserves to be treated like that good for you for recognizing this and getting out while you could.
No u shouldn't... u shouldn't have to be emotionally blackmailed into dating someone that you don't want to date anymore. :-P
He killed himself because he wanted to. Unless you took his life with your hands (literally) you are free of blame.
He was depressed and broken it's not entirely your fault.. It's a shame and sorry for your loss
Taking your life over one person is not worth it so no it's not your fault this guy just needed a therapist... to bad he couldn't get help before things got out hand.
Of course some guys will say it's your fault.
Its just the mentality of men today. Everything is the fault of the woman.
No I don't see you as the person to blame for this... He must have a lot of other issues that caused him to kill himself. So don't blame yourself, mourn his death and wish a peaceful resting but DO NOT blame yourself.
No you cannot be blamed. Although i feel bad for him. This was too much...
i was at one of my all time lows when my first girlfriend broke up with me. but i never thought about taking my own life... thats just not normal
with that being said, no, i dont think you are one to blame. he had his own issues going on
That was not love. It was obsession. Its not your fault at all. Anyone who commits suicide especially for a partner is for me stupid. He was stupid.
He had a severe mental disorder, probably
Ah, no. "he threatened suicide" repeatedly? Guy had mental issues that needed serious help.
I noticed a trend when one commits suicide due to a breakup. Man commits suicide = not the woman's fault. Woman commits suicide = it's everyone's fault, ESPECIALLY the man's. Who's really empowered in today's society? #mgtow
Nope. If people kill themselves over that then they deserve to die. I really wish my ex was like that, she being a really annoying bitch still.
fuck you.
@FreyaDiermayr Okay.
If people are gonna kill themselves, they will do it regardless. Its not your fault
People are soon going to start blaming me, I don't know what to say? Or how to respond
Only peeps who will "blame" you are people who NEED someone to blame, its far easier to do that than allow yourself to accept it
pay no mind, you ain't in the wrong at all
And I was right to keep my academics a priority, right?
Makes no difference.
if someone is going to kill themselves, they will.
you were trying to live YOUR life, that's nothing to be blamed
i don't think anyone will blame you… except maybe imature kids who don't know what life is yet.
It's absolutely not your fault, suicide is a completely selfish act and you shouldn't feel bad at all.
no ov course not... its his problem cause he's old enuf to make his own decisions and u shudnt b blamed 4 other ppls decisions.
Wow you must have really REALLY hurt him. Poor chap. RIP. He gave you his all.
Some men don't know how heartless women can be, I hope you're happy now.
What he did was irrational and I never asked him to do that. I always told him to keep his life prior to mine. How does that make me the bad guy?
You're one to speak ill of the dead. Making him seem like a bad guy even now... He might have had issues but you certainly made things much worse, and you know it
The thing is, he expected a lot from me, which included giving up my life, dreams, and career for him, just because he kept me a priority. And I cpuldnt do that. Do you think I was wrong to care about MY OWN life this time? I never asked him to keep me prior
It seems like you're desperate to feel like the good guy here and not acknowledge your fault in this. The faults only you know about.
and women criticize players lol..
players are gonna keep playin.
In other words, if you're being emotionally manipulated to stay in a miserable relationship, YOU'RE the bad person.
Makes perfect sense.
This guy manipulated her and used fear to keep her from leaving him. That's terrible! She had every right to escape the situation, nobody should have to deal with that kind of bullshit. He was a horrible, selfish person. It's not her fault he went batshit crazy and wasted himself.
Yes, I AM in desperate need to feel good. I actually need support. I haven't told anyone about how our relationship was.
The thing is, he expected a lot from me, which included giving up my life, dreams, and career for him, just because he kept me a priority. And I cpuldnt do that. Do you think I was wrong to care about MY OWN life this time? And let me tell you one more thing, we are Indians, and if I, didn't get into a good college this year, my parents would've got me married (Yes arranged marriages here) by 20-21. And I don't want that. I've been working all my life to get into a good college. So I think my decision was justified
I had to write exactly what I wrote in my first comment. Because I don't think I made it clear
Calm down and go to the end of the earth to make yourself feel good. But you'll always know your part in this. Amen.