It's a mistake that you decide to do. A decision requires time to think about your actions and it's consequences. It would depend on the situation, but in most circumstances a girl doesn't have enough time to think about it. That doesn't take away any responsibility or make it right, because if she really cared about you then a girl wouldn't ever even take being with another guy into consideration. It would be out of the question.
Contradictory. You say basically it was an intentional act that was unintentional... Girls... You are corect... GIRLS... WOMEN are accountable for all decisions in life, even spur of the moment. So you imply that a girl can't be accountable for their actions spur of the moment?
I leabe the term of "mistake" for if I were to smash my finger with a hammer when I was aiming for a nail. So you think it is a mistake if the hand was the inteded target and regret of the resulting pain?
I don't know what destiny13 will say, but I can explain if you want!
it's a DECISION!
First because yeah you know what you're doing.Second you're giving into something you like at that particular moment-it's your decision to 'give in'.
People that cheat think that they're gonna 'miss out on life' or something...i think it's selfish in a way,cause it makes them care more only about themselves.
No. People use the term "mistake" contextually incorrect. I am basing the term upon how it is generally used and interpreted... IE: people use "mistake" as an unintended circumstance that is forgivable. If you decided to cheat, it is in no way unintentional.
Uh, yes it can. A person decides to do something that is a mistake. It happens all the time, & I believe all cases of cheating are decisions that are mistakes.
So it can be whereas someone accidentally fell on a d***? I don't think so.
NO MISTAKE, DELIBERATE ACT OF SELFISHNESS AND BETRAYAL.
I told my ex to stop trying to blow smoke up my ass saying it was a "mistake"... No offense, but anyone that says it is a mistake, I look at them as if they are attempting to blow smoke up another person's ass... People use "mistake" in a sense of, "You can forgive me right? because I did not mean to do that..." Bullsh*t if you ask me...
I know that I was with my girlfriend one night and she got drunk off her butt! She kissed a random guy and didn't even know what she was doing...in her case it was a major MISTAKE. She didn't mean to do it at all and she didn't even know she did it the next day. Of course I never told her!
And you have people like my father who cheated on my mother 4 times and totally made the DECISION to cheat on her...he thought about it and entertained the thought and cheated...that's a decision in my opinion...
In both cases, I look at it as a decision... I see no mistake. She chose to get drunk off her ass as you put it, and decided to act stupid instead of maintaining a bearing of control over herself.
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decision.
at some point in time you want to be with that person no matter how much you "love" your other half.
Undoubtedly a decision, unless if you weren't sober.
But I agree with the "series of bad decisions."
A relationship means dedication, if you can't offer that then why be in a relationship in the first place?
I don't think drunkardness is a valid excuse either...
its already pretty f***ed up to cheat, but you also have to realize what your doing
Feels good, but morally wrong...sometims the feels good wins...
It's a mistake that you decide to do. A decision requires time to think about your actions and it's consequences. It would depend on the situation, but in most circumstances a girl doesn't have enough time to think about it. That doesn't take away any responsibility or make it right, because if she really cared about you then a girl wouldn't ever even take being with another guy into consideration. It would be out of the question.
Contradictory. You say basically it was an intentional act that was unintentional... Girls... You are corect... GIRLS... WOMEN are accountable for all decisions in life, even spur of the moment. So you imply that a girl can't be accountable for their actions spur of the moment?
I leabe the term of "mistake" for if I were to smash my finger with a hammer when I was aiming for a nail. So you think it is a mistake if the hand was the inteded target and regret of the resulting pain?
It's a decision. A really bad decision. You know it's wrong but do it anyway
cheating is fire. You can't predict period.
Bad decision
DECISION!
Your explaination? A reason to your conclusion, if you will?
I don't know what destiny13 will say, but I can explain if you want!
it's a DECISION!
First because yeah you know what you're doing.Second you're giving into something you like at that particular moment-it's your decision to 'give in'.
People that cheat think that they're gonna 'miss out on life' or something...i think it's selfish in a way,cause it makes them care more only about themselves.
Personally,i share your view on this!
i agree with Lamia!
agreed
Decision.
why would this get a thumbs down? It can be both, this isn't a dichotomy
Decision. Completely intentional
Both.
Either one ot the other. No "both".
Well you know what you're doing is wrong, you DECIDE to do it anyway. But then you feel bad and know it was a MISTAKE.
No. People use the term "mistake" contextually incorrect. I am basing the term upon how it is generally used and interpreted... IE: people use "mistake" as an unintended circumstance that is forgivable. If you decided to cheat, it is in no way unintentional.
both
It can not be both...
Uh, yes it can. A person decides to do something that is a mistake. It happens all the time, & I believe all cases of cheating are decisions that are mistakes.
So it can be whereas someone accidentally fell on a d***? I don't think so.
NO MISTAKE, DELIBERATE ACT OF SELFISHNESS AND BETRAYAL.
I told my ex to stop trying to blow smoke up my ass saying it was a "mistake"... No offense, but anyone that says it is a mistake, I look at them as if they are attempting to blow smoke up another person's ass... People use "mistake" in a sense of, "You can forgive me right? because I did not mean to do that..." Bullsh*t if you ask me...
Decision.
it depends...
Depends on what, then?
like if you're drunk .. ?
Well, Alcohol is a sorry ass excuse... But I went over that before... Check the bottom male answer as for my take on alcohol as an excuse...
I know that I was with my girlfriend one night and she got drunk off her butt! She kissed a random guy and didn't even know what she was doing...in her case it was a major MISTAKE. She didn't mean to do it at all and she didn't even know she did it the next day. Of course I never told her!
And you have people like my father who cheated on my mother 4 times and totally made the DECISION to cheat on her...he thought about it and entertained the thought and cheated...that's a decision in my opinion...
In both cases, I look at it as a decision... I see no mistake. She chose to get drunk off her ass as you put it, and decided to act stupid instead of maintaining a bearing of control over herself.
cheating is wrong
In your opinion.
If you disagree, you are a terrible person