So, my mom wants to go back to where we originally lived, and I want to stay where I am now, because I can't stand the thought of being away from my boyfriend and not being able to see him. Thinking about that hurts so much, because I love him... Anyways,I thought of a way I just may be able to stay in the area, and I'm going to stick to it. It'll take awhile though to get everything I need pulled together, though, but I want this more than I've ever wanted anything... I plan on living on my own and staying in the place where we've been living for the past couple of years or so now. I haven't told my boyfriend my plan, but my mom is aware of it, and she said that she's not going to force me to move with her. But today on my Facebook, she asked me if I was really sure that I wanted to stay behind when she decides to move, and I told her yes, because I have one reason to stay here, and that reason is very, very important to me. My boyfriend read it, and I think he got that the reason why I want to stay is because of him, and he wrote that he wants to know my reason, and that he doesn't want to hold me back... What does that mean...? Could it mean that he doesn't want me around? I wrote that I'm doing this because I want to and I would rather endure the hardships I might go through trying to get my plan to work than not be with him, and that he's not holding me back at all, as this was all my decision, and I've been thinking about it for quite some time... So far, I haven't received an answer back, and I'm a bit scared... Is there a possibility he's going to just give up on me...?
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Sounds like he isn't entirely aware of his self worth, or just how much he means to you. I don't see it in any way shape or form that he means that he doesn't want you around, simply that he thinks that sticking with him, might forego a better life or more opportunities if you were to go with your mother. I would, just as you have, reassure him you care about him and want to be with him more than anything at the moment. And in the meantime there is no use worrying yourself silly over something that may not even be an issue once you talk it over with him.2